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Hobbs643 60M
6 posts
5/8/2016 9:12 am

I've never understood the whole FB thing. I've had a couple. It just was never quite healthy.... A real, fun FWB on the other hand can be wonderful unless (and until) one gets too attached....


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/8/2016 9:30 am

I have found most of them become liars and loaded with drama.

Using more than all the road!


thinkingofyou12 67M
4690 posts
5/8/2016 9:32 am

I must have a connection with the people I get naked with, so FWB


Woodyeverready 65M
1187 posts
5/8/2016 10:02 am

I would prefer a FB, but would consider a FWB if there was no danger of it becoming more involved.

Woodrow J. Evers


hrdallnght4u 67M

5/8/2016 10:10 am

FWB is what I like..to do other things with at times..

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
5/8/2016 10:18 am

I'm naïve that way...

I'm hoping to find the woman of my dreams here!!!

Happy mother's day!

To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog:

Good luck!!!


charlio71 79M
595 posts
5/8/2016 10:26 am

I will always pick a friend with benefits. They are the ones that are with you no matter what.

I believe nothing until it has become history!


love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
5/8/2016 11:26 am

It's always good 2 be able 2 be friends and have benefits. Happy Mother's Day 2 everybody on here.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
5/8/2016 1:34 pm

a friend with benefits will come back again and again, a fuck buddy may return only when needed


davi04038 33M
548 posts
5/8/2016 2:08 pm

Both is good lol


TallDark052 60M
55 posts
5/8/2016 3:31 pm

Friends with Benefits are better!!!


rm_bc1422129 39M
40 posts
5/8/2016 6:51 pm

Fwb just complicates things. Fb...not complicated at all!!!


xxxsasaxxxx 49M
719 posts
5/8/2016 11:03 pm

fwb >>!


cozzycouple 66M/66F  
588 posts
5/9/2016 6:03 am

There are activities and roles and toys you can do with a Friend With Benefits that a fuck buddy is not going to get into with you.


107jerry 63M
218 posts
5/9/2016 7:34 am

I prefer FWB. We role play and feel comfortable enough with each other to get creative and explore different interests.


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
5/9/2016 7:46 am

F W B !

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montecarlo37 45M
298 posts
5/9/2016 8:08 am

Not into FWB's at this time.. so no other option except FB.


Looking4fun2d84 57M  
125 posts
5/9/2016 10:01 am

Can't be friends with everyone, I have some FB's and some FWB


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
5/9/2016 10:34 am

Both would be the ideal situation, but over all, I'll take the FWB.


nesprings 70M
72 posts
5/9/2016 10:34 am

either one is good to have


txblazefire 42M
50 posts
5/9/2016 11:02 am

fuck buddies is what it is


leblond16 67M
389 posts
5/9/2016 12:07 pm

can't I have both?


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
5/9/2016 1:27 pm

I prefer FWB, to each their own.


wantpussy110 32M
267 posts
5/9/2016 5:03 pm

fb here to many fwbs mostly friends though lol


Coasterfan1969 55M  
115 posts
5/9/2016 5:17 pm

Sex is so much better when you have some kind of relationship with person you are hooking up. So I say FWB is better.


Bdysnatcher 61M
1021 posts
5/9/2016 5:46 pm

FWB's it's nice to have some kind of connection with a person but then an FB can be good also if that's all you want!!


mrbadwxample 65M
115 posts
5/9/2016 5:49 pm

I'll go with just a few fuck buddies at this point...I've been sidetracked into the Friends with occasional benefits column too many times, and you get tired of being someone's revenge fuck when their current boyfriend pisses them off.

Sometimes you just have to say fuck it, drop everything, and go to Vegas.


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
5/10/2016 2:10 am

There is a danger of FWB turning into a real relationship and my requirements are different for both. I'd rather just have someone I enjoy sexually and leave it at that


JPEORIA 54M
287 posts
5/10/2016 2:39 am

Give me both or give me any I will take it.


