I find, I'm feeling a little lost without hubbys guidance. To me having his voice in my ear telling me what to do felt like I was wrapped in a warm protective blanket. I didn't need to worry if I was making the right decision about anything because hubby did all that for me and I feel I'm having to learn how to look after myself all over again.
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Hey wow .... I felt that ... I get it too .. it takes a while to find the comfort in our own voices it does and it's not easy I wish you the very best in doing it though hang in there ... Life is not easy for sure you ever need to talk here I am
Thankyou xx Sometimes I just feel lost doing things myself
Continue with what feels good to you, trust what feels right, if that means doing things differently, then go for it!
Thankyou xx
I would still recommend finding yourself a good Dom! With or without your hubby's direction, he will tell you what to do. Set up special sessions where you can be used to the max. All your desires met. I have enjoyed doing that for my subs over the years. They always appreciated my guidance and support. And on occasion, protection.
Thankyou xx Perhaps a different Dom will refresh my mind but would most definitely make hubby a cuck and although he would accept that to keep me would he like it
@Jessygirl23 Not necessarily. It would depend on how you all agreed to structure the power exchange. I have and still do, work with couples without cucking the husband, unless he chooses that role. Each couple is going to be unique. The level of involvement by the husband is decided in advance, and then the Dom and his sub are free to fully explore the extent of relationship that works for them. You can have your cake and eat it too!
@JThom7899 Thankyou xx And that is where the struggle is going to be but I feel hubby might like the idea of knowing I am being controlled by another man so I just need to do it gently if that's what I want.
@Jessygirl23 Life is a marathon and not a race. Yes, go at a speed you are comfortable with. But also consider the freedom working with a Dom provides. Structure, guidance, protection and someone who can, not just listen but HEAR your honest desires, with the ability to make your desires manifest themselves. And possibly help you discover something as yet untapped within yourself. It has been my privilege and honor to aid other couple in that quest. Moving further into the BDSM world may give you both something new, and still be appreciated for who you are and all you have to offer. And possibly help you find some peace of mind with your wants, needs and desires. I wish you every success.
@JThom7899 thankyou xx
I'm confused. What happened to hubby?
We are still together but just with a few changes in our relationship
Keep on Keepin' on Jessy, with and without your hubby's words.
Thankyou xx
Yes its not eazy ehh â¤ï¸
Certainly not