How does everyone feel about chatting with and possibly meeting with people who don't live where you do? Personally, I prefer that someone be within a 30 minute drive. While lots of guys are nice and offer to do the traveling, that puts me in an uncomfortable spot. There's no guarantee that after we meet up for coffee that I will invite you to my home. I feel like the longer the drive someone makes, it would be more difficult to say no thank you. And I don't want to be in that position, so it's just easier to only meet guys that aren't too far.
I'm still seeing the nice guy I mentioned in my last blog post, three months ago. He's a lot of fun, although he said he would take me to a sex club for my first time, and that hasn't happened yet. Other than that, he's an ideal fuck buddy 😠He will make plans with me, and actually stick to them!
In contrast to that is Johnny. Johnny is sweet and young and super hot. We met here about a year ago and we've only met up THREE TIMES. Now we do work schedules that are the opposite of the other, but apart from the first time we met for a coffee date, it's been completely random and "hey! I'm free right now, can I come see you?" And that simply doesn't work for me very often. And it's getting tiresome and insulting! I'm worth making plans with, and keeping those plans with. The last time Johnny got in touch with me, he was supposed to go to the gym with a friend but he couldn't get a hold of the guy. So I guess I was consolation prize, but then he decided not to come over because I wouldn't be available immediately. Really over it, despite how hot he is. And damnit, he's pretty hot 🔥 🔥 🔥
That's how it goes with these younger men. Short attention spans!
What else..... I met a guy at the other site I'm on, and saw him twice. He's the oldest guy I have been with, 64. He was fun in bed, but other things led me to tell him I was going to take a break from seeing guys. Yes that was a fib, but he was a nice guy and I didn't wish to hurt him.
He would text me all day, wanting to sext. As much as I love sex, talking about it isn't something I want to do constantly!!! And he wrote stuff that was very confusing, and would contradict things he had just written. I would point it out, and he would downplay it, deny it, or say he was joking and it drove me crazy. I wondered if he was going senile. And lastly.....I swear to god his junk smelled like Fritos.
Speaking of sexting, haha, I do have a hot young friend who supposedly* lives in California, and we chat about once a week. But it's not really sexting, as in pretending to fuck, but lots of sexual conversations about fantasies and kinks. We met on a social media site where I sometimes post in a "cougars and cubs" group. He's mid 20s, adorable and so innocent looking. I think we've been chatting for about six months. And, dear readers, he is one kinky damn freak. And not only because he's into me. I'll tell more about him next time, as I've just noticed how long this post is already. So I will wrap this up, say goodnight and wish sweet sexy dreams to all of you 😘
Miss Blue xxx happy to be here again with you
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beautiful
I'm not too keen on constant sexting either.
I think for a lot of people here that's all they want. They use it like one of those back-in-the-day phone sex lines.