Hi, so to start I just thought I'd make it clear that I'm totally unattached and single. There are no secret girlfriends or wives lurking in my closet anywhere. I have plenty of proper pictures, just ask if you would like to see them. So... I'm looking for a proper relationship with someone i.e. not just a series of meaningless encounters (although if that were to happen whilst I'm waiting for Ms Right then I'm very open to offers). The reason is thought I'd try AFF is because I love sex and sexual fun, and I believe that if the sex is right in a relationship - then everything that follows in life is small beans. I am quite adventurous sexually, I have wide limits and also have a few kinks that I'd like to be honest and open about; so I am searching for a girl who is receptive to a bit of "deviance" and also sexually adventurous, playful and confident, and is hopefully looking for a similar guy. That said, there is nothing more exciting than a highly charged "no strings" encounter so if you just need sex rather than love, then my doors are open. So all-in-all I think I stand a better chance of finding her on here, rather than on a conventional dating site where that level of initial openness is almost discouraged. Other that that... I'm happy, open, honest and full of energy. Love to travel, have plans, and enjoy a wide range of activities from skiing to diving; and am secure financially with my own house - and I'd also want a girl who would like an active life.

My Ideal Person Cool, playful, sexually adventurous female who really enjoys sex in all it's forms and will encourage and support my "kinks" in the way that I'll support yours - and is looking for a guy to maybe have a long term, but lo-pressure, open relationship with.

Ideally she will be aged between 30 - 45 and likes to be active and would like to join me in enjoying life, seeing cool places and doing interesting things.

Whilst I'm waiting for Mrs. Right - I'm up for any short term sexual encounters if it's just sex that you need.