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SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
6/8/2015 2:54 am

I am sure porn has something to do with this.

But then again, blokes with tiny dicks have always been ridiculed as far as I know.

But then notice how all the classical Grecian and Roman statues show males with almost childlike equipment. And I never saw one of them ever get a boner.

Perhaps being a very attractive young lady you would have more luck at that than me.

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HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
6/8/2015 3:29 am

Hi Calypso, There is an Old song that goes "It ain't what you've got, it's the way that you use it! That's what gets results".
I would never claim to have a large Penis, more like small to average, but I am a happy and enthusiastic lover and it works for me.
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Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
6/8/2015 3:48 am

As HamburgDave2 says it is not the size that matters but how you use it. This applies to both men and women.

Each person knows what they like and that is all that matters.

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manninp 66M
2660 posts
6/8/2015 3:55 am

You are correct CF in that there are many women who after the John Holmes wannabe, and they get really nasty if they cannot get it either, if you do not measure up....as well as there is a lot of women who say that "size does not matter" that when you turn up under length than they want they get nasty and dismissive too...so size big or whatever is like beauty...in the holder of same....and you are great looking "youngen"......lol


lomileage5 68M
10248 posts
6/8/2015 3:55 am

true happiness results when 2 people forge an emotional connection and savor each others company,regardless of size or body structure


lookin4funinBC9 63M
1386 posts
6/8/2015 3:59 am

Nicely said I don't have a problem with my man hood. I realize making love to a woman is more than just shoving my d!(k into her! Learning where to touch, kiss and whispering to her how hot she is. True joy is going down on your partner and making her have the big O before you have sex!


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
6/8/2015 4:20 am

I have always wondered about that. I am sure that there are those that want or desire that size, but what I have seen, it looks incredibly uncomfortable. when there are extremes.

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cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
6/8/2015 4:49 am

All I know is, I have never had a complaint.. I also love the first time being with someone new and she for the first time either massages my hard on through my pants, or reaches in my pants for the first time.. I've gotten a few OMG and oh my's along the way.. The rest of me may be average and a little over weight, but the Lord did bless me there..


HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
6/8/2015 4:56 am

    Quoting  :

I always claim to have the smallest and prettiest

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
6/8/2015 5:00 am

hmm, some people love the feel of being stretched and full. Some don't like that feeling....that is why people find their own kink and own it!

I am average and I am proud of it....lol...average in size.

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Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
6/8/2015 7:46 am

here is our perspective

1. it aint gettin any bigger, so work with what you got
2. big dick is like big tits...okay, now what are you really going to do with it
3. if one's best attribute is that they have a big dick, then they are what they have
4. a woman, in love, will always say her man is the biggest and best in bed
5. a woman out of love will retract above statement
6. there are many ways skin a cat, and many ways to please a pussy
7. likely more big dick have been kicked out of bed than those with small dicks - yay the pitty fuck...lol
8. enjoy lookin at mcMansions and fast cars too...but even if money wasnt a factor, how practical are they.
9. dont have a big dick so took the time to write why avg is better
10. difference between oohh and awe - about 3"


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
6/8/2015 8:08 am

I don't know what the talk is all about big cock! You can't change a person so why try.. You get what they have and that is it.. If you really have no place for a big cock to go it sure isn't going any where is it Love ? hugsssssss V

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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
6/8/2015 12:33 pm

First off let me start by saying, I am quite versed in this category today. I have a very tight and small vagina, and I prefer the larger endowed men myself. And the trick is you must be very relaxed and take your time. And you must be well drenched as well. Taking a very slow start and letting your momentum build. Not all can handle a larger man. However, I can say practice makes perfect, and if your giving a bj, same thing learn to relax those mouth and throat muscles they will truly love you for it..Have a wonderful afternoon my friend..great blog..

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Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
6/8/2015 3:22 pm

Well, it is like guys want women with big boobs and women want guys with big cock. Whenever is what I say. The entertainment system has program us to wanting "bigger is better". There is a whole lot more body than those few parts.


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able202 63M
3108 posts
6/8/2015 7:21 pm

I just have an average cock but would rather rely on experience, imagination and my tongue and fingers as well. I have been with women who are too loose and had to use my hand to help me cum. I think as long as both enjoy the experience it is all that matters.... great post

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2trythis 60F
5109 posts
6/8/2015 7:35 pm

I'll add my .02¢ worth, I prefer an average size or smaller. The larger ones tend to be uncomfortable as I get older. If I could design my perfect cock it would be more about the girth and the shape of the head than the length. Good post CF.


