Being successful in life and with women is really about the amount of self-confidence you exude, how you present yourself and how you feel about yourself. Self-confidence is doing what you know how to do and doing it really well. Time and repetition are the keys to becoming self-confident and an expert at something you may currently be a novice at. Confidence is sexy to women because it communicates a willingness to take risks, step outside of your comfort zone and a preference for choosing to fail instead of not trying at all. All women know on some level that a man who has self-confidence is a man who shows up in life and makes the effort despite his fears. Men who lack self-confidence are simply too timid, shy, weak and adverse to risk taking and failure to get what they want. Women know that if a man can’t or won’t do what it takes to get what he wants or to make himself happy, there is no way he is strong enough to make her happy. CW