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ADULT BOOKSTORES AND THEATERS. The NEWEST FAD in SWINGING
We live in an area, that in most cases, requires driving a distance to meet people in this lifestyle, and drive we have. In these economical bad times, we found that the clubs are falling off in attends and people are just plain tire of the little inter-circles which require you to attend on a monthly bases. We have tried numerous swinger websites, all with the same out come. Lot's of faults hopes and promises. Lot's of e-mail exchanges with little more to show for our time then the inevitable. Scheduling has been and always will be our biggest hang up. It's either work, family, or personal friends that change our plans at the last minute. It's nothing for us to set up meetings only to cancel at the last moment. So, cancellations are just as big a problem with couples, as they are, with females and males. What we all maybe doing wrong is relying on Xmatch members to just "jump" at the chance to meet. First understand, these swinger sites are a magnet for males to open profiles with or without a REAL female being involved or the interest and/or ability to meet! The cam viewing program makes this a very popular site. All that being said, swinger sites are a major hit and miss. More misses then hits, I should add. Our area of Georgia is like a dead zone for swingers outside the clubs and house parties. Clubs and house parties do give you the advantage of actually talking face to face allowing everyone a little time to get to know one another. BUT,,they are EXPENSIVE and still require the ability to advance plan! So,,you ask WHY GLORY-HOLES BOOTHS and ADULT THEATERS? We see this as, the new meeting place for the swingers set, not only males, but couples and females. (LADIES,,It's not JUST for the guys anymore!)
Why are Adult bookstores (with GHs) and adult porno theaters convenient?
You might be wondering what a gloryhole actually is, well for starters, it is simply a hole drilled or carved out between two closet like rooms called booths. These booths are fairly basic in adult bookstore where you can watch erotic videos in private.(Always lock the door behind you.) The gloryhole is roughly equal to the height of a mans penis and it is intended to be used as a sexual relief spot where one dude sticks his pecker through and the female uses each other for sexual enjoyment. It is used for everyone to stay discreet and anonymous. **I want to emphasize, that you should lock the door behind you when you enter the video booth. There are "BUTHEADS" in every part of the world. Sex through glory holes is a very erotic experience. Enjoy! And be safe and careful.
Never, EVER, have intercourse without a condom. Ever! |
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It doesn't hurt to ask or check websites about any violations or busts. We're sure this activity is illegal in some cities or states. But, you take your chances in most aspects of this lifestyle. As a safety point with little legal knowledge, We always make sure that the other person is exposed before we make contact through the glory hole. Not just sitting or standing in a booth or hard through his pants. And not just rubbing his or her crotch. Actually, being exposed. That goes for everyone.
Not sure what that does for anyone legally;
Never, EVER, have sexual intercourse without a condum. Ever! | |||
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Go into a booth; close and lock the door, if possible. Drop some money in the video machine. Sit down if the establishment provides a place to sit. Expose yourselves. Husbands, by pulling out their cock and making it hard Wife or females, by exposing their tits and/or pussy and rubbing on it. As a safety precaution,,DO NOT get fully undress till you know it's safe and there's going to be some sexual inter-action. Pants just below your mid-section and/or (females) dress up above your mid-section. Wait for someone to come into the booth next to you or check the person out in the next booth by looking through the glory hole. Don't worry or be too shy about this part... Remember,,mostly people are there to engage in activity of some sort with someone else. If you're interested, stick your finger through the gloryhole far enough so that the other person sees it. Withdraw it from the hole to show him or her you are ready and interested. If you want "him" to use a condom, place it in the hole between you now. If the other person wants to play with you, he'll stand up and place his or her dick through the hole or vagina up to the hole. If no one is interested, they'll most likely ignore your request for a little fun. If "he" wants to use the condom you volunteered, he will take it now. Sometimes the guy and/or girl will just want you to watch them play with themselves. Alot of people in the booths have 'voyeur' tendencies, just being watched is a huge turn-on. Never, EVER, have sexual intercourse without a condom. Ever. | |||
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Wait for someone to stick their finger through the glory hole. This is the standard sign that they are interested in you. If you BOTH are NOT interested,,ignore the gesture. If you BOTH ARE interested (Males)Standing up,,(Wife or female) Kneeling, facing at the gloryhole is the general indicator that you are ready to be on the giving receiving end either to suck cock, giving a hand-job, or whatever your plans are.
*AGAIN,,As a legal safety point,
MEN,,Now is the time to put a condom on. Never, EVER, have sexual intercourse without a condom. Ever. | |||
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Some Bookstores discourage couple or female action.
The way to invite someone into your booth is:
Make eye contact on the outside area
The reverse procedure is followed
Again, don't be shy.
Its also possible to negotiate this by
THINGS TO CONSIDER:
The wall between booths does provide a nice safety barrier.
NEVER have sexual intercourse without a condom. | |||
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Talking seems to be very limited... "Do you wanna get a room?" "Do you wanna go to my place?" "Do you wanna get out of here?" "Show me your ass, tits, cock. "Do you want to suck and/or fuck?" "Don't cum in my mouth." (or 'go ahead,finish'  And so on. Sometimes, a guy will ask if he can join you in your booth (READ THE ABOVE) Most communication is eye contact, sign language, (hand or finger gestures) rubbing of the crotch. BUT,,Don't be afraid or shy about what your interests or whether your NOT interested. (Be polite) Talking,,whether in a dirty context or not,,helps.