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
6/8/2015 9:36 pm

    Quoting  :

I'd like to personally measure just for the record...maybe over a weekend or 6 days

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
6/8/2015 9:37 pm

I think this is all a matter of personal preference for each individual woman. For WHATEVER reason. Period.

But I am glad average is good enough for most women

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
6/9/2015 6:27 am

    Quoting  :

What I am curious to know...is why you want to see 2tt's answer to something I posed to author51



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kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
6/9/2015 8:36 pm

    Quoting  :

Lap lingus... ..uhhh...you want me to lick your lap?...okay!!

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EasyriderNM 64M
3074 posts
6/11/2015 12:39 am

Hi, Milady C.

Given that I'm more into LTRs or at least monogamy with a current Lady, I haven't been with that many women. But I've talked with quite a few. Most all of the gals preferred 7-8" on a guy who knows what he is doing. The girls with shorter vaginal canals (surprisingly, some tall chicks among them) say 7 is their limit. Then there are the smaller group who are the size queens.

The bottom line was that they'll ALL take as much talented cock as they can handle. For some gals, that's not much, but most women are simply being tactful when they say that smaller guys are OK. Sorry, dudes.

Of course, we have to consider that the measuring technique can vary, if there was a real measure taken at all. At the beginning of our 5 year relationship, my babe was doing something strange with her hand while I was lying there, just laying it flat along my cock, fingertips on that intersection with my abs, and letting her arm align with it, so she could eyeball where my tip was above her wrist. She admitted that she was going to get a ruler and "guesstimate" the length later.
I got her ruler and she took an accurate measure.

I still wonder how many Ladies actually do a proper measurement, 90*, on the top, of their guy before making boasts around their friends. Or for that matter, how they determine what they can handle, without using a tape or ruler.

"OK, baby. I'm measuring from your asshole to the tip, just like you said ... OMFG! You're NINE INCHES!!!"

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EasyriderNM 64M
3074 posts
6/11/2015 12:43 am

Oh, in the top pic, that guy is huge, but there's also the perspective/camera distance trick going on there. Hell, in my bathtub pic, I look like I'm 15" long!

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hightops40 46M
89 posts
6/11/2015 2:04 pm

Its all about how you use it.


charmer21045 54M
33 posts
6/15/2015 9:12 am

The industry have alot to do with it I don't think there is a large number of women out there that want a BIG DICK jamming that Tight hole although I believe there are those who endure and enjoy PAIN as a turn on. As the saying goes whatever floats your boat I know I can bring PLEASURE and more with my 6 1/2 average Dick


niceblgsman 63M  
12 posts
6/15/2015 7:06 pm

Most of the women I have been with can't take all of me without it hurting and I do not consider myself to be really large. They do like the girth but since they are so shallow I am careful not to bottom out. It is all personal preference I guess but as long as you find someone that is careful it can be very enjoyable.


cozzycouple 66M/66F  
588 posts
6/16/2015 10:31 pm

Take out the pics of anal sex as we are referencing dicks and pussies and the amount of it comes to large blokes and very very petite women, which is as quoted what the porn industry puts forward for the majority as "normal". These tow topics together make for a good lead in for conversation and feedback.....but reality is not a profitable market so go to the spectrum ends.
If though a woman craves a big cock let her feel it for the pleasure or pain she is going to receive.


cpl4sex1000 62M/60F
2 posts
6/17/2015 3:54 am

You touched on a subject that has created many issues with both men and the ladies. As a cpl that's been in the lifestyle for 16 yrs we have ran across this from both sides. the lady here does not like very large cocks , as you said she's very tight , of average depth and not into pain. She has had a cpl men that were 8-9" but they were caring lovers. She's also had men that were below average and had a great time with them. As for the male half he's not what a lot on here call long but above average what he does have is thickness which seems to be what more ladies prefer when being slow and gentle at first. Although most do not want anything to do with anal sex with him but some have no problem. Bottom line men , if you average down below, become a skilled lover and perfect your oral skills you'll be alright with most. The size Queen's of the world are special ladies and that's just who they are, but most ladies are not.


