I am an educated professional with an advanced degree. I enjoy complex discussions over a glass of Merlot just as much as I relish the simplicity of an unexpected laugh shared in a chance meeting. Intellectual compatibility is key to any relationship I seek, be it brief or sustained, as a meeting of minds truly ignites the spark in any encounter. But don't mistake this for seeking something deeper - my interest here lies purely in the carnal and exciting aspects of life. As a man of certain years, I appreciate the value of respect and experience and I bring these qualities to every interaction. I am turned on most by people who have pursued a rich tapestry of sexual experiences as I have, allowing us to navigate intimate relationships with sensitivity and skill. I am open to kinks, fetishes, and all body types, and won't take it personally if I don't meet your desires; adults understand that our individual tastes and preferences are what make us unique and appealing. In the pursuit of pleasure, I firmly believe that open communication and mutual consent should guide our exploration. Most importantly, you will find in me a calm, steady, and safe presence. I seek to provide a space where you can express your sexuality fully and safely. Before we venture any further, it's important to me that you know that I am in an open and loving relationship with my wife, who wholeheartedly supports and consents to my adventures in this realm. Transparency is paramount to me, and I believe in starting off any new connection with honesty. As for my photograph, you will find that my face remains a mystery, but not for reasons of deceit. My professional life has led to many public images of me being available online, which could disclose an overwhelming amount of information prematurely to those inclined to search for them. I believe that we should have the opportunity to share our stories in our own time, and so I choose to reveal myself only in private exchanges. Let's embark on this journey with mutual respect and anticipation, taking the time to reveal our layers to each other with respect, comfort, and a dash of delightful mischief.

My Ideal Person I am looking for new encounters and am satisfied just watching you alone or with a friend, playing with toys, light touching, oral only, or anything you can imagine. I'll do it all with the right people.

Couples:
I love playing with couples. I am looking for women or couples who are truly looking for sex for pleasure; I relate best with the kind of people who have "love to fuck" in their profile. I have had several wonderful encounters with people from Xmatch where I never learned their last name.

I am comfortable with couples where the man plays any role from passive watching to aggressive participation. I am experienced with cuckold fantasies as well. I sometimes prefer couples to single women because most couples are truly in this for the sex. I will happily share sucking a cock with women who are turned on by that. All the better if you are into sharing the cum afterwards too.

I am trans and non-binary friendly. I have experience with several trans men and am looking for experiences with feminine trans women. I empathize with how vulnerable you may feel meeting people like this and promise to give you all the space you need to be comfortable. However, I am not turned on at all by cross dressing. Trans women striving for increased femininity make me hard ... hairy guys in panties not so much.

About "Single" Men
My profile says bi because I like to see cocks and cum and I am not hiding that even though I know it turns off a surprising number of women. I am "lightly bi," meaning I like cocks and cum, not men, and I only like to watch, touch, stroke, and occasionally suck. Mostly I want to watch you cum.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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