I often wonder why people spend their lives in sort of a private, sad, unhappy situation, thinking things will change. Well, I guess with honest introspection, I am a poster for that. As the saying goes, "the definition of insantity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results". I grew up in the era when pantyhose were taking the place of nylons and garters/girdles. Actually, it was a wonderful time to grow up but had no idea of what an impact it had on me. I realized it when I was maybe 12 or so and without going into the psychology surrounding it, which I am not sure even can explain it, I became fascinated with seeing women wearing these things. My friends and I could hardly wait for the catalogs from JC Penney and Sears because we would stare at the erotic images of women posing in girdles, hosiery, etc. I know its a fetish, but it is real. You cannot believe how many times I have almost wrecked my car trying to catch a glimpse of a woman getting in and out of a car in heels and hosiery. Tsk, Tsk....maybe medicine would help but I think the best medicine is to meet a woman that knows the power these types of erotic clothing can have on men and are not afraid to let a guy enjoy her in them.

My Ideal Person I would love to meet a "friend". A lady friend as I am not bi or interested or curious or in any way interested in guys. I, amazingly, do not feel that "sex" is a requirement because if I met a woman that enjoyed these things, shall I say it...my fetish...then I would love to get together to look, talk about, and discuss why we like these type things. I am a very visual and tactile person, so looking and touching, feeling the silky nylon...well, you get the picture, I think. In fact, I would be happy to take photos of you if you want me to, with your camera, or mine...and give the pictures to you. I think it would be a wonderful experience to have you model in erotic clothing, poses, etc., and maybe you would want to just see how you look, give them to friends...(or not), or just feel sexy, even if they are all deleted before we depart from each other.

I desire to be quite discreet and am not looking for a permanent relationship but one that is sincere and non-judgmental. An open mind is desired as I would love to have a chance to talk candidly about life, people, desire, and also about hopefully a mutual interest or interests. I am educated, funny, but careful. Hell, I guess I am careful as this is new to me. Anyway, this is sort of who and what I am and if you feel so inclined, please let me know. I do travel a bit so maybe there is a chance????

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A store dressing room, A hotel room

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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