rm_dalilad 70M
1322 posts
6/18/2015 8:49 pm

I've been looking at some porn from the early 70's; aside from a few outlying performers most of the actors had average bodies (this is before most actresses had implants). The guys were like a cross section you'd see at any mens public locker room, most average length, one or two well endowed and one or two visibly smaller than average.
I think the culprit is less 'the porn industry' and more images in general. People don't want to read paragraphs, they just want 30 or 40 characters quickly dispensed. They don't want a particular real person they want a generalized image—largest dick, biggest breasts, most insertions, it isn't the industry, it is the way the audience wants to interact with its present environment.
Novels still exist, but people want the cliff notes—or the movie.


supertime692004 56M  
100 posts
6/19/2015 8:25 pm

If a woman wants to get into pain all good for her, I like a sexy right or average Pussy to enjoy. As long as we both get pleasure life is good


rm_dalilad 70M
1322 posts
6/20/2015 8:58 pm

Sorry I started you off down a rabbit hole of ideas. All the industries (food, music, porn etc) seem like they are giving the public what it wants, but in every age quality has always been there, and people prefer quality, if they can get it. Burger King may sell the most 'food', but everyone really wants to go out to a quality restaurant, or better yet have something fresh and healthy cooked at home by someone who really enjoys cooking.
No matter how high the ratings of 'x-factor' or other flashy talent shows, people still go back to listening to quality music (Beatles, Sinatra, Mozart etc). They forget who won those popularity contests just a few years later.
Porn is trickier because personal biases and fears come up. There was great, often thoughtful and romantic porn done in the seventies that never got covered in Ms magazine, for example. They didn't have a way to reconcile the product with their ideals, at that point. No sane person actually wants to hurt other people; sex is tricky because some of the best sex can seem aggressive (possibly abusive) to an outside observer, reconciling this is at the heart of being human, I think. We all usually prefer comfort, but occasionally like to be pushed. If we're not challenged, mentally and psychically, boredom will set in—boredom is death.
I'm actually very hopeful for the future; we're having this conversation, aren't we?


BOSTONGUY53 40M
129 posts
6/21/2015 2:50 pm

watch less porn and find someone who loves u and every little bit of u....more or less its all about love and orgasms !!!!!!!


ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
6/25/2015 8:34 pm

A couple of commenters touched on one or two of the essentials but most either walked around or don't understand the real details.

The stretching of any flesh exposes millions more nerve endings. So even a small wiener is going to stretch her spots if even a little. I wonder if wide and long is an attempt to compensate for a lack of overall sensitivity.

But, too big - is too big - and there is a downfall to it all.

As one or two mentioned, too tall and she can not accept 100% of it. In this, she'll never get to "bottom out" as they've said - this is the ability to rest pelvis to pelvis - which allows her to secretly (not unusual) rub or stimulate parts of her pubis, clitoris and labia on his pubis during intercourse. Touching pelvises is essential if she is going to be able to relax once inserted - otherwise, she must prop herself up when on top and never get to secretly (and comfortably) stimulate herself while having intercourse.

For him, he'll never experience being completely immersed in her love pocket(s). And while she might manage to fit girth or length of a super-sized wiener during oral, there won't be room for his juices. So it will cause her to choke, force retraction which ends stimulation and as a result likely reduce ejaculation of his juice or she would have to learn to immediately swallow every drop - as in force feeding and it may come out her nose. Hardly pleasurable for most women.

A wide girth has similar affects during oral. If its too wide, she may never get to go deep (even on shorter lengths) enough to reach maximum stimulation most capable women can achieve with a narrower or normal girth. To never have a women who can go deep - during oral or intercourse - What fun it that?

On the other hand for vaginal insertion, length works best for standing positions and for a woman who doesn't know how or when to rotate her pelvis. While a super-sized girth may expose more of the nerve endings at the opening and deep inside her vagina, real pleasure is associated with the ability to relax once the projectile has been accepted. If it feels like giving birth, it’s really not that pleasurable so she'll experience a limited range of pleasures. Notably those pleasures associated with a certain amount of pain.

The average size wiener provides a wider range of pleasures, it can reach different angles for variations and lend more of the possibility to penetrate her anus - if she so desires. And, any desire to experience a super-sized length and/or girth can be augmented by and achieved with toys. This permits her to selectively enjoy a super-sized projectile while allowing both of them to maintaining access to a wider variety of stimulations and pleasures.

