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the YELLOW line went away
Posted:Jul 16, 2020 4:42 am
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2020 2:25 am
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well the best part of the new IM system appears be that the yellow line screen went away...LOL mine takes forever open, only shows a few of people close , an they shows people miles or states or countries away...LOL I am not really happy with it having take half the screen instead of just a smaller box.. I am Still trying find anything good about the update... Wondering if the tech staff for this site is some run of the mill community college Welcome computer class , doing this sites tech stuff save money...LOL It surly cant be people that were or are members an now on staff, cause as a member they would update things members want an ask for , or they would atleast want something THEY themselves could use an have it work..
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POLLS is it a milking for points thing
Posted:Jun 25, 2020 7:53 am
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2020 3:26 am
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i find it funny when one when replying one poll here asking how long one can MILK for the sytem here on asking a poll question , then having a poll ask about the poll question answers , than a poll ask about the poll questions answered answers? an repeat with each poll this person writes daily... when i aske the question on said poll today an said by the time they are done milking for most bloggers here will shudder when anyone else ever mentions a poll.... lol an the real funny thing is my answer was blocked .. isnt a answer a answer any poll??? ROFL
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4th of july
Posted:Jul 4, 2019 9:21 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2019 4:18 am
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well its been awhile since i posted anything here... Its been bad almost 2 yrs now... came close to dying twice.. seem to be on mend now .
Just wanted to say i hope yall have a great 4th of july an be safe
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just a idea...
Posted:Oct 14, 2016 5:23 am
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2020 2:29 am
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Here is just a idea of how we could unite together as a true group... an i dont even know if its possible or how to go about it.....
But how about if we all donate whatever we can. a dollar, or three dollars or five, an somehow we give it to someone that has just gone thru the hurricane that just left so many needing help........... an we donate it from " The bloggers of Xmatch" what a statement that may make about all of us...
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open to all...
Posted:Oct 14, 2016 4:33 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2019 6:58 am
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howdy yall, well i have been quite for awhile now... I have taken alot of slack , about writing about there being groups here... I have been told i am trying to make a conspiracy , making it all up, being mean talking about others an not allowing them the chance toreply to me or comment on my opinons. When some started using the block as a game or tool what ever you want to call it, i chose to block some of the ones in the group to give them the same treatment.... well after thinking about it, i decided i was a bigger person then to play the games as some do. So today i unblocked all from reading my blogs.... if i think the reason they chose was wrong then i shouldnt play the same game as others find entertaing, an if others are saying i should let them reply to talk about things, an i am creating problems here between bloggers, it was the rite thing to do.....Blogs here have changed, alot of them seem guarded , NOT ALL, but some... Blogs can be fun, exchanging ideas, thoughts, life. To think that some want to control them , decide who is a good blogger an who is a bad one is just silly... so much more in life that to be in control of a blogland... To extend so much effort , to control something as simple as BLOGS is truly such a waste of time...lol
Theres not a good blogger , theres not a bad blogger.......... everyone has a opinion, a exprience to share, a gripe about things, a bad experience, a good experience, some pics to share of them that they would like to share with us. So just read what people have to say or dont read, reply if you have something to say or dont reply to blogs here... but we all need to quit putting judgement on bloggers we dont share the same opinon with.
Its a easy solution to making blogs fun for all... stop with the good or bad bloggers, take all with a grain of salt.... if you want to have off site groups , thats cool just dont use it to pick out a blogger here to go against... let this blogland be as it was intended... for all to express whatever we want an have fun... getting along with everyone an respecting each other in how we go about expressing ourselves...
Going along with all the rules here on Xmatch... DONT be united as bloggers to only ban together when someone goes off in left field ( like in the past has showed us) but just be united in everyday stuff also.
We are still loosing some good bloggers here, from things that are going on behind the scenes an thats still a shame!!!! Stop with having 2-3-4 profiles for spying , or doing things that are against the Xmatch rules, as that is one of them by itself...
Lets all be ourself an share in the fun, as thats why we came here in the 1st place, we dont need a leader or some in control, we already have that in tou's law an Xmatch will take care of things here if we all work together an let them do thier job, so we dont have to worry about it an waste our time trying to be in control of blogland.
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random thoughts n my opinion
Posted:Sep 28, 2016 4:33 am
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2021 7:54 am
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I know so many of you think my blogs are about someone who was banned here, an make comments " move on tired of hearing about it"etc etc etc.... so in thinking they know what a blog is about they dont get the point or meaning of it at all....My blogs of late have been about whats going on here SINCE a few have been banned. Some broke rules that Xmatch has for all to follow, so Xmatch chose to ban those people . Some who write about it now call themselves "WE" ... an a good chance did nothing more than copy something in a blog (that they were told to , by others) an send in a complaint, to bolster the number of complaints to Xmatch. So in my opinion from things i have read here, an learned, about the face book group, which is by invitation only ( oh an that others say doesnt exist) there is a group who thinks they decide who is good here an who isnt, an cant be targeted to cause them problems.
When they write things here as " taking out the trash" an about biting dust, it only shows they want to remind us other folks who write here to not cross them....not to say something about someone or something they dont like... or they will take out the trash.... so does that mean that bloggers who are not in a group ( that they wont admit exists) are trash an can be taken out when they decide its time???? So be careful in what you say here an who you may say something about , or contents of your replys, as you can be their next trash.

if i am trash... this is my trashy opinion an we all can have a opinion.
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say thank you to.............................
Posted:Sep 26, 2016 4:53 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2016 3:58 am
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will do this abit different today...... instead of saying a lady's name to say thanks for blogging..... you write who you would like to shout out at saying thanks for her blogs here.
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INDIVIDUAL ... whats it mean???
Posted:Sep 19, 2016 5:41 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2020 5:16 am
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in websters dictionary its defined
in-di-vid-u-al, a. single; seprate;peculiar to a person or thing; unique.n, single person or thing; particular person.

