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*Crazy* has no timeline!  

curvesnmore2 48F
27 posts
8/28/2015 6:30 am
*Crazy* has no timeline!


A friend of mine was chatting with a guy she met (on Xmatch) for close to a year. They became pretty close, in a virtual sense.... messaging, camming, talking on the phone sometimes, etc. He appeared to be, in all senses of the word... normal. He finally came to visit her...having a drive of about 8 hours. Now, to me.. THAT was the first sign of crazy, however to her... she was excited! They spent a weekend together that she defined as *amazing* and couldn't wait to see him again. After he left it's as if a switch was flipped. He became possessive, jealous and even threatening. Here's where the *crazy* became apparent to her! After over a year of "great" it took a while for her to get over it... sooooo.... crazy has no timeline.

Notaname99 64M  
568 posts
8/28/2015 7:34 am

people can keep up a persona for a period of time. however, there comes a time when the persona is dropped. i think for some it gets dropped when they reach a certain level of comfort. (no, i am not a psychologist, just from personal observation) so i think there is no time line.


happyinstl 56M
19 posts
8/28/2015 9:05 am

That is crazy...Most people on this site are crazy. I saw someones profile read one time... Welcome to Xmatch where the odds are good and the goods are odd.

It seems to sum up this porthole to the wackjob world


curvesnmore2 replies on 8/28/2015 11:14 am:
That sums it up for sure!

happyinstl 56M
19 posts
8/28/2015 9:07 am

you know what else is crazy.... as i responded above the site automatically edited what i just wrote..... I wrote welcome to Xmatch (not hotmatch) now how does that work???


happyinstl 56M
19 posts
8/28/2015 9:09 am

Try it yourself type the initials of adullt fiend finger and watch it magically change


curvesnmore2 replies on 8/28/2015 11:15 am:
Lol..I actually did originally put A F F and it changed to Xmatch... hmmmmmmm

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