I can't direct and instruct rather than control, Understand the psycology of d/s and the various degrees ,methods and roles that can be employed . I'm intrested in exploring sexual variations of almost all types, but I'm not looking for a victim. Participants are far more fullfilling.In real life I'm kind and co-operative, I love to stretch out foreplay and I'm more comfortable with people who would rather not put the effort into a unemtotional or leveraged situation. No should feel obligated or forced to do something that they are not feeling at least ok about

My Ideal Person the onething I've always dreamed of doing is empowering a woman who's never really been given the oppertunity to persue her own sexual desires and has never invited or welcomed her men to visit the hospitality of her nature. I don't think ladies have even considered the possibilities beyond the whole primal attack, conquer,invade and occupy thing that seems to provoke a contentious and what must feel like a hostile interaction