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I have been there....paid for years...It should be a two way street!
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I was recently put on child support, though IT MUST BE noted I freely paid support to my soon to be ex wife, gave her money to do what she needed to do, kept her out of jail for a stupid felony she did and gave her a Queen's Ransom when it came to income tax returns and money from my Army bonus was used to buy HER SUV...so I was mad as fuck once paperwork was mailed to me...at least there is an established system now though, but I don't like it lolol and I'm trying to feel good about the situation still cuz now it feels like a business arrangement in order for me to be around my kid though there is no visitation/custody issue (at this time). I do wish it was more of a FAIR system for both sides but as a man I wouldn't want the mom paying me unless there was a huge discrepancy in pay for whatever reason and I'm in custody and even then it would feel weird...IDK..I just wish that the dads like me who not only financially supported baby and mom, but are actual FIGURES in their childs lives get screwed regardless via the mom AND court system
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