Shit. That went South quickly. I started typing this out last week when I was working by the pool. As in, I grabbed my laptop, dragged it down to the pool and did some work from there. It was...overcast, but still fairly bright and hot. Farking A....then the tropical storm hit and now....sheesh. I swore i thought the windows were gonna get blown right off or smashed through with the rain slamming against the building. Anyway. I kinda escaped the storm and flooding in Bali but there's no running away from this. 

Anyhow. Gonna recap the last 2 weeks before moving on to the now. 

Babysitting a Deprived Married Woman

Caroline Is an old friend of mine and I've been renting her place for the past few months, well...since I started having to be here in HK. She moved to Canada sometime last year but she was back for a week, having to sort out a few things. She sorted what she needed to and has gone back to Canada. Her situation is...sadly, increasingly more common than not, I suppose. She's got two girls, grown up now and in Uni. That's the main reason why they moved back to Canada a few years ago. Ever since her second girl, she and her husband kinda lost that spark and...their marriage turned into a sexless one. It really sounds all too familiar. I've known them both for a really long time now. She and I used to house together when we were both working in Singapore. And that's when I got to know her husband too, when they kinda started dating. I'll always remember them being really loud. . She's a bit on the smaller frame side and he's..well, not. We had another housemate at the time and both of us used to shudder at the thought of her being under him and getting pounded, and crushed to death. LOL

But yeah, it is kinda sad how things turned out. I know for a fact that they both have extra marital affairs (I've seen them both, at different times, with partners of their own when they were still in HK and I was here for work). They both know it too, but just have never broached the subject between themselves. But anyhow. Sad, but ultimately not my place to judge. For fucks sake, I have enough problems of my own
This past week I've been dragged (willingly, mostly) to 2 nightclubs (the kind that provide...male companionship in the VIP rooms ) and a bar as backup to one of her dates. The first club, I didn't really partake in the debauchery. . I merely watched live porn as she rode a poor guy silly. I did pull my dress up and touched myself with a guy caressing my thighs. Is it weird touching myself while watching a friend fuck? LOL. It's not....right? 

Second club was....a little more eventful. Half hour in, she stepped out and left me in the room with 2 guys. I later found out she went to look for the guy she was with in the first club. He was also working in the club we were in that night. She went and fucked him in another room and gave the two guys i was left with instructions to...entertain me. She came back into the room about 20mins later and found me completely naked, with both guys on each side of me, each sucking on my nipples and fingering me. LOL. I had a dick in each hand and i don't know for sure if they came. But they did make me cum and...it was a little messy when we left. 

The week wasn't all fun. I did have to step in and rescue her from a date that wasn't going so well. I was waiting at a cafe close to the restaurant where she had her date. Didn't take long. 45mins in and I got the text. I ran over, didn't even bother making up a story. I grabbed her as they stepped outside and we kinda left.

I did shoot my shot though. I mean, I had to try. I am trying to arrange something for the husband (to smooth things over with him...) and thought Caroline would be ideal. I mean, she's pretty, and with her small frame, her tits look huge on her. LOL. Right up the husband's alley . So i asked if she would be interested to fuck the husband, ideally with me, or even, without my involvement. But she respectfully declined. MAinly cos she couldn't make the dates we were looking at. Maybe next year. At the very least, that's not a shut door . So that was an eventful week.

Speaking of dates. I met a guy on one of the nights I was out with Caroline. An older, Japanese guy, which in itself is fairly rare. His name's Takamura, although I'm not entirely sure if that's his first name, but it's Taka for short. I do know I've fucked up and called him Naka on more than a few occasions.  (Naka was a 20-year-old Japanese footballer I was banging for a while back in Singapore ). 

It's usually the younger guys that come up and speak to us or...just the fact that we rarely meet older guys out in the places where we go. And, i should also add, I don't really get out much so...it's not like I'm meeting a lot of people. Anyway. I can't remember giving him my number but we were sexting each other quite furiously that night.I only realised it the next morning and was frankly, quite appalled at my own... lack of control. LOL We've spoken a fair bit and have met up twice now. I told Caroline about it and she says that they were dates. It didn't occur to me they were but in hindsight, I might now agree.

FIrst was a straightforward dinner. Met him after work, and I met him at a pretty nice Izakaya. Had a bit too much to drink but, nothing happened. He was deliberately vague about everything. Didn't let up about what is it he does, and deliberately no mention about family. Which was fine by me. I'm not sure how this will pan out so Im also not sharing anything. It was an enjoyable time though, just talking about everything else. A few philosophical debates, which can go so wrong but this one didn't. It was fun until we left the place and he got a little awkward and reserved, and we just hugged and left. 

He asked me out again and I ended up meeting him at an ice bath lounge. You know the ones that are popping up everywhere these days. Cold plunges, dry and wet saunas, etc.  So here I thought, here's a good opportunity to get a good recovery in. So, like an idiot, I worked out for 3 days straight leading up to it. . Making things worse, I joined a crossfit class in the morning (where I think I did 100 reps of...5 different exercises) and my legs were hammered by the time i met Taka at the bath house. 

It was a pretty good ploy for him to see me without much clothes, but it kinda also worked both ways. I mean, what 50-something year old has a six pack? Not gonna lie, he looked good with only his shorts on. I mean, it was a date so...we were both checking each other out. I kept catching him staring at everything else other than my face. LOL. Okok...i was also blatantly trying to assess if there was a serious package inside those shorts . I think the date might have ended up somewhere where we actually find out cos it was going well. Right up until my right thigh cramped. LOL. It was fucking horrible. I hobbled out, hopped into a cab and it threatened to cramp that whole night. 

He asked if i wanted to play pickleball over the last weekend but we kinda cancelled cs of the storm. I'm gonna use that as a sign to slow down cos I definitely should not be starting another thing with Rene trying to wiggle himself more into my life and the husband still...not completely smoothed over yet

SO yeah. We'll see how that pans out. But, all small things compared to what's happening here now. 

Oh! Uh...also, Jeff, the husband's friend who live on a boat here in HK. He's staying with me til they can sort everything out. And no we're not fucking. . We have had sex in the past, but always with the husband around. I'm not that dumb to literally, screw with this ___