I wanna be in the middle of a monster mash!

Greetings and kisses! I hope everyone is having a lovely week, and an enchanting October 🎃

I love Halloween! I love all of the fun surrounding the holiday, and all of the candy, of course. And so many happy memories of trick or treating as a child. And plenty of happy memories as an adult. For many years a friend of mine threw the most awesome party EVER. He had a big home in the suburbs, and spent about a month before the party decorating along with his roommate and various friends. Thousands of dollars worth of decorations. They would turn the garage into a haunted house that you had to go through to get inside. The roommate was a DJ, and the music was always excellent.

For a few years my friend group would choose a theme and we would all participate. I remember the Greek Pantheon (I was Athena), beauty pageant contestants where everyone was a Miss something or other. Miss Guided, Miss Nomer, Miss Behavior, you get the idea. One year was a Catholic theme (was I a schoolgirl or a naughty nun? I honestly can't remember). Some years we couldn't get it together and just did whatever. One year, totally lacking inspiration and funds, I ended up at the Goodwill. With a wig I already had, I was Phyllis Diller! And there were actually people who knew who I was supposed to be, LOL.

My friend eventually decided to quit having the party, as he developed some health problems and it was too much work. I miss those parties!

I've got nothing fun planned for this year, and for the night itself I'll turn all the lights off early and hide, lol. The last year that I gave out candy I had hardly any kids, but lots of adults which made me uncomfortable. If I could put out the word that I had special treats just for college age boys I'd definitely participate.

Okay. I did have a sexual topic to write about, but I went off in another direction like I often do. Anyways, I am going to talk about some of the challenges I am having in fulfilling some of my fantasies.

There are two things I want to try - visiting a public sex club or resort, and participating in a MFM. Trying to get either to happen is like herding cats. I will only go to a public club with another person, preferably one who has been there before. I want this person to be someone I know, like, and trust. I've had a few guys show interest, but when it comes down to making actual plans, nada.

And the MFM. Geez. I'm going at this all wrong. I think these mostly happen when a MF couple invites a man to join them. Trying to find two willing male participants as a single woman is getting to the point that I'm about to give up! I swear, you get one guy who says he's down, by the time you find a second one the first has changed his mind. I'm not even trying anymore, I really think if it's meant to happen it will.

Before I get a bunch of volunteers here, thank you if you do, but it's like visiting Mon Chalet or similar. I want to know and trust both guys. I need to be pretty sure the guys will get along in a friendly way. But not in a bi way. I'm gonna be selfish for this and be the focus of attention!

I probably should wrap this up for now, and I promise my next post will come sooner rather than later. And may we all come sooner rather than later, huhuhuh!

Have a Bootiful Halloween!
Miss all treats no tricks Blue xxx