You always hear stories about crazy partners. As in, other people telling you stories about someone else's crazy spouse. I've heard enough of them, and some of them are funny, some real crazy, but all of it entertaining. That's kinda what I was alluding to. Anyways. Turns out I'm the crazy spouse. LOL
I'm back in HK after spending two months in Germany with the husband. I flew out end of September after leaving my job (uh..yea, so I'm currently jobless ). The husband had a minor medical procedure and I flew out to be the good wife 
Anyhow. Turns out...we had way, waaay too much fun. So that's the good news. Who knew we still had it in us But i gotta say though, romance is hard. Like, it take a whole lot of effort. And energy. Fucking is easy. Romance....that shit is tiring
In the two months I was there, we visited 3...no, 2 swinger clubs (one was a hit. Nothing like watching live porn to get the juices flowing. One was a complete dud. The music was too loud and it really wasn't very...swinger-ish) and one kink/fetish club. Nothing much really happened so we kinda left after awhile. In hindsight, it was probably a slow night. As far as I understand, these clubs are generally invite only and that's where the party is..? Anyhow.
Also, for some reason, I kept visiting the husband at his office so we could "accidentally" have sex there. LOL. We used to do that a lot when we were both working in Singapore so...maybe it's just me trying to rekindle that fire or...its probably just a kink I have. LOL. I mean...6 weeks in a row and sometimes, more than once a week...I'd say that's definitely a kink. . One of his friend's kinda caught us late one evening and uh....I am pretty sure his PA suspects too so. But hey, we spend a lot of time away from each other so....No one has said anything so I'm guessing he'll be fine
Other examples of..."crazy", you ask?
I showed up for a game of paddle ball in a tennis dress but uh...deliberately cut off the shorts that's attached under the skirt. . LOL. Fuck this is embarrassing to admit. To be fair, I didn't know it was going to be a game with his friends. I thought it was only going to be the husband and I. And I sure as hell aren't too interested in paddle ball.
I also showed up for drinks in a trench coat with nothing under. Well....I had on nipple clamps, (which I took off after awhile. I'm not THAT crazy), a garter belt and stockings on. It was cold. How the fuck would I have known they'd insist on taking my coat at the door. LOL Okok..this one's probably my own fault. I should have known.
What wasn't my fault was the black eye I had given him. That one was purely accidental. It wasn't even sexual. I just tripped on a slipper at home and head butted him in The Eye. LOL. His friends think otherwise though. SO now apparently they've been asking him where and how he found himself a sex crazy Asian wife. LOL.
In other news, I've also tried finding someone suitable for a threesome when I was there but...that's a lot harder to do. Can't fault me...I had a lot of time while I was there. Even then....I guess finding the right person is damn near close to impossible. Anyways. The husband and I spoke about it at length and it's still on the cards so...we'll see what happens.
Update: Im also back in HK. I got in yesterday afternoon and will be here for a week to pack up everything I have cos I'm not gonna be living here anymore. I've got a week to tie up everything else (saying bye to friends, etc etc). The....landmine I have set for myself while I'm here? Caleb is with me. He flew in last night. We both crashed when we got in but he's been...waking me up sporadically through the night and giving me a workout
Why is he here? He usually flies in during the year end and we usually spend a few weeks together. Well....I say usually but he's only done that last year. I really wasn't expecting him to do it again this year but he reached out. I also can't spend the year end with him cos I'm flying to Singapore next week for a few interviews. Which means next week I'll be with Rene . Then it's the year end where I'll either be with the husband in home in Bali or Germany. That's still up in the air cos he can't fucking tie his schedule down yet.
SO yeah. I just need to sort my shit out here this week and hide Caleb from...well Jeff (the husband's good friend who also lives here) mainly, but anyone and everyone if I can. LOL. Maybe I really am crazy
Anyhow. Will see if I can blog again. It really helps with my thinking process.
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You may (or may not) know that I run a series of interviews with bloggers on my blog. The interviews involve answering 20 questions, including some sexual questions, from me by mail, plus a few others as comments on the interview blog post. I'm hoping I can tempt you to be interviewed. I very much hope you'll agree to be interviewed. Interested?
Ohh...sure
But I haven't seem to be bale to access my mails on this site. Actually, I haven't been able to do that for awhile now. If I get the questions from you, I'll definitely reply. Thank you 
@partygald That's fantastic. Is it okay if we do the interview in this blog post as you're a standard member?
I'll need do a bit more 'research' before I mail you the questions. But there'll be 20 questions, both sexual and non-sexual questions, to answer