Doctors say the vagina will accept any size penis. What they don't say is the same thing that happens to those that stretch their ears with the latest in wide African earrings or some tribes around the world that shape their babies heads and stretch their necks - it becomes permanent.

Tight, really tight isn't always desirable. Pinch the glad of a fully erect penis and watch the erection go away. Clamping down on his shaft at the vaginal opening is similar to a "grip it and rip it" style of hand job - this simulates the shaft but not the glad which keeps him erect and is required to reach an orgasm. A super cock will never (rarely) experience the feel of being immersed inside her in such a way that her kitten feels like a glove completely wrapped around his projectile and naturally gripping it as a reaction to the stimuli of his presence.

<> Happy to have a tinny, tiny, wienie - well, you'll have to find out on your own.

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getlucky2132 45M
4996 posts
6/28/2015 8:41 pm

I dunno if mine could be called huge, but I have had a few encounters that just weren't matched right, even with lube.....when it was available. Never had no virgin, for a long time when I was a wee teenager I had too have sex with chic's older then I, not bad thing, just a numbers and "click" thing! Sill have somewhat of a problem with getting a BJ every now and then.

See an older post of something similar: [blog The Plight Of Having] Me whining about it!

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goldenrule102 63M
589 posts
6/30/2015 1:17 pm

I live by the saying one size doesn't fit all. Thats right no shame here. If what I got it's working for her oh well just tell me and I will move on. Honesty goes a long way in life. What the hell flame that's the best I can come with.


DoMyWifePleeze 58M/54F  
9 posts
6/30/2015 3:26 pm

At just above average, I sometimes hurt my wife. Gotta change positions or something at times. The passion is on hold until then. It does not increase. Ditto the porn as cause.


goldenrule102 63M
589 posts
6/30/2015 8:21 pm

Show me heart and I will show you perserverance. It's all behavioral science babe. It's a skeleton in the closest that they can't tell a true love. A secret that will keep an relationship sick.


goldenrule102 63M
589 posts
7/1/2015 7:29 am

Point well taken and I apologize Calypos.


getlucky2132 45M
4996 posts
7/1/2015 9:58 am

    Quoting  :

I've known women that were into anal, and just straight up said no.....it's too thick!

......I'm sure it could wear your watch, maybe have too take it a notch or two bigger than it is on your wrist?



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lukeorlucas 43M
449 posts
7/1/2015 7:40 pm

too many experts to consult for this one but was i the only one who noticed most of those pics seemed to be anal so maybe that factors in there some how


allerogila 66M/65F  
6 posts
7/2/2015 6:13 pm

well, i don't think that small cock on classic statues tells or means much. they probably pay attention more to the whole body beauty than to size of penis. also small not erected penis doesn't really = to small erected one. nature does magic in many cases.


Make_U_Cum2016 55M/52F  
2113 posts
7/5/2015 9:16 pm

I fisted a women before......literally half way to my elbow........hard.

Then.....I fucked her with my cock...........and I am not big....she still loved it....and came.

And...she even felt tight AFTER I fisted her. She is a Asian woman.

So......I think tightness might be a muscle thing.......not an actual pussy or anal loose or size thing.

Possibly.

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itaintagame 56M

7/7/2015 9:03 am

I dunno what these chicks be talking about with these horse penises can you see them walking after that kinda sex? looking like they rode a donkey down the grand canyon I'm glad I'm not a real big dude, slightly above average and it has worked well for me. I always get a call back. I did have one chick tell me I wasn't her cup of tee and me being the sarcastic azz am told well next time I'll shove my foot in instead not to mention I needed a board across my back so I didn't get sucked into the vortex ok I'm stupid sorry.

Please, just call me diggy.


texasfitone 44M  
8 posts
7/7/2015 3:28 pm

"Know how" trumps size any day. It amuses me how many men on this site exaggerate the size of their cocks. I think some of these methods they're using to measure need to be reevaluated. Just please your partner and pay attention to her needs and everyone can have an amazing experience.


FerraraManuel 36M
4 posts
9/22/2015 11:56 pm

my cock is 16 cm and I was thinking to make it bigger with operations in hospital. So,I dont need? My cock isnot 20 cm and more.So, I didnt put my cock pic here.


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