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Lifestles Rules & Commandments
What should I know about the Lifestyle >>gatherings & private parties >parties<<, we do it for the fun and excitement.
- In general all will require you to bring your own alcohol and prefer you don't drink to excess. You are there to have a good time not get drunk.
- There are usually open rooms and private rooms. The open room has no time limits and is open to everyone for watching or playing (but, Rules #1 and 2 apply)
- Be polite and courteous. You are a guest in someones home, act like it, act like you wish to be invited again. Respect their
- Practice Safe Sex. This is simple, some parties will provide condoms. To be safe (and if you have a particular preference for a specific brand) bring your own. Don't ask if you can go without, just put one on and have fun. If you do not wish to use a condom, then don't expect penetration.
- Cleanliness is expected. When you go out on a first date you would take a shower, shave, put on deodorant. You should do all these same things when attending a party or meeting someone.
- Drugs should not be brought to a party. Again you are in someones home, do not bring illegal activities to their home.
- Cameras...most hosts have specific rules about camera use. You should ask the host prior to any party whether or not they will allow cameras. At the party (assuming you are allowed to bring cameras) you MUST ask permission from everyone in the room BEFORE you turn your camera on. Understand that not everyone likes to have their picture taken.
10 Commandments of Swinging
1. Never attempt to break up a marriage.
2. Always keep dates unless you give ample notice of changing circumstances.
3. Always keep the first meeting on a "no strings attached" basis, but be prepared to swing if it is mutually agreeable or to give an honest answer if something doesn't’t click.
4. Never, under any circumstances exert pressure on a partner to swing.
5. Restrict discussions of swinging to known swingers and interested persons seeking information.
6. Protect the anonymity of other swingers by refraining from unauthorized "name dropping".
7. Always maintain the highest standards of personal cleanliness, hygiene and appearance.
8. Do not engage in any unlawful activity that would discredit swingers as a group.
9. Be friendly and warm with your swing partners, however understand that there is a type of emotional involvement which is properly reserved for a spouse or "primary significant other."
10. Always show respect for the personal attitudes, feelings and "hang-ups" of other swingers.
Most typically it's the "GOLDEN RULE"; do unto others as you would like to have them do unto you with the utmost respect for one and all! If you have any added question please feel free to ask, we will always reply to everyone!
Have a Great Day and Lifestyle! |
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Hey folks, remenber these rules when sharing time with others always not just at gatherings! Trust me, they work and help all becum better Xmatch and Life Style members! Have a great weekend too and see everyone invited to S&K's 80's BDay Bash! Take care and play safe! Yummy!!?* | |||
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hI EVERYONE! IF YOU NEED ANY UPDATED COMENTARY OR DEATILS REGARDING MEET & GREETS AND OR PRIVATE GATEHRINGS LET US KNOW! WE'LL BE SURE OT HAVE A BLAST! SEE YOU ALL SOON AND HAPPY hOLIDYAS AND nEW yEARS FROM ALL OF US HEAR AT 3 SUM 4 SUM THEN SUM!!! | |||
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This is so true - we can call this the bible of the lifestyle.
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Have to love the rules.It makes people feel comfy and which they should
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Great advice, great rules. Thanks for enlightening me to the Life Style. I hope to try it on and see how it feels...
Shawn | |||
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wORK YOUR WAY TO OUR CHATS AND MEET AND GREETS YOU CAN JOIN US THERE SO WE CAN SEE IF YOU FEEEL LIKE YOU FIT IN AND LIKEWISE?! sTAY TUNED WEDS NIGHS 900PM CHA TROOM ON 3 SUM 4 SUM THN SUM CHAT ROOM |
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