I'm very romantic and passionate. I love deep French kissing, and lots of bare skin to skin contact. I’m long lasting, and like long involved sexual secession's, but a hot and hard quickie will do if necessary. I’m very sent oriented, which means that offensive body odor (breath, underarms, vagina, anus, and feet) is a turn off for me. I seeking clean smelling, tasting, looking, and "Drug and Disease Free", people only. I'm very oral, and there’s nothing like licking a freshly scrubbed body from head to toes, front to back. I love long hair and light skin and eyes, but it’s not a deal breaker. Small waist and well-rounded buttock can move to the head of the line. I’m an “[B]ASS MAN[/B]”. I love breast as well, but it’s not a deal breaker. Also, I think sexy feet add icing to the cake. I do not smoke or do drugs. If I drink, it will take me longer to cum then you’re probably willing to stand. I like kissing, while making love missionary style, mixed up with some doggy style, then finishing up with some hard and deep (Face Down Ass Up) face down prone position, proceed by kissing, cuddling, nap, and then food. Then start it all again. I love anal, not all the time, but it would be nice if you treat me to some on occasion, but it’s not a deal breaker. I cannot get you pregnant (I’m FIXED). [I]I’m not seeking a serious relationship or any kind of commitment presently.[/I] Men posing as a couple, trying to lure me to their location: PLEASE STOP! I’M MOT MEETING YOU FIRST, YOU’RE NOT CHECKING OUT MY GOODS FIRST, JUST STOP. I am very open minded and extremely kinky per. The quality of a relationship depends on how well it meets the needs of those involved. Consider your partner's needs as legitimate, and look at how you can meet those needs. Although we each seek out a specific set of qualities that is uniquely meaningful to us alone, there are certain psychological characteristics both you and your partner can strive for that make the relationship much more likely for lasting success. There may be no such thing as the perfect partner, but an ideal partner can be found in someone who has developed themselves in certain ways that go beyond looks, charms and success. Sexual attraction doesn't mean she has to be a super model; she just has to have something that appeals to me sexually. I pride myself in being able to find beauty in unexpected places and reject, although not always successfully, what is consider beautiful today. The ideal partner is open and undefended, and is willing to be vulnerable. As a result, they are approachable and receptive to feedback without being overly sensitive about any topic. Their openness also enables them to be forthright in expressing feelings, thoughts, dreams and desires. It includes an interest in peral and sexual development. Ideal partners value each other’s interests separate from their own. They feel congenial toward and supportive of each other’s overall goals in life. WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - you ***DO NOT*** have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any Of its associated sites or studies or projects - you do NOT have our permission To use any of our profile, pictures, or web cams in any form or forums both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. All legal avenues and remedies will be pursued should our aforementioned privacy be violated.

My Ideal Person Sexual partnerships are as varied as the people in them. Sex is important but not necessarily at the core of what binds couples together. It energizes the relationship, making each person feel desired and desirable, and serves as a buffer against trials and difficulties. When a couple avoids or is conflicted about sex, the disconnection can play an inordinately negative role. Often, if you can repair the sexual bond, the relationship improves as well. In one partnership, you might be the sexual initiator, the seducer, the kinky one. In another, you might find yourself more shy, reluctant or cautious while letting the other person take the lead. The kind of partnership you establish with another person will depend on many of the other aspects of your life, including your age, confidence, comfort with your body and sexual desires, and the context in which you live. Like you, your partner brings to the encounter his or her history, experience, beliefs, ignorance and fears. Each of us contain multitudes, and we may only get to see these other selves with certain people. Your choice of a partner, like your choice of certain sexual behaviors, also depends on who you are at the time of choosing. What choices do you have? What do you want—a life mate and soulmate or a playmate? Your criteria for what makes a suitable partner will be influenced by other commitments in your life, your health and level of desire, and your most prominent values at the time of choosing.

There may be no such thing as the perfect partner, but an ideal partner can be found in someone who has developed themselves in certain ways that go beyond looks, charms and success. Sexual attraction doesn't mean she has to be a super model; she just has to have something that appeals to me sexually. I pride myself in being able to find beauty in unexpected places and reject, although not always successfully, what is consider beautiful today. The ideal partner is open and undefended, and is willing to be vulnerable. As a result, they are approachable and receptive to feedback without being overly sensitive about any topic. Their openness also enables them to be forthright in expressing feelings, thoughts, dreams and desires. It includes an interest in personal and sexual development. Ideal partners value each other’s interests separate from their own. They feel congenial toward and supportive of each other’s overall goals in life. They are sensitive to the other’s wants, desires and feelings, and place them on an equal basis with their own. Ideal partners treat each other with respect and sensitivity. They do not try to control each other with threatening or manipulative behavior. The ideal partner is easily affectionate and responsive on many levels: physically, emotionally and verbally. They are personal, acknowledging and outwardly demonstrative of feelings of warmth and tenderness. They enjoy closeness in being sexual and are uninhibited in freely giving and accepting affection and pleasure during lovemaking. The ideal partner has a sense of humor. A sense of humor can be a lifesaver in a relationship. The ability to laugh at one’s self and at life’s foibles allows a person to maintain a proper perspective while dealing with sensitive issues that arise within the couple. Couples who are playful and teasing often defuse potentially volatile situations with their humor. A good sense of humor definitely eases the tense moments in a relationship.

