**Please Note: I am seeking a long-term arrangement/relationship** I am a vivacious, thicksational, voluptuous, open-minded and down-to-earth girl who loves to laugh. I identify myself as a sex-positive/pansexual switch. I am 5'5", but I am almost always wearing platforms or stilettos-- I love to glam myself up. I often tell friends that I think that I am a drag queen trapped in a woman's body-- especially when my crazy alter-ego (FuschiaKitty) comes out to play. I am someone who is funny and educated with a sense of style, character and substance- yet, still a geek at heart. I received my undergraduate degree and a Master of Science degree from two prestigious schools. I think of myself as someone who has an opinion and isn't afraid to express herself but also knows when it's best to just listen. I am originally from Caribbean, with a passion for life's exotics. I have an opinion and not afraid to express myself (tactfully and respectfully) but I also know when it's best to just listen. I am compassionate, fun and grounded. I can't help being provocative, curious, and insightful and being open to the possibilities of the world. I also get a kick out of entertaining friends and making people laugh. I'm often told and believe that I have a strong sense of humor and tend to be sarcastically witty more often than not. I love to have fun with anyone, doing just about anything, anywhere. As a matter of fact my motto is "I am willing to try anything twice"...leaving others to wonder if it is still trying the second time around? I like to maintain honest and open communication, and I expect the same of others. One of the most important things to know about me is that I'm not perfect ... (but then again, neither are you... right? I appreciate chivalry, honesty, spontaneity, assertiveness, intelligence, a great sense of rhythm (I love to dance), wit, teasing, surprises and sexy cologne. I am originally from Haiti, a mostly non-smoker who drinks socially-- but responsibly-- with a passion for life's exotics. I guess I am a bit of a hedonist. ((he·don·ist heed-n-ist noun - a per whose life is devoted to the pursuit of pleasure and self-gratification.)) \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\******************************************** I am seeking to connect with someone I can be dirty, kinky and wild with ... but, be capable of a sensual, erotic passionate connection too. I am a kinky, hedonistic, sensual switch... As a Domme: I would love my sub to pleasure me... then I will spoil him if he is successful. Not big on inflicting pain or humiliating. I am naturally sexually aggressive ... For me, the means of exercising that aggression, of achieving that control, are not always what one might expect of a 'Domme' in the general sense of the term. The means by which I assert my desire for control is in an erotic fashion... I seek control of all of your senses, to find the heart of your desires, and then to exploit them to my satisfaction. It is the response that most gratifies me, whether that response is desperation, or ecstasy. As a submissive: As much as I love being able to dominate a man sensually and sexually (not so much mentally, intellectually or emotionally), I am curious to find a man who I can trust enough to let him have total control of me... Without hurting me. I am brutally honest but compassionate... very strong willed, and extremely intelligent per -- as a friend of mine wrote on his profile-- the kind of per that can walk all over most men/women and will surrender only to my true LOVING master, when I find him. "A true sub is not someone who wants to be abused; a good baby girl /submissive woman is a smart, intelligent, strong individual who enjoys taking a break from life's responsibilities..."

My Ideal Person ... Funny, wellness-oriented, energetic, stimulating, social, curious, open-minded, honest, passionate, compassionate, adventurous, kinky, uninhibited, family oriented, ethical, generous, thoughtful, confident, responsive, agreeable, attentive, loyal, committed, spirited, healthy and protective.

I speak fluent sarcasm so you need to have a sense of humor.

(and YES, while I love people of all backgrounds, I DO HAVE A PREFERENCE FOR TALL, FIT CAUCASIAN MEN... However, I do love an exceptional man of any race!! ... There's just something about that skin color contrast that makes me extra wet. )

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage, Anal Training, Sensual Domination

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Stamina for marathon sessions

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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