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Straight guys and trans girls...  

un_dressed2_kill 38T
0 posts
12/18/2014 2:19 am
Straight guys and trans girls...

Curious on the opinion of the crowd here.
In your point of view can a guy be or consider himself straight if he likes trans girls?

This question crosses into a few social arguments like gender identity vs sexual orientation, socially perceived sexuality vs self perception, etc I am also ignoring or making the pre/post-op aspect of the question irrelevant and forcing the simplification of responses by making the choice binary, either a yes or a no. Comments are always interesting though.

Please keep responses respectful even if you disagree.

My response is yes, but I look forward to seeing how others see things from their differing viewpoints/experiences.
Yes of course.
No, I cant agree that a guy can be straight and also like TS girls.


Black_Hills 52M
193 posts
10/8/2015 12:59 pm

Thought-provoking question. For me, the answer is yes because I'm not attracted to men while I find the femininity expressed by many TG females to be extremely attractive. At a sexual level, TG femininity fuels my male desires and my role as a "top," as they say. On an interpersonal level, I relate and connect with TG women that express the female role. Of course, in some ways gender is simply a male social construct with biblical roots as well as the patriarchal goal of keeping women subservient. I try not to subscribe to that or limit myself, though as I stated I'm drawn to expressed femininity. Basically, I surround myself with good loving grateful healthy happy people (who happen look really sexy in lingerie...lol). Take care, all!


BrittandBo 49M/35F
20 posts
12/30/2014 6:35 pm

If it looks like a girl duck, quacks like a girl duck, and has all the girl ducky parts involved, do you question the sexual orientation of the male duck that fucks the duck? No, you do not. The male duck doesn't care what the girl duck was before, he thinks she'll be laying him a ducky egg or three after their gestation period.
Since, all things considered, you are inquiring to the sexual orientation of men that like trans-girls, should you not consider what "trans" they are? If Man A is straight and sleeps with Woman A and finds out after that she's a transgender(operations complete), then he's straight, because Woman A is for all intents and purposes a woman. Moving on to Man B, who sleeps with Woman A, then moves on to Woman B, who happens to be a transsexual and current male parts involved. If Man B plays with said parts and enjoys it, but does not have a desire to sleep with other men, then he is undefined in the grey murky muck between straight and bi. Man C, on the other hand, parades around as Woman C and tries to sleep with Man A, Man B, and Man D, but can only manage a date and grope session with Man B and goes all the way with Man D. Man C is what we call confused and when he finds out what his cup of tea is, we'll get back to him. Man D sleeps with Man E and Wo/Man C and Woman B and Woman A and is therefore bi. Man E only sleeps with Man D and he is gay.

I'm sure that there are countless other scenarios out there, but then you get into the grey murky muck that we still aren't quite sure what to define it as other than strange.


HotHawynnLV 61M
5 posts
12/25/2014 6:52 am

My answer is simply yes for the reason being that I speak from experience. I have had 2 experiences with transgender, one being a one night stand and the other a actual relationship for 6 months. With that being said,I'm currently seeking female companionship after being in a 21 year marriage which now puts me in the widower status. If I end up being with a transgender, I would embrace the relationship as I would with another female. Hope I stayed within the question at hand.


un_dressed2_kill replies on 12/25/2014 2:43 pm:
Thank you very much for the response! Yes you certainly did stay within the question and your response is appreciated. I am sorry to hear of your move to the widower status but I am sure there will be wonderful things to come for you! Best wishes and happiness!

MechanicalMe 63M
39 posts
12/24/2014 5:12 pm

That's an interesting perspective, but (in my opinion) I am not sure I can understand how the type of trans-girl makes a difference in the sexual orientation of the guy who is attracted to her.

It's pretty simple really.

Speaking of only men, a cross dresser is still a man. A man who may pretend to be or dress up as a woman but, still a man. Gender identity, a man.

Some one who is in the process of gender confirmation is a woman. Gender identity, a woman.

I am interested in women, therefore a Cross Dresser holds no interest for me while a woman does.


un_dressed2_kill replies on 12/24/2014 11:18 pm:
Thanks for the added clarification! I see where you are coming from now. So I am curious, how did you vote?

bonus_draw 51M/42F
7 posts
12/23/2014 9:10 pm

I would say yes they are straight. Hell in the old days men would fuck younger men to prevent bastards. You know all those cute feminine house boys were not there to just fetch the tea right. Till the church got totally bent out of shape it wasn't a big deal. Now we worry what people think. It can affect jobs and love lives. All for even a perceived like of another man. Women on the other hand have been more excepted as bi .. Unfortunately lesbians less (since a man can have sex with her) but back to the topic again i vote straight.. ultimately who give a damn if your attracted to someone as long as not a child and they care for you back even if its just a one night stand. Screw the labels and just enjoy and live. Often the haters are people hiding from there own desires!


un_dressed2_kill replies on 12/24/2014 11:23 pm:
Thanks for your comment! I agree with you although I had not even considered some of your reasoning which was very interesting and so very accurate, lol. Sexual frustration sure can make people unreasonably tense...if people were just more open about their desires things would be a lot sexier in general! Again, thanks for the comment! Best wishes!!