BxxJxx 49M
1 post
5/10/2016 2:46 am

FWB is better but emotions too often gets in the way for one of the partners regardless of agreed limits , FB is pretty straightforward


Sailingshoes111 68M
100 posts
5/10/2016 3:38 am

FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS


sexcbeach1 42M
314 posts
5/10/2016 4:14 am


WeLuv2GoNude 68M/66F
81 posts
5/10/2016 6:39 am

FWB is much better. You can always do things with them than having just hot, wild great fantastic SEX.


firedup_19 62M
1684 posts
5/10/2016 8:00 am

You can never have too many friends...


LimerickJohn 69M
1046 posts
5/10/2016 8:11 am

FWB is always much easier for me


Bbartley 62M
38 posts
5/10/2016 8:12 am

sex IS better when your friends


Just4u3371 58M
247 posts
5/10/2016 8:36 am

I would have vote for both


Some1Knocking 60M
165 posts
5/10/2016 9:39 am

Some times, you just want a good fuck. Is that so bad?

Well, I believe in the soul, the cock, the pussy, the small of a woman's back...


Nonjudgmental4U 40M
13 posts
5/10/2016 10:44 am

Fuck buddies... Come and go no emotional attachment or obligations
Strictly and purely a sexual release

Sign me up... If I want a friend with benefits... I'd just date them, not really a whole of difference in the end. Sure it starts off great, but emotions ALWAYS come into play eventually.


Nonjudgmental4U 40M
13 posts
5/10/2016 10:44 am

Fuck buddies... Come and go no emotional attachment or obligations
Strictly and purely a sexual release

Sign me up...

If I want a friend with benefits... I'd just date them, not really a whole of difference in the end. Sure it starts off great, but emotions ALWAYS come into play eventually.


rm_gary4ddfun69 69M
169 posts
5/10/2016 2:58 pm

I like Friends With Benefits best because you get to know what turns them on and you can enjoy some quality time together.


firestillbelow 72M
33 posts
5/10/2016 4:24 pm

I voted for fuck buddies, but I have to admit all my buddies have become friends


aaronsforeplay62 62M  
85 posts
5/10/2016 4:31 pm

I ended up married to my FWB, a FB is good to have now and then


guylookinfun 59M

5/10/2016 6:46 pm

See this is where it makes the difference between an occasion booty call and learning what really makes her go wild. I want her screaming squirting cumming and wanting more And u only get by knowing more about her to find out what really causes her to respond like that


redsled361000 64M
272 posts
5/10/2016 9:33 pm

I've done the fwb. Just want a fb for now.


Zugnillinuc 43M
715 posts
5/10/2016 9:38 pm

Fuck buddies are buddies that fuck

Friends with benefits could mean anything....it's beneficial to drive me to the airport for a 6am flight


golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
5/10/2016 10:48 pm

It seems more and more man like it the least complicated, whether they're married, engaged or just single. At times I think most don't even want to go to a hotel and rather have the woman come to their place where they can continue their day after she leaves.


superdave196596 58M
67 posts
5/11/2016 12:20 am

I am tired of the one time thing I think it could be better to watch a game have a beer and maybe skip sex but then make up for it the next time


Depeer3 63M
146 posts
5/11/2016 1:24 am

FWB for me.


psucker2011 72M
72 posts
5/11/2016 5:09 am

a buddy is to enjoy fucking not to get benefits.


DrkDik4U 52M  
115 posts
5/11/2016 7:11 am

Sadly your question is almost one in the same. A FB usually turns into a FWB because occasionally one of the FBs begins to have feelings for the other as friends tend to care about one another to a degree. And thats when the problems begin because once one of you has feelings and they arent reciprocated... Houston we have a problem.

