Although I thoroughly enjoy having sex, for me the best part is getting there, specifically kissing. I’ve always had a thing about lips. So that I like kissing probably isn’t a big surprise. But it’s not just any kiss, and it’s not with just anyone.
As much as the last guy didn’t work out, I’ll say this, we kissed well. However, the best was the first FWB I ever had from this place. Very full lips. Kissing him was sooo good. I couldn’t make it up the stairs to my bedroom without turning around halfway up to kiss him. (He used to joke that if I kept it up, he’d take me on the stairs one day.)
It's where you feel like you can’t breathe until you kiss. And when you do kiss, you can finally exhale just to be drawn in again. Wrapped in his arms, lips together, breath stuttering. It’s simply the best.
And for some reason this piece of music makes me think of this anticipation, the getting to, the waiting for, the final release of connecting...and then the doing of it all over again. I can’t wait for the next guy who knows how to kiss.
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You can tell a lot from a kiss.
Absolutely.
@MyNameIsKay My whole goal with is a kiss is to be play full and seductive. Getting my partner wound up and increasing the tension between us.
Kissing is very key to the whole thing. If they can't kiss well then I see no reason to go any further.
I tend to agree with that point of view. Kissing is more than important; it's a requirement!
You’ve captured the essence of anticipation and connection so beautifully! That build-up, the moment of pure chemistry, and the way it deepens everything that follows—it’s truly the best part. For me, it’s about the journey 🥰, not the destination.
Thank you, sexy. I agree about the journey vs destination. And when guys say that age is just a number, this is the part they don't get. Younger guys are more into the destination than the journey. And you can't just skip the lead-up.
@MyNameIsKay Exactly! The build-up is what gives everything meaning. Without it, the destination wouldn’t feel nearly as fulfilling.
Good kisses are intoxicating
They certainly are, almost like good music. Combined, and it could be amazing.
Wonderful -- spirited, contemplative, emotional.
Thank you. That piece catches me every time and pulls me along with it...just like great kissing.
I love kissing. It can be its own activity or it can lead to more but more won't happen without it.
So true. The last guy and I had no where to go for privacy after one of our first dates, so we made out like teenagers in the back seat of my car. I don't think I actually did that as a teenager. But I think it's what made our first time together so disappointing. The rest didn't really live up to the kissing.
I'm a big fan of good kissing too - unfortunately it hasn't been super common...
I think there have been 3 really good: the aforementioned last guy, the FWB from here, and someone I met after my ex left. I think he's the one that made me a better kisser. I had to figure out how to "keep up" with him. Lol.
Do you offer kissing lessons?
Now that's an idea. Do I get to pick the students? Are you asking to be first in line? 😘
@MyNameIsKay I don't know if I need them or not, but I DO know I regret not taking the opportunity to kiss you when I (sort of) had the chance.
I had a girlfriend way back in the day, whose lips, when I kissed her, would take my breath away! Sometimes, to just kiss her would make my heart skip a beat!! Oddest feeling.
Those days are gone.
Now, now, now...don't say that. You have to keep the hope that it will happen again one day. You never know who you might meet. 🤗
@MyNameIsKay I agree that you never know who you might meet!!! I was just thinking about her lips, and wondering, as I am prone to do from time to time!!
I've met a few great kissers though no one yet has said I'm a great kisser!
Hmmm...I'm sure you are, but maybe they just didn't have the courage to say it.