Bi-white couple (M & F) in 40s staying at Hotel near Newark Airport & the pri from FRI to SUN June 10 to 12, 2011. We are looking to host and play with as many men as we can get to have fun until we leave on SUN morning. She loves watching him with men and will participate. You must either be Bi or willing to accept oral from him. You do not have to return the favor to him unless you desire. You may do oral or more to her (safe sex only). He is five foot eleven inches tall one ninety lbs seven point five cut tool disease free non-smoker. She is cute with 38Ds and horny as heck. You must have at least six (real) inches are clean and disease free, not grossly obese and without piercings or unkempt beard (no bushy beards) and not thuggish. Young or middle aged guys in good shape to the front of the line. BBC to the very front of the line. We can host eve and night FRI and SAT. Your pic (face) gets ours. We are serious, please also be serious and ready to play. First come, first cum. Once she is tired, we take a break for the rest of the day. ----------------------------------------------------- We are a down-to-earth, open-minded, fun-loving married couple, with a solid and deeply-rooted foundational love for each other, average looks and extraordinary sexual stamina, energy and desire. He’s a firefighter (job) (a man’s man, with a Type A perality for danger) and systems engineer and photographer (own business). She’s a nurse (job) (Caring and calming) and beauty consultant (own business). We are both intelligent professionals and mentally stable. Not into game playing, unnecessary stress or drama of any sort. He is 180 Lbs. She is 170 Lbs. We are secure in, and committed to, our long-term marriage. Because we have an open and loving relationship, neither of us will allow another per to even attempt to break us up or otherwise harm us in any way. We are both free to play with others, within certain parameters we’ve established. We are swinging for the fun, variety, new experiences and friendship it provides. We keep our lives in balance, ensuring our lifestyle activities don't become overly addictive and overshadow our quality time together. We are simply looking to enhance our fun; experience and share with other people; and develop long-lasting friendships (not romances) with other couples, female and selected male married (with spousal knowledge/approval) and unmarried singles. We are VERY discrete. We expect you'll be the same to protect our privacy (our "little secret"). “What we do together, we never did!” We want to only exchange enough peral information as needed to feel comfortable with each other – nothing more. (We don’t need to know the names of your ren; how much money you make, etc.) We are a very real couple, not a single male posing as a couple and using excuses. You can talk on the phone to both of us (except of course when we are separated due to work, errands, etc. for a brief time). We are able to walk the talk, as those who have played with us can attest to. Normally, we play only as a couple, but he is available as a single (without her present, but with her full knowledge/permission), but she is not available as a single by herself under any circumstances, unless he is present (don’t even ask!). We'd like to meet in a public place or one of the clubs we frequent, chat a bit, then if all goes well - play! (Why waste time?) Our immediate/primary goal is to: Find couples & selected male and female singles in the No.VA/MD/DC area to become friends with, enjoying sexual and non-sexual activities, on a regular basis, as schedules allow. Our long-term/ultimate goal is to: Have 4 couples; 6 single males; and 4 single females in our circle of friends. Establishing a group of lifestyle friends is the top priority. We want to enjoy time together dancing, dinner, movies, cruises, shopping, etc., while having the freedom to openly discuss and express lifestyle matters and playing along the way. We realize that we are going to have to screen lots of frogs to find the few princes/princesses we are looking for, so we do. We are exhibitionists and voyeurs and willing to play various roles to fulfill fantasies and desires, as long as they are safe and legal. Normally we play with another couple or two; another woman or two other women; two or three other men; or a combination of these. On occasion, we play with just one other man; more than three other men; or more than two other couples, although rare. During our playtime, he loves taking photos for our private viewing. (Discretion assured and the untouched images will never be placed on the Internet or released to anyone). We enjoy watching each other in action. Regardless, we prefer not to have either of us excluded from play entirely. He is 7.5" Long/Cut and medium to thick 5.25" Diameter (Yes, this is a real and verified measurement - see photos) and she is 38D and firm, with a nice rear (See photos). He is an "expert" giving pleasure orally and intercourse (can do both for over an hour or more at a time, without stopping to rest), as well as has great hands and touch for massage. (Don't believe it? Just try it and see for yourself!) He is straight, but she wants him to be orally bi-curious. Given the right circumstances, he’s open to it. She is Bi. He enjoys showing her off in public while she is dressed extra-sexy (very short skirt, low cleavage, high-heels, etc.) and having her "used.” She enjoys dressing and acting like a real slut. She enjoys the attention (and occasional pickups) she gets while doing it. Public displays of affection (hugs, kissing, grabs, touches in a covert manner) and sometimes sex in the car or while hiking or in a mall bathroom, etc. are the norm for us. Both are freaks in the sheets and love using their assets to the fullest to please others. On occasion she plays the Dom role and he plays the Sub role. She likes to dominate him and a few others (male or female or both) to be sex slaves to please her and her play friends. We are open to playing various other roles, including doctor/nurse, schoolgirl/teacher, master/slave; etc. We like to explore roles, different scenarios, and new positions and so on. We are very open to most scenes, as long as it's safe, not gross & legal. Give us a suggestion or teach us! We aim to please! Both enjoy and can endure back-to-back multiple orgasms, without needing rest. (He stays hard and she stays wet). Foreplay and socialization (getting to chat and know each other, some) is usually preferred, but we can also just get to it, if desired. We are about doing things safe & legal, so she does NOT swallow and doesn't allow bare back penetration - don't even try, don't ask. In turn he respects same limits for others we meet. We can travel to your place; host in our home, host or meet at a hotel; meet at a club; or meet someplace in between. We like going to house parties, clubs, aboard boats, and other locations (within rea). On various occasions throughout the year, and especially during the late Fall and Winter (when the holidays are near and our lives take a slower pace), we enjoy hosting small parties for our friends. We'll make the dip and sangria - gives us a use for her "Rabbit," since she hasn't needed it for pleasure since we hooked up. Now it makes a great mixing device – LOL!

