I have been with several Trans before and I like the experience. I want the girl that is comfortable in who she is. She should be sensual, independent, accomplished and kind. Just plain being together, and enjoying ones company is a very basic need. I feel that is more important than just plain sex. You hear a word in our culture called "Intimacy" and that really means being close. That is what I seek. At the end of the day, I fully expect some kind of conversation with you. Living together is preferred but not absolutely required. For those special relationships, marriage is possible. I live a simple humble life. I am not into extravagance of any kind. I tried that before and it got me no where. Some are into abundance and I have found that it does not work. Their thinking is the more you spend, the more money you will make. This is just not true. I want a woman that will contribute two things. First she must contribute to the relationship. This is like some type of work or volunteer effort which is important to feeling good about yourself. This boosts your self esteem which elevates your self confidence about yourself. It makes living with you easier and more fun. The other is a sense of belonging to society. Going out and participating in life is important rather than staying home and having life come to you.