MechanicalMe 63M
39 posts
12/23/2014 12:34 am

It depends on what is meant by "Trans". On this site, everyone from cross dressers to those who have completed gender confirmation treatment is lumped into the same group, more or less.

A cross-dresser who puts on what is more a costume, who may be gay or straight is one end of the spectrum while someone who forever feels or felt like they were born with the wrong body are whatever they would be had they the right body would be on the other end of the "T" spectrum.

That said, some who have completed gender confirmation treatment state in their profiles as being the gender they have confirmed to while others use the gender identifier of "T" in their profiles.


un_dressed2_kill replies on 12/23/2014 2:33 am:
Thank you for the comment Mr. Mechanical. Your response is greatly appreciated!

That's an interesting perspective, but (in my opinion) I am not sure I can understand how the type of trans-girl makes a difference in the sexual orientation of the guy who is attracted to her.

I think you may be confusing sexual orientation and gender identity, which is why I dont quite understand why you feel the type of trans-girl makes a difference with whether a guy that is attracted to her could be considered straight or not. It seems that your answer is yes though, because I did say "can a guy be..." (with 'can' being the important word). And if your answer is "depends" then that is an affirmative that you believe it is possible. Thoughts?

As this is a poll, I am curious as to what others think so thank you for your response regardless. Best wishes!

sweetlips_03 45F
1271 posts
12/22/2014 5:51 pm

If I had to think about it, I would go with it depends on the sexual activities in play. If you want to play with organs the same as your own, then you are bisexual. I know I am. Now, if you're just enjoying being the man to a wonderful woman that just so happens to have a cock, then you're more man than many. It's beautiful to accept others for who they are and wish to be.

Sweet Kisses
sweetlips_03


un_dressed2_kill replies on 12/22/2014 10:50 pm:
Thanks for the comment and response! Moreso, must give you an award for being the only (genetic) female so far to comment! I would agree with your response for the most part. To me its more about being attracted to the masculinity or femininity and how those things play out sexually... Oh and, very sexy profile!

-Erika

averageman197650 47M
6 posts
12/22/2014 1:58 pm

your a very hot looking lady i would love to play with all of you


un_dressed2_kill replies on 12/22/2014 10:46 pm:
Thanks for the comments and compliments, Mike! Interesting, but not necessarily a surprising, response from a bi-curious guy, but most certainly appreciated nonetheless! Best wishes!

-Erika

Tori66 60T
5 posts
12/20/2014 9:56 am

I really do not care as long as he treats me like a lady


un_dressed2_kill replies on 12/22/2014 10:40 pm:
One of my favorite replies yet! Agreed!

phil4001 49M
45 posts
12/20/2014 9:37 am

there a lot more bi male out there then you might think .

but it hard to admit it because women wont have sex with them after you admit it .

most would choose a female first . but not being able to get a women or to act on fantasy will go on the other side from time to tim .


_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
12/20/2014 9:23 am

Obviously he couldn't be straight.

~ ~


un_dressed2_kill replies on 12/22/2014 10:39 pm:
Obviously? haha, well I obviously dont share your same observations...

biandhappy4 50M
1 post
12/20/2014 12:17 am

I personally think that having sex without inhibitions is the best sex. I love to let go and just enjoy the erotic sensations of a man sucking my cock


SuckMy8Plus 58M  
259 posts
12/19/2014 8:59 pm

A lot of straight guys like Crossdressing and looking at guys in Lingerie, but not all of them would want to fuck someone up the arse.


un_dressed2_kill replies on 12/22/2014 10:38 pm:
lol, interesting comment... Not sure of your response to the question though...

Maggie719 67T
92 posts
12/18/2014 10:39 pm

I believe a man can be straight--and date a trans girl. They see us as women. The men I have dated and had for LTR, I consider straight.Straight men like to have a woman use a toy on there ass sometimes--the prostate for many is quite stimulateing. Just my views. LOL--gawd I hate labeling


Icould 65M
3988 posts
12/18/2014 3:52 pm

If you are hot for each other who cares. Go for it and enjoy your time together. i think sometimes labels can make things harder then they need to be.
Let just all be pansexual.

There you go
That's all and none of it tragic.


JustHere2Cam 56M
14229 posts
12/18/2014 3:25 am

There will be people who say that a transgendered person *can't* be the opposite sex from birth, but that's just an extension of their own homophobia. People get too caught up in trying to apply labels while they should just enjoy the company of the people they choose too have around them.


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