My Ideal Person While we will play with many different types and shapes of people, cleanliness is very, very important. The only people automatically excluded (don’t waste your time contacting us) are those who are unclean (body odor, un-kept facial or head hair, smell badly of cigarette smoke or alcohol), illegal drug users (seek help), short-tempered people (try yoga), super-nerds (intelligence is good, so regular-nerds are okay), guys high on themselves and their looks (get out of the gym and get a real life), wimps (we like men to be men), people who sit behind a computer wasting our time, entertaining or pleasuring themselves (consider a blow-up doll and vacuum), prior no-shows (learn responsibility and consideration for others’ time), and Obese people (plump/overweight is okay but no layers of rolls on top of rolls – weight watchers works well for us).

We are not into extreme body mutilation (tattoos and minimally invasive things like tongue or labia piercing, female nipple rings, and the like is okay, but objects through the dickhead, eyelids, lips, etc. is too extreme for us; as are tattoos all over the entire back, arms or body).

Don't expect to play with us while you carry a beer in one hand, a cigarette in the other and wear a ballcap indoors - we prefer people who know how to respect themselves and others. (We actually had a few folks at clubs try to play with us that way - to their credit they never spilled a drop of the beer - ha!).

No Diseases/STDs or Drugs of ANY type, please (do we really have to say that? It should be obvious!)

We prefer normal, clean-cut (not un-kept, sloppy looking, long-haired) men and women with various looks, (except excessively fat). When it comes to women, we are both T & A fans. When it comes to men, she is a fan of nice sized man meat. That means average size (6") and above in length and average thickness and more. Men with smaller sized length and thickness need not apply; it will simply not appeal to, or please her.

He especially loves cute looking/speaking/acting women (such as Black, Hispanic, Oriental, Southern, Irish and Plump (if they look good in a skirt) women, but NOT obese women). She especially loves fit, athletic/in-shape (not gym rats or jocks) and certain racially forbidden-type guys.

For those who are hung up on body looks and all things shallow, here is info you may ask for - Our BMIs: She is in 26-27 (just above normal) range; He is in the 24-25 (normal) range with 83.7% lean muscle and just 16.3% fat (as of a 31 OCT 06 professional analysis - down from 17% fat in 2003). Excellent health (verified, and also verified being HIV negative on 6 OCT 06).

Sorry about the red hearts covering the eyes, we know some people hate that. We hope you understand our concern for privacy on this site. Please just see us in person if you want to verify the shape or color of our eyes.

ATTN: MALES - If you advertise yourself as a "couple" then we expect that it means you AND your wife/girlfriend, not you alone. Be honest, we don't want to hear any b.s. about her taking a break; being on a trip to Siberia and not expected back for 3 months, etc.

Don't be a wimp, be a man! Don't sneak out of the house to meet or play with us. If your spouse/girlfriend doesn't know you are doing it, tell us upfront. Sometimes we accept this; other times, we don't because we dislike wimpy guys who cheat on their loved ones. Be honest with us and we'll decide at that time, on a case-by-case basis. Be real, Be Upfront, Be honest or stay away from us! Sometimes we accept the male as a single, but not if we are lied to or suspect we are being lied to.

ATTN: FEMALES - Single Females ALWAYS welcomed! Beyond that, since there is a "double standard" in the world, we have it too - if you are part of couple but want or need (for whatever reason) to play as a single, than we are more than willing to accept you with open arms. No need to give us an excuse – just tell us the truth (it’s always best). Discretion is assured!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Janet - I want to dominate 3 men to do whatever I tell them to, including satisfying my friends (other women in the lifestyle that we meet)and I, orally or more.

John - To fulfill Janet's fantasy (above) and many others, including those fantasies we have in common (see the ones we checked).

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Too much for us to write at this time - there is so much to write about!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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