Although we each seek out a specific set of qualities that is uniquely meaningful to us alone, there are certain psychological characteristics both you and your partner can strive for that make the relationship much more likely for lasting success.

The quality of a relationship depends on how well it meets the needs of those involved. Consider your partner's needs as legitimate, and look at how you can meet those needs. Don't label your partner as being wrong or having something wrong with him/her because that dismisses the issue, or don’t ascribe blame. Don’t psychoanalyze. Just describe what you feel is the problem. 'You seem much less interested in sex than you used to be.' Ask if your partner has noticed this as well. I believe that communication is the key to great sex, but communication about sex in a relationship is one of the hardest things to develop in the world. Emotions, feelings, history, love get in the way. But by choosing to not talk about such an important part of your relationship, you are choosing to ignore yours and your partner's needs. If you want your relationship to last, you will need to find a way to open up and discuss things, even when they are uncomfortable, you need to rediscover what you both really want. "Never stop asking questions like, 'Do you like it when I do this?’”, “Then you'll be more confident to ask for what you want in bed." I think it’s about giving yourself in completely. Not holding yourself back. It is about honesty. It is about wanting the other person to such levels of intimacy, we never hold ourselves back. We guide each other.

You listen to what the other person wants, and to be more than happily to do what they desire, it's about giving yourself in completely. Not holding yourself back. It's about honesty. We never hold ourselves back. We guide each other. Listen to what the other wants. And I more than happily to what they desire, and realize that the discussion may take more than one conversation. You don't have to knock it out all in one sitting. If you're the one whose libido is lacking, remember that your most powerful sexual organ is your brain; in order to feel more sexual, you first have to decide that a loving, satisfying sex life and relationship are important. Then commit to finding your untapped sexuality within. If you're the one with greater sexual energy, you'll need to approach your partner with greater understanding and compassion, which will improve communication, compromise, and acceptance.

Are you a once-a-week person, while your partner is wanting it three times a day? Does the difference in your sex drives cause problems in your relationship? A good sexual relationship is one that is gratifying to both partners. If your sexual relationship is not living up to your needs, stop complaining and start asking for what you want. This means you first need to look within to identify your needs. When you communicate, be specific. Do you really know what your partner wants? Find out. Maybe you and your partner are not as far apart as you think. Talk about things when you are both calm and rational. Don't blame each other; talk openly. Relationships are about negotiation and compromise — and it never stops. Carve out time. Negotiate a plan that works for both of you. Behave your way to success. If you agreed to a plan and it's no longer working for you, sit down together and negotiate a new plan. Partners rarely have the same level of sex drive at the same time. Negotiate for some middle ground that you can both be happy with. Remember that quality, not quantity, is the most important factor.

Try to figure out what things arouse the other person beyond traditional sex. Maybe this thing is as simple as oral or maybe your partner enjoys massaging or kissing around the neck/ear/back....whatever it may be, figure it out and spend some time building the anticipation. Someone capacity to understand the fact that you need to set aside your sexual needs and please the partner first; in any and every way you feel comfortable doing. You should never have a check list for who you want to be with. That is just setting you up for disaster. Be vulnerable. Give everybody an equal chance. The best lover "listens". They will tell you exactly what they need, enjoys, and cherishes-- a moan, words, and a movement.

I have had mind blowing sex with more than one person. It's not related to your ideal of perfect body type either. At some level, great sex is about focus. Focus on pleasing your partner. It's related to touch and doing what feels good and between the two of you and who cares about the rules. It is about the confidence to want something and go after it. Cocks don't stay hard all the time. That's life. But a man can touch a woman, and a woman can touch a man.

The reason is communication. The number one thing that makes sex great is communication. The second thing is interest and willingness. An emotional relationship complicates sex because you are afraid to hurt the other person.

It’s about saying, "I want you to touch me here." "Move over." "Get your ass against my cock." "I want your mouth on me now." "Let it out I want to hear you cry." "It's ok." "I love watching you come." "I want to see that look again." "Turn over." "Come here." "Scoot down here." "Watch the teeth."

Mind blowing sex is about touching. Touching each other where it just feels good. That may be slow or fast or moving to a better position or crawling all over the bed. It may be about you moving so that he can better reach your pussy because you want his fingers to touch you and finding yourself splayed all over his body.

Don't expect you to automatically know what they want. They expect you to not know, and to put sincere effort into trying to find out. Unvoiced expectations can kill a relationship before it starts. Most people assume that their partner will instinctively know what’s best for the other, or what makes the other feel good. Wrong. The number 1 thing that a man wants from a woman is for her to voice her expectations of him and give him the chance to meet them.

The ideal partner is open, undefended and willing to be vulnerable. No human being is perfect, so finding someone who is approachable and receptive to feedback can be a huge asset to a lasting union. When someone is free-thinking and open-minded, it enables them to be forthright in expressing feelings, thoughts, dreams and desires, which allows you to truly know them. Their openness is also an indication of their interest in personal development and often contributes to the development of the relationship.

WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - you ***DO NOT*** have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any Of its associated sites or studies or projects - you do NOT have our permission To use any of our profile, pictures, or web cams in any form or forums both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. All legal avenues and remedies will be pursued should our aforementioned privacy be violated.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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