I'm a literate, liberal, passionate and creative man looking for a lover. I don't care if you're married or in a relationship, and you don't care if I am either. I'm a chameleon in the bedroom-- I'll let you make me what you want me to be, as long as you return the favor. I'm pretty kinky, mind you. Don't be too dainty. I'm partial to subs, but I can switch or go another direction altogether. The best erotic experiences start ages before a hand is laid anywhere. The buildup, the role play, the anticipation and challenge, fear and risk are what make it mind blowing for me. I like small touches that show thoughtfulness, even if the scene is not one where small touches are the norm. I have a moderately high profile in some places so discretion is absolute. I'd rather meet you than share a photo, but I'm not gross or anything. No public risk, though public play is another thing altogether. I also really need to be able to mentally connect with someone. I love talk of the arts or politics or anything, really, as long as we aren't boring each other.

My Ideal Person Chat me up. I am not looking for a relationship, I'm more looking for whatever you want. Try your fantasies out on me. See if I can add to them. Erotic email is also nice-- I write a little erotica from time to time. But I will want to meet you in the flesh.

Looks matter, but I find odd features attractive, and once I get to know someone they begin to look good/bad based on how I feel about them, usually.

I like submissive women, though not exclusively. I like to have a lot of fun with assignments and challenging personal limits. And I'm not so philosophical that I can't dominate the shit out of a willing woman. Try me.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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