So it's a tough question to answer but a FB would be better if feelings stay out of it.


johnm2475 47M

5/11/2016 8:09 am

fwb is not only your friend that you can discuss anything with but you can make love to as well, fb is just to see someone to fuck on occasions nothing more nothing less, so if you looking just to fuck then fb is your best option, if you want someone to be your friend, fuck, and tell all your secrets to and discuss life then you can choose a fwb. my choice would be a fwb because i want her to be my best friend as well as to make love to her and we can both be happy with what we have found in each other


psucker1951 72M
89 posts
5/11/2016 8:28 am

I love to choose a fuck buddy with benefits.


axle55557 57M
40 posts
5/11/2016 1:02 pm

Me myself I prefer to have a Fuck buddy. If you want to have a fwb you are pretty much dating the person anyway. That's on a man's point of view. Now you lady's interpret things way different than men.


Horndog6969x 49M
2 posts
5/11/2016 3:08 pm

I like the fuck buddy route. The last thing I need is 3 or more FWB's on the dating/emotional payroll. I just want to get my rocks off, eat and fuck some pussy. Rinse and repete if she is good in the sack.


commandocouple 57M/56F  
7 posts
5/11/2016 6:45 pm

Seeing I am with my best friend I think it's easier for her to deal with a fuck buddy then a fwb.!


soapy904 68M
28 posts
5/11/2016 9:31 pm

Friends are always good.


dannyboy16543215 41M

5/12/2016 12:18 am

Depends on the person, but personally FWB is more of a bonus at the moment to me xx


mrmacri 63M
17 posts
5/12/2016 6:43 am

a fuck buddy that can cook, works for me


1ALLNYTR 59M
248 posts
5/12/2016 7:40 am

Now that im "old", my fb are fwb


melanie196101 62T
40 posts
5/12/2016 11:04 am

either way you're getting fucked, or an I missing some thing?


latinlover0706 43M
1 post
5/12/2016 11:17 am

wanting some of that tonight


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
5/12/2016 11:43 am



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older051952 71M
96 posts
5/12/2016 3:53 pm

Fuck Buddies are the way to go. Sooner or later a FWB is going to get possessive.


hh_diab 45M
135 posts
5/12/2016 4:42 pm

Love in everything and sex sexy

nice pussy, love your gorgeous hot ass


psucker20114 72M  
190 posts
5/13/2016 12:15 am

prefer to have my fuck buddies with benefits.


chipblaster6161 63M  
124 posts
5/13/2016 5:05 am

Fuckbuddies with Benefits are better


Inches2PleaseYou 38M
55 posts
5/13/2016 8:07 am

I guess the two terms are often used interchangeably; to me, an FB would have to be someone you just fuck, then leave, until you meet again, then repeat. An FWB would be a bit more than that - somebody you can have conversations with and perhaps even go out and do fun stuff with, without actually being in a relationship.

As for which one I prefer - it depends on the person and my chemistry with them. In most cases, I'd probably prefer an FWB type of situation over an FB.


karma2006 58M
178 posts
5/13/2016 4:32 pm

I like the FB better. Play and go out seperate ways until we meet again.


bisexualcharle69 59M

5/13/2016 7:42 pm

I thought they were one in the same. is a fuck buddy not a friend? they perform the same tasks.


Endlesspassion79 49M
152 posts
5/13/2016 9:35 pm

I personally like to share more than just physical sex , I like having the emotional connection too . FWB for me


Michelle_Malcomb 65T  
63 posts
5/14/2016 5:36 am

So many ambiguous terms yet, but here goes .... For myself, I don't need to date or see you outside of the bedroom, but my most important erogenous zone is the mind. Without some connection, it's elaborate masturbation. And while there's nothing wrong with elaborate masturbation, it's just not nearly as satisfying to me.

I'd rather jack-off fantasizing about a warm FWB I can only see once a year, than fuck a cold FB I only hear from when they can't find anyone else.