bloggers come here from all over the world , as INDIVIDUALS , to share their stories , vent, have open discussions about something on their mind, to tell jokes, share pictures of themselves or locations they have seen. They may form a friendship with other INDIVIDUALS. Said INDIVIDUALS have things in common , like to express their INDIVIDUAL thoughts , wishs, fantasy's, ask questiions etc etc etc. This whole site is made up of INDIVIDUALS . Every one came with interest in filling some time, reading an getting ideas, seeing whats going on around the world.
my question is, why do INDIVIDUALS fall into some other individuals ploy, an are asked to join a group , or asked to copy information here an give to them , so they can talk or use it about another INDIVIDUAL, or read blogs but dont reply, check profiles, ignore or block others?? WHY cant those INDIVIDUALS just do it themselves?? Do they pay your rent, do they buy your groceries, do they pay your bills, do they make you sleep better at nite, knowing you have let your INDIVIDUALALITY go an doing the things they ask of you so you can be in their group, so they can keep thier hands clean? If the things some INDIVIDUALS ask of you , you normally wouldnt do, then why do it instead of asking WHY DONT YOU DO IT YOURSELF????
At what point does a person lose their being a INDIVIDUAL that they were BEFORE they came here? at what point is it worth not being a INDIVIDUAL an having to FOLLOW others views , thoughts, wishes, an beliefs???
Maybe we all have to ask ourselves ... am i the INDIVIDUAL i was when i cam here, or have i gave that up for sake of others?
this is my own opinion an not directed at any one person..but if you ask yourself does it reflect on you???
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ONE of ONE
Posted:Sep 18, 2016 6:50 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2016 4:28 am
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ok i see i am ONE of ONE, an i have learned i see things wrong... there is no gang, no new Band, no new bosses, there are no games being played, there is no off site emails or other site talking, there is no conspiring, there is no blocking going on other than only for abuse /or arguing..( as anyone can see i am very abusive in my replys to blogs, an try to argue in my replys to everyone) there is no TOU being broken, i am the only one talking about being blocked, there is no walking on others blogs, or coping going on, an blogland is fine. let me say i am sorry for thinking any of these things were going onn here.
its like the sky is blue , an i was the only one who saw there were other colors as well... so let me say i am sorry to all i have misunderstood, an being ONE of ONE to notice things i thought were wrong or going onn here.... Hoping everyone has a great weekend an may a smile come your way today...
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Blocking an Whinning
Posted:Sep 16, 2016 7:20 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2016 6:22 am
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i think its a HOOT how some here block others , an when they get blocked by the people they blocked, the whinning starts!!!!!! They get others to perv the blocked blogs , an spy so they can keep up with whats being said. They write comments on how some bloggers are whinners an complainers. They speak all these great words of wisdom to others , that they dont live by themselves.... Then they write blogs about blocking , to show how wrong others are, but not themselves for doing the same thing....lol WANT SOME CHEESE WITH THAT WINE????????????????? Way i look at it, if you want to start a stupid game , dont WHINE an complain when others want to play the game with you.

some write things like WE won, the blogs are OURS, an we can make them what we want.... the blogs arent anyones except Xmatch an they can do what they want, Xmatch has rules to follow an if we do that all is well in blogland.

so in OURS TO MAKE WHAT WE WANT... quit whinning an complaining when we play your game you have given us...
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thanks to lady of the week..............
Posted:Sep 14, 2016 5:06 am
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2016 5:03 pm
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When i came up with idea of saying thank you to the lady bloggers here , for all they give us men, comments flowed in what a good idea it was..... so i started it... At first it went over well , by others saying thank you to who ever i randomly picked. Then it was determined by a few here , that my blogs should be ignored... which was no skin off my nose. As i kept picking bloggers here , the thank you's went down... as i guess the word passed around an ones who replied before stopped also.. thinking they were hurting me,..... which would be fine if i was into THE LIST or POINTS...lol
The sad thing is this was for the ladies.... just a way to say thank you to them.....so the band leaders didnt hurt me..THEY HUMILATED the ladys chosen, by seeing thier name here an others not saying a word.... I did write a few saying i was sorry for how they had to have felt. Then i wrote one about a lady , an withing hours it was , "stepped on" "piggy backed" or what ever you want to call it, so the Band could comment on that blog about the person... for reasons of their own making , a few couldnt comment on mine, so they had someone piggy back it so they could get their comment out. At this point i decided i would stop doing the blog as i didnt want any other lady blogger here to have to see her name to be thanked an then others have no response.
Seeing all the BAND members thought it was such a good idea when i started it , i would have thought one of them would have kept it going.. an chose to done it on their own terms or blogs or style.... Appears i was the only one who thought the women bloggers here needed to be thanked an shown how important they are to all of us.
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this blog is a nothing blog
Posted:Sep 11, 2016 6:28 am
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2016 5:15 am
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just wanted to see if this bothers anyone else , as it seems to write blogs about nothing , but just so one can post another blog to get comments for the ole race to #1 is a big deal to some.
But atleast i warned in title.... an didnt hide the fact , it was a empty blog of meaning , context, subject matter, or sense an only for one purpose , that some people do now....
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special thanks to anastasia666
Posted:Sep 8, 2016 6:55 am
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2016 7:29 am
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lets say thank you to a lady who has worked in making the bloggland a better place.. She has taken her personal time as she is not Xmatch employee, an she voluntarily took of her own time to help other bloggers with any problem they may have... think its time to make this day about her an say thanks...
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