I'm not looking for a permanent man/ woman relationship. But, if it leads that way, so be it. I'd like to have a friend with similar interests. Sex seems better single, but it can't be the only thing we have in common. Prefer someone over 45yrs old or older. Can be a bit older than that, as long as you're healthy and will consider younger, but not too much younger. I'd like to have a few of life's experiences in common. I'm not into the drama that seems to permeate today's youth. I'm good at what I can do for you. I guarrantee my work ;-P. I'm not an adonis. I'm 54 years old, 200+ lbs (and losing, used to be 255 lbs). I'm balding and keep what's left short. I have a goatee at times. I have strong, but soft hands and love to touch my partner everywhere, massage anyone?. You can not be shy or inhibited. No means no, always. I've never forced a woman to do anything she didn't want to do. I wasn't raised that way. I also won't string anyone along with promises. I'm at a point in my life where though sex is important, honesty is more so.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman that wants a friends with benefits relationship. The friends part is most important. We would have to both like each other before the relationship went intimate. I prefer average size, but will consider others. Health means more to me than age. If you're healthy enough for sex, that's good enough for me. No sloppy drunks please. If this paragraph seems blunt, that's because I don't want to lie just to get someone in bed. And I'd appreciate the same in return. Odd huh? A man who doesn't want to lie for sex. As I said, I'm at a place in my life where I'd rather be honest than just horny.