{=} {=} {=} Michelle Malcomb


pineconer9 73M  
245 posts
5/14/2016 8:08 am

I had what I thought was a fwb but then got a little complicated, she got a little more than fwb and she is the one from the beginning before we started going out to let me know she wanted to remain open to also play with others..


cleanbutkinky 50M
38 posts
5/14/2016 8:51 am

Is there a in between ?
FB..?..FWB
Maybe we should make one..lol


blackdude4white 64M

5/14/2016 12:20 pm

Actually, I see no difference in a fuck buddy or friend with benefits as long as I get to have him as often as possible. I have always enjoyed my "midnight callers" who just stop over announced or unannounced to play for a couple of hours or the rest of the night.


needsexinnc2 61M
23 posts
5/14/2016 8:44 pm

Fwb..always need a good friend


Marylamb3 58F  
24 posts
5/15/2016 6:12 pm

Intimacy that comes from both a mental and physical re-occurring connection makes sex great. Sex is 90% mental. 😃


bbwlover19855891 38M
59 posts
5/16/2016 2:40 am

both are fine... good in their own ways


handudoc 37M
2 posts
5/16/2016 5:44 am

both are good enough for me


donk720 84M
73 posts
5/16/2016 6:59 am

being married, a married FB is the best, and no reason you can't be friends...i


Lonely16842 59M
883 posts
5/16/2016 5:05 pm

FWB ....


ChromeNation 40M

5/18/2016 10:20 am

dont' know what the difference is, I've never had either.


justthewon1973 50M
21 posts
5/18/2016 10:01 pm

As long as the friends don't get weird then that's the way to go. you can only stay fuck buddies so long before some form of friendship develops or you are no longer fuck buddies.


R1verhawk 67M  
4 posts
5/19/2016 4:08 am

I love these comments. My thought on this is a buddie and a friend are the same thing. Sex is Sex but if you fall in love and it becomes more then just sex, then you move up a notch to friends then lovers then a successful match. You get married then get a divorce and start this whole process all over ( just kidding) but i might not be to far off being right lol.....


rob5ice2 66M
199 posts
5/21/2016 3:36 pm

Friends with benefits. If can work. - And as long as if the other person didn't get jealous or possessive if another person came into the picture. Since it may cause a problem with the friendship part.

Not to mention. Unfortunately, there is allows a chance something that could affect the 'benefits' part. Be it a injury, age, or whatever. And that is where the friendship will be most important. - Where as the FB. It might work at the time. But if times get rough, they will likely be out the door. If that is OK, then fine. Just know upfront about it. So you have less emotional attachments and expectations. And so on.


rob5ice2 66M
199 posts
5/21/2016 3:43 pm

lol

I like the interpretation of "FWB" as being:

--- 'Fuck On A Weekly Basis'.


naiveone36 54M

5/26/2016 7:22 am

It is always nice to be friends as well as lovers. It makes dinners and any other non sexual activities more interesting. Without being friends sex can sometimes be empty and unsatisfying.


startthefun13 59M  
146 posts
5/26/2016 10:53 am

i would always prefer a fwb but sometimes its just doesn't work out the way you would like and you still want to fuck . so you fall back on a fb...


Allhard4u50 62M
1725 posts
5/26/2016 1:32 pm

I prefer FB....but i guess we could be friends too


Rubbers4Men 54M/78M
22 posts
6/1/2016 8:46 pm

I find the sex to be so much hotter when there is a connection between me and the person I'm having sex with.


nymagicman 54M
192 posts
6/4/2016 12:38 pm

I began my Xmatch experience with a FB, moved on to a FWB and now am happy in a LTR. What really matters is what you want to get out of the relationship and making sure your partner is on the same page.


woody3171 52M
2 posts
6/15/2016 2:43 am

FWB get both of best wolds


jmscn701 44M
21 posts
6/15/2016 4:06 pm

FB means most likely it is do it and bail. No connection no nothing talking or any of that, blow and go. A FWB there may be some afterglow relaxing - talking - even round two but that is because there is SOME feeling there for that person even if just a friend you still care for them to a certain degree.


mtnbreeze 69M  
21 posts
8/7/2016 10:37 am

no difference between the two. I expect to be friends with my fuck buddy


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