Are you sometimes seeing someone in the streets, in a cinema, museum or shopping mall, and just for a brief moment think that maybe it would be nice to get to know that per? To find out who they are, what they care about, and how it feels to have their skin touch yours, to explore each other's mind and body? That certainly happens to me a lot, but somehow it does not seem like a promising strategy to approach these people and tell them about these ideas right there. (Or maybe I should try it? :-) ) That is why I am here. Be Adultfriendfinder the restaurant/bar/pet supply store (err, for example) we just happen to walk past each other. And here I am smiling at you. What do you do? --- Like most people, I am here because I want to have sex with you. I am not interested in one night stands. Of course sometimes things don't work out well and there is no second time, but what I am trying to say is that I am looking for people where I believe I _will_ want to meet them again. And again. And again. I would even consider the option of not having sex each time. :-) What probably makes things a bit more complicated is that I want to meet you secretly. I am married, but somehow I never felt relationships should be exclusive. My primary relationship should however remain exactly that, namely primary, and thus you would have to fit into whatever time is left. Involving my wife in whatever we do is definitely an option (she has done that before), but I consider this more a long term thing. I have had a reaable amount of sexual adventures and experimentation already. Just enough of each to know what I am doing, but not as much to be at higher risk of contracting or communicating diseases. I am particularly concerned about this, and I am therefore very careful, both in what I do and who I do it with. So, why would you want to meet me? Well, for a lot of my previous partners it was my looks, although unfortunately this becomes less and less of an important argument with increasing age... I am no model type anyhow. You'll have to judge yourself. I am not afraid of being judged. I am not dumb. That does not mean that I like to spend my dates discussing French literature. But if you insist on it I'll try hard to keep up with you. It is difficult to put this into words, but I prefer people who can switch their brains off temporarily over people with either too much or without brains. If you can think of a better way of phrasing this, you are most welcome to send me an e-mail!

My Ideal Person I am not after a particular type of woman. I tend to
have strong opinions about whether or not I find someone
beautiful or sexy or both (either one is possible without the other!), but this opinion does not necessarily concur with mainstream. I have talked to
too many women who did not have the courage to approach
someone they liked because they found themselves not attractive enough. That is stupid. If you think you'd
like to get to know me, then do talk to me and let *me* decide whether I think I'd like to get to know you too. If not, which is certainly a possibility, I will still appreciate your coming forward. I will not offend you. (Unless of course inadvertently, which does happen every once in a while, especially when talking to people you don't know very well... sorry!)

I am predominantly interested in meeting women, but the few situations where I had sex with a couple are definitely among the most exciting sexual experiences I had , and I would definitely consider that. Degrees of involvement among the participants are subject to mutual preferences. There are not many things I am not willing to try. A lot of them I have already tried anyway!