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Got slapped  

AceoverEight 50M
60 posts
4/16/2014 11:34 am
Got slapped


At the gym this morning doing my work out and my terribly bad date from Saturday showed up there to talk to me because I have not really responded back to her text messages except to say sorry, I am too busy to talk right now.
I was looking forward to my date with her, but she got super drunk off seven double rye and cokes (I didn't order them, she must have slung back a couple when I was in the bathroom but there they were on the bill with my two beers), and made a bit of a scene when she knocked everything off the table. I decided after she cleared everything off that it was time to take her home. When I refused to partake in a little drunk sex with her - which is so not my thing I like my women to be present and not ready to throw up when I fuck them, she got real angry with me and called me an asshole a few times, that she went all out and got new this and that and for what....the guilt trip was fun. She even threw her house keys at me when I said no I am just not into fucking a drunk bitch. So I went to look for her keys as I was being a gentleman still while she stood there crying and having a fit, and she proceeded to call me a couple of more choice names. So I stood up, said you know what, have a good night, went to my car and left her there to figure things out on her own.
She comes into the gym, stands beside me and says hi, can we talk. And I said sure. So we go over to the side and she said why have you been so distant and I said well, I mean come on you went a little overboard with the drinking and I am not into drunk sex, sorry, just need some time to shake it off. She said she never went overboard with her drinking, and that she was nervous. Now I have talked to a couple of people I know and nerves is like one double, but seven doubles is a problem. She then said she's never drank like that before, and she doesn't know what happened and she can't remember what she said to me when I took her home.
This is where I got a little pissed off. First of all she comes to the gym I work out to talk to me because I won't respond to her texts - fine. I am being an asshole on that one, I should have manned up and told her straight out look leave me alone, take a hint. But to lie to me - I would respect it more if she said yeah I did get drunk, I called you names, I made a scene and I am owning up to it. I don't need "I am sorry" routine - that does not fly with me. I would rather people own up to their shit. I respect that.
So I told her that I am just not into her, I don't really like it when people straight out lie to me and might be an alcoholic - to which she said she wasn't - and I said look, you are in my gym, these are my friends around here, they will all stand here one by one and tell you that I do not put up with guilt games, tears do nothing for me unless I care about a person, and I am not attracted to you after I saw how ugly you get when you do get drunk.
I got the 11:30 am slap to the face. Women know how to slap a guy, I will give them that. Not sure I deserved it, but it gave her a good reason to click her fucking loud ass high heels out of the gym.
If it makes her feel better to blame everyone else but herself, fine. I will be the guy to do that because it really is no skin off my ass.

Women just have to be in charge. I always forget that.

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
4/16/2014 11:53 am

Looks like you dodged a bullet with that one! Sneaking drinks? That's a little whack!


AceoverEight replies on 4/16/2014 4:23 pm:
I know, right?

dreemerz642 59F
28 posts
4/16/2014 3:11 pm

So is this the girl you thought you were going to get lucky with from your 4/11/14 posting?
And you were right in what you did, I wouldn't put up with that either.

Enjoyed reading your posts, made me lol a few times.
I like your "Don't give a shit attitude", I am the same way.


AceoverEight replies on 4/16/2014 4:24 pm:
Yes it sure was. Would have been an altogether different post if she didnt get wasted.

itzchic824 37F
2811 posts
5/26/2014 1:08 pm

Yeah you didn't deserve it that time.

I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!

Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!


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