I have not conducted a formal study, but after years of listening, watching, and feeling, one truth stands out: most women are missing out on truly great sex.
Why? Because too many men think size is the secret. They flash monster dicks like trophies, convinced they are Gods gift to the female orgasm. But the truth? A big cock without emotional depth is just anatomy. Great sex is not about inches it is about intimacy, rhythm, and the kind of communication that makes your skin hum before you are even touched.
Women are clear: Do not send me dick pics. Do not open with your genitals. Do not assume I will melt for a one-night stand.
We want connection. We want tension that builds through words, glances, shared laughter. We want to feel seen, desired, and safe enough to let go. Sex should be a slow burn, not a rushed performance.
But most men are not listening. They are chasing climax, not chemistry. They are focused on penetration, not presence. And that leaves women aching not just for pleasure, but for partnership.
The men who understand this, who know how to touch with intention, speak with desire, and listen with their whole body are rare. Finding one is like discovering a diamond in a sea of dick-first amateurs.
So if you are reading this and wondering what women want: Start with curiosity. Lead with warmth. And remember, your cock might get you in the door, but it is your soul that keeps her coming back.
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I agree with the majority of what you said. Men and women are wired differently. This does led to issues and conflict. However if I may add some observations to this. For the Men, having a face picture is important. Having one that shows your face and the top half of your body is second most important. You may elect not to post them on here but have them handy. Oh and the profile picture of you doing another woman is not putting your best foot forward either. Even I am tired of seeing the monster dick pictures with some caption like, you want it, with it. So guys remember what a lady friend of mine once said, "it's not the size of the wand, but how much magic is in it".
Agreed!
As a male of the species, I'm very much inclined to agree with your sentiments. Equally, I'm fed up with far too many men tarnishing the image and reputation of ALL males. We're not all dickheads!
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Nice. Looks like the cock pumping her.
That pussy looks all the same.
How odd that its states women don't want dick pics and then ends it with a pussy and dick pic....the irony is too much.
Men, or at least most men, don't read profiles.
Speaking for myself, I am on the very opposite area when it comes to sex. I have yet to experience it. On those rare occasions I have had an opportunity to chat with someone here and they bring up the topic of sex, there is so much that I have yet to experience I have a feeling it is a major turnoff. Lately it seems I get interest from "Paid" workers however as I explain to them, I want to feel that I have earned the right instead of paying for it.
I wish men would read profiles and when it says the girl is only looking for woman they still send you messages or friends requests.
That is a good point.
As a man I do agree. Still remember my first mind orgasim it blew my mind and look for that connection again...
Hmmm
Perfect
Thanks for the confirmation.
I hope you have made a few more converts.
Interestingly, I think the article caused some me to self-reflect for a minute or two. Then back to the same old, same old.
There are a few of us out there. My wife is a very satisfied woman because of our connection..
I noticed the photo in your profile folder. I suspect you wife is very satisfied because of the connection you have with her. Thanks for the reply.
It's a fuck site what do you expect. The naked body is beautiful ðŸ˜
Well said!
all women are perfect
I think it was Billy Crystal who said women need a reason, men just need a place. Good point here
That is really funny, but so true.
Sex is give and take
Wow! That is an impressive shaft. Thanks for sharing.
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I here that that's why we only play with cpls
My cock to big
I couldn't agree with you more.
Lol, I'm just an ordinary guy, but I've met so many women here who are surprised when I chat with them (in complete sentences) and don't even mention sex until SHE brings the topic up. Just some simple common sense and courtesy goes a long way guys!
Jeff
I agree with you. Ironically, some women are rather abbresive when I am polite. It is probably because they have gotten so calloused with men not being ver nice.
I totally agree with this post! 95 % of men on this site are truly inconsiderate towards women. Us 5% have a very hard time finding a women that has not been screwed over or hurt by these idiots.
No kidding. I agree with you.
You’re probably 100% right. But I also say that because I’d like to get into your panties obviously lol.
That is really funny.
I literally always avoid trying to talk about sex first (and I love sex; it's an easy topic for me), and it doesn't really get me anywhere. I also find myself average and not that special (and my dicks huge), so this definitely doesn't apply to me. I feel as if women have so many options that they graze right past a lot of potential opportunities. Had a few instances recently where I get one or two word replies and try my best to hang on to a conversation for as long as possible. I do struggle a bit at introductions, but I truly want a conversation. I don't think sex would be very interesting for me (past the first few times) if there wasn't any sort of affinity. I crave passion, but I'm definitely still a romantic at heart.
I agree with you. I need to connect intellectually, emotionally, and physically before I have sex with someone. This is probably the reason I have been celibate for the five years, since my wife died. She a sex machine. Only problem was that she threatened to shoot off my balls if I didn't peform.
I love that hot sexy bush
Funny, She was self-conscious of it.