Here's a simple fact: we will all age and our youthful desires and fantasies will survive our aging. A 30 some-thing swinger will become an old man. But, being around people who are in the peak of sexual experimentation and adventure keeps old memories alive and rekindles fire and passion. I like to hang out, talk, give advice based on experience, flirt, and play when I can. I am unashamedly but non-insistently bi, totally masculine, and thoroughtly given over to voyeurism. I am discrete and clean, educated and witty. But I am here because I love to turn on and be around people who are not afraid of sex.

My Ideal Person Smart, flirtatious, kinky but not bizarre. Comortable with the fact that they are on this site because conventional sexuality is just too - conventional.