***Update: After a little experience/exposure to the "swinging" scene, we have a better understanding of what we want and are looking for.....so here we go: 1. Another woman: My wife loves seeing me turned on by another woman and she enjoys touching and playing. All things would basically be good with another woman. 2. Another couple: All items above would apply, however, my wife is not interested in another man for a swap and we both think it would be "weird" to see her getting nailed by another man, so right now that is not an option. We would love to use the other couple for some serious foreplay (touching, kissing, etc), then have sex with our respective partners, while touching and playing with the other couple. We are not at all interested in a full swap. I hope this makes sense. ____________________________________________ My husband and I began talking about sex and it quickly turned into creating scenarios for each other to rate. He was shocked that I would be fine with introducing another per into our sex life. I am secure enough in myself and in our marriage to be willing to watch my husband be turned on by someone other than me. I have never entertained the idea of having any physical relationship with a woman and consider myself straight, but I think there is a spectrum of sexuality and even though I have always preferred men, the idea of me being able to be turned on by a woman is a new and exciting idea. I think a healthy marriage can become even healthier with a more adventuresome sex-life. If it doesn't work than we can be able to laugh about it and create another fantasy.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Husband with another woman while I watch and play.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, dirty talk

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Give me a swap with Brad and angelina jolie....

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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