I was not a virgin when I met my husband but he was. We held off having sex for maybe a month or so... then dated for 4 years before getting married. I can't imagine if we'd waited that whole time. We were extra careful with both control (both pill and condoms) until shortly before we were married. Pill only until we were ready for kids worked fine though.

All this questions no because anyway I'm 29 years man not married yet but as religion i know Muslims well.. your story talking about like in islam...but if I'll marry I'll test myself after marriage I don't know but I love to try

Hell no! Before I'd marry again, I'd need to test out EVERYTHING!!!

I was a virgin by choice when I got married. My wife had a few lovers before we met. I was a fast learner, with her help. We bought a new mobile home and spent a good portion of my military life, moving from place to place working on different aircraft electronics. More often than not, I spent weeks or months on TDY to places wherever a plane could land. We decided that she needed help while I was gone, so she agreed that she would let a married neighbor seduce her. I had my share of lovers, often getting into threesomes. We were always careful not to bring any surprises to each other, and our get together would hot.

I hope your dear friend finds the companionship that he is looking for. Sounds like he led a very interesting life especially having three wives. I so wish I could more than one husband as they could fulfill all of my needs.

As far as your question about not having sex before marriage that is a HELL NO for this lady because I have to test drive my husband to be.

I hope your Thursday is filled with many fun and sexy temptations..

Have you dated someone that declined to be sexual until after you were married? - OH hell no. Back in the 70s we'd go to bars looking to someone to take home and screw. After that THEN we'd see if a relationship developed or not.

Would you marry someone before you were intimate together? - I can't imagine that!

My issue is the reverse of this. Wifey is one of those bar 70s pickups where a relationship developed. We did some pretty adventurous stuff over the years. Now, many many years later, she has become a prude. Not sure if it's old age, moving to KS and falling in with the churchy crowd, or what.

I would never marry someone before having sex.

No. But sometimes I wish I waited. But there was too much water over that dam! That fact makes it hard to imagine what it would be like to have only one sexual partner and only after marriage. I might have been a little out of control and I wish I had the discipline back then to control it.

They've all been sinners, just like me. 😶

Against my upbringing, had sex before marriage. Hugs

Once had a fling with a lady who belonged to the Plymouth Brethren at college. Deeply religious, but so much repressed sexuality that it was unhealthy for her. Her plan was to finish her degree, get married (which was pre arranged) and have kids. Don't know what became of her, but I got the feeling that she was trying to get a lot of it out of her system before settling.

Would not ,being agnostic with a catholic upbringing..i tend to be tune out when religion becomes part of conversation.

My bubble bath buddy took a while to reconcile his swinging lifestyle with his catholic upbringing. But once he got a taste of how good it is for him and his wife, there was no turning back.

I like used too.....furniture is def stronger and vehicles have all the kinks worked out hopefully. Partners......i like to explore with together to see whats enjoyable or not. Sex ed classes ruined me by talking about how much exposure opens you up to everyone they have had. For that reason, i have not had much exposure and prefer people, yes even at this age, that don't have, what i call ...a dirty dick. Religion def puts a damper on sexual exploration. I would marry before sexual intimacy as i believe intimacy in other areas is more impt and can enhance sexual intimacy~

Hilda trying to talk sense into a man