Hello Lovebugs,
How are you? Today was gorgeous! The sky was blue. The clouds were fluffy. The grass is green. It was under a million degrees of Hell. I rather enjoyed it.
To be clear, there is no way I could ever guess a mans age by his penis. I am attracted to a mans smile and personality. His penis is a fun bonus to the relationship. Not the focus. OK not my focus.
Flipping that pancake, I doubt we could guess a womans age by her crotch or breasts.
As a teen, my ideas of a typical sexual relationship involved kissing, touching all over, minus the booty hole. Sex in various positions.
I knew about vibrators and in my narrow little head, they were for a woman's masturbatory practices. Not with a man though.
I bought a PlayGirl magazine. Then I read Deep Throat after finding it in my parents closet. There was also a book about peoples sexual experiences. A sex club. Group sex. 3somes. Swapping and swinging. My eyes were opened and I was very intrigued.
I added being tied down, spanked, shaved, oiled, various partners, multiple partners, toys as a couple or group, etc to my sexual ideas. To be fair, I considered the new stuff kinky. Then. Now, toys are semi boring. Spanking is just fun. Shaved genitals are commonplace.
So when did you find kink and when did you figure out kink wasn't kinky at all? LOL
Have a titillating day!!
xoxox
Pony
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My sexual exploration began later in life. Before joining this site, I never anticipated being part of anything like this.
Although this platform is promoted for its sexual aspects, I have used it as a gateway to meet people. I approached each interaction with an open mind, allowing things to evolve naturally through mutual consent.
My journey here has been one of self-discovery and exploration. It has provided unique opportunities and experiences that I might not have encountered otherwise. Yes, there have been disappointments along the way, but overall, it has been a positive experience.
The people and fun is what has kept me here for a really long time
Good question. One person's kink is another's vanilla.
Most of my 'kinks' came from corrupting girlfriends!
I wanna hear their side
I've had a vague idea of kink, but joining this site opened my eyes to the variety that's out there.
And there is still so much more to discover
I had heard about kink, but lived a very kink free life until I was in my 40's and, following a bit of a sexual renaissance with my husband, I started exploring a little bit. It started pretty low key with some toys and fantasies in the privacy of our own bedroom. Later expanded to the hot wife lifestyle and one swinger house party. The "me" of 10-15 years ago would find a lot of what the current "me" has done to be pretty kinky even while I still consider myself on the "vanilla" side of the lifestyle. But your point that it often evolves as our experiences and knowledge change is well taken.
The more I know, the less kinky any of it seems to be
I was ten and stumbled onto my uncle's stash of paperbacks in a box next to his workbench and tools. He'd asked me to bring up a hammer. I eventually did, but not before I borrowed one of his literary works. 😂
After that, I often went into his basement, looking for another book to borrow. The knowledge I gained would be put to use many years later. But I've got to thank Uncle Al for providing me with the education.😶
You have an open minded uncle
Im this days old and still learning. As Jack Harlows song says...." im vanilla baby ", but also its never to late to learn n explore ~ @FlirtynFunSA
I crave new knowledge. If I ever stop learning, I will be bored.
Yees it's good I understand...I think find kinks from here trying to learn it and understand it so until I try I'll answer the last question..but I love to play and try.. spanking too
Growing up in a conservative period in my country ..porn was banned..so had no exposure . Then was student in Amsterdam ( Blame dutch girls for corrupting me
). was culture shock... got a part time student job in red light district ( lol was barker for a sex club ) first exposure to kink..but i think what i thought was kink is now normal..from some of the other bloggers i have no idea what is kink
See that is what I'm talking about!! It sounds kinky until you adapt then its just a new typical sexual act
Now I am thinking I should have a house with room for a pony so I could ride her!
Barns are built sturdy so you can hang a sex swing and really ride and be ridden
Dick?
I was a late bloomer - my sex life was quite vanilla until after the end of a long relationship, when I was in my late 40’s.
Late or not, you found the fun
We all have our different thoughts to kinks. Hugs
It's only kinky until you have done it a few times
Hugs!!!
Somewhat like your experience, after a massive storm I found a porn book down washed up near a local stream. I was in my mid-teens. The book was about a guy that was recruiting ladies to work in his facility and what he made them do to prove their skills. Not sure which fired me up more, the pictures or the text.
Usually the words excite me more. I can imagine it so much sexier than most pictures.
Not so much kink for me but experimentation I guess you could say as there are so many ways to enjoy sexy adventures with your partners.
I am glad you enjoy some kinky fun to hun. I hope your Tuesday is treating you well..
Experimentation is the fun. I love trying something new or a bit different. It gets my brain ticking happily. Hugs!!
I discovered kink just after we were married. (I was 19) Hubby was buying Penthouse Forum books, I was reading them, and I liked what I read!
Penthouse Forum is still a favorite of mine!