NEVER have sexual intercourse without a condom. | |||
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One thing to keep in mind, is that you are in a Adult Bookstore. Most items you need are available at the store. What better way to test or try a new toy then in the video booth. CONDOMS! (Guys and Girls,,USE CONDOMS) You need money for the video machines. *(called, "paying the rent!)* (some bookstore sell tokens) Lubrication if you need it. You'll need tissues to tidy up,, towel, handy wipes ,,etc.... "Put used condoms in the waste basket." If you discharge cum, aim for the waste basket. Never leave a mess on the floor, walls, or chair! CLEAN UP YOUR OWN MESS BEFORE YOU LEAVE! Its not very courteous to leave a mess for someone else to clean up! | |||
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We don't know of any Adult bookstore that charges a cover for being there.
Also, if you are sharing a booth with someone, | |||
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All types - good-looking, ugly, fat, thin, clean, smelly, young, old, bald, hairy, effeminate, muscular, leather, jocks, etc., etc. (basic normal people like yourselves) *Just like these SWINGER SITES* Major majority are single and married guys (married guys are usually better about using a condom than the single guys) (BUT, INSIST ON USING CONDOMS) Minor majority are couples Very minim if at all,,lone females (most females will be ex-cored by a male friend or another female) The majority of males are respectful gentlemen. (creating a scene will only get them evicted)
(overly aggressive BUTT-HEADS in bookstores)
If ignoring them (no eye contact at all) doesn't work,
WHAT TO DO IF YOU SEE SOMEONE YOU KNOW?
It can happen. In short, it's happen to us at swinger clubs.
If you're going to go out for a night of 'play' | |||
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Check the website listing by typing in "Gloryholes" in the search
Sex through gloryholes can be very erotic
NEVER have sexual intercourse without a condom. | |||
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Information regarding the theaters and bookstores is important to couples and/or females. Most females need to know a little bit more about what to expect. (is it operational, locations, hours, etc., etc.) Keep this in mind. Just because you don't see couples or females listed as members of this group, doesn't mean their not reading information listed in these topics. The list of posted topic information, questions, replies are for everyone. | |||
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..... Make eye contact on the outside area (before you go into a booth). Wait to see if it is returned. Move to a spot in the booth area where few or no people are. Go into your booth and leave the door unlocked. Wait to see if he/she/they follow you in. It doesn't hurt to verbally ask. ("IF" your not sure of the legal aspects) (don't be afraid to ask if their police or law-in-enforcement)
**The reverse procedure is followed
Again, don't be shy. ("IF" your not sure of the legal aspects) (don't be afraid to ask if their police or law-in-enforcement)
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 MEMBERS,,ask questions, make a statement. No harm will comes to those that response. We know,,nothing has happened to us so far. Give it a try.  | |||
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Especially for standard members, it's important to use every free tool that A F F gives you to connect with others. That's why we're here, right? We want to MEET someone. For the guys, it's even more important to be active, because we outnumber the women seeking men by about 16 to 1. We have to do something to make ourselves stand out from the crowd, because the women can literally pick and choose. And before you say what a great profile you have, remember this: many women are also standard members, and they aren't allowed to look at that many profiles trying to find a great guy like you. Besides, THEY DON'T HAVE TO--they are literally flooded with emails from the men! First, here are three ways that groups WON'T work for you: 1. Lurking--Just joining a group and not being active in it is a sure-fire way to stay invisible. That's like buying a hammer, and expecting it to drive the nails for you. 2. Posting Only "Pick-Up Ads"--You know, those little posts where someone says how big his cock is, or how eager he is, and "where are all the younger women for older men?", etc., etc. This is slightly better than just lurking, because at least you've started driving the nail. The only problem is, you still expect it to finish driving itself, and it's a safe bet that pretty soon you'll be yet another one of those whiners complaining about how "this site doesn't work". 3. Being Impatient, Shallow or Rude--Everything worth having takes patience and work to acquire. If you're going to throw a little temper tantrum because you haven't found what you're looking for--even though you haven't invested any REAL effort--you don't belong on A F F, let alone in a group! This may be a sex site, but people still want to know that you're honest, non-violent and in possession of a mind bigger than your genitals. PARTICIPATE, PARTICIPATE, PARTICIPATE! This is how you get the most out of any group. Did you know that many standard members actually hook up with each other simply because of getting INVOLVED in groups? It's true: I've even seen long-term relationships develop that way! Here's the thing: when people post questions, thoughts, feelings, fantasies and jokes in groups, they do it because they are looking to interact with you. It's a way for them to get to know something about the personality behind the keyboard, and that often leads to great friendships or more. It also lets them know that you're interested in them as people, not just sex objects. It's the same reason why I, as the Moderator, post discussion threads. I'm not doing it because I just like to hear myself talk; I'm doing it to try to provide more ways for members to interact with each other, and also to encourage them to start discussion threads of their own. Get involved in the discussions. Post some threads of your own. Show people there's a mind, a heart and a sense of humor behind that picture. Gradually, people will get to know you and like you--and THAT, my friend, is how you will end up meeting someone. OH--and, fellas? The next time a young lady posts a thread about how she's looking to meet someone, don't just join the stampede of men rushing to say nothing more than "Hi, I'm here, please hit me up". First of all, she probably doesn't even know where you are, let alone what kind of person you are mentally and physically. Secondly, she's already got tons of one-liners coming at her from all directions. You'll stand head and shoulders above the rest, if you find an interesting way to respond to her. Tell her you looked at her profile and what you liked about it; ask her an interesting question, or show a gentle sense of humor. Give her a reason to want to know more about you than just a picture of your cock. If you're consistent about it, someday you'll be telling the group about this wonderful person you met here. And we'll all be glad with you! | |||
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