I'm a writer, but I stumble when faced with writing an "about me" section on my profile. Go figure. I enjoy the BDSM lifestyle. I am a Sub, and have a wonderful Dom with whom I share an open relationship. After a safety meeting, I am free to be with any man that he has approved of. This arrangement is quite acceptable to me, and I have no intention of trying to go around it. Those are the rules, and if you're interested in me, they apply to you. But don't fret, it's not that difficult to get my Master's approval. Just don't give off an "I'm an axe murderer" vibe. Well I was a of the 70's and a in the 80's. I love 80's pop music along with just about any other type of music except country or . Those genres have their occasional good g, but in general I just don't like 'em. My favourite band is Duran Duran, and that's not likely to change any time soon. As a writer, I do a lot of reading, especially fantasy and sci-fi, though I do enjoy true crime novels as well. I write fantasy novels, and though I have not started searching for a publisher yet, I am serious about the craft. I am a member of two historical re-creation groups, the SCA and Realms of Avalon. I sew my own garb, and a lot of my own clothing for everyday wear as well. I am owned by two cats (Mojo and Jack), I figure three's the limit before being labelled a "crazy cat lady," so I still have a little way to go. My plan is for my next cat to be an Irish Wolfhound. What else ought I to say? I dunno. If you have questions, please don't hesitate to ask! [COLOR red]*UPDATE* [/COLOR]I just bought a giraffe. True story.

My Ideal Person Well, you're a BBW man, that's for sure. You understand that BBWs are often bombarded with so many negative messages from the media and society at large that it can be a big battle to remain positive about their self-image at all times and you can be supportive when she's down on herself. On the other hand, you're not intimidated by a woman who IS positive about herself and her BBW status. And on the third hand, you're not thrown by a woman who may oscillate back and forth between those two states. Yes, you have three hands. You're just that awesome.

You have a good sense of humour. For example, you're not offended by the previous paragraph. You like snuggling and getting down and sweaty, but it's not all about the physical side of things. You also enjoy reading and watching movies. Snuggling while watching movies is da bomb. You're intellectual enough to enjoy conversation for its own sake, but not a snob about it.

You're a non or ex-smoker and a light or social drinker. You are not allergic to cats or dogs (I don't have a dog at the moment, but I'm planning on getting one when my health allows). You are, however, allergic to bullshit. You're not looking for a secret screw on the side, but an actual relationship with an actual woman.

Am I too picky? I don't think so. I think you exist. Prove me right.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Duran Duran

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Sorry, that'll have to wait for face-to-face discussion...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Light Bondage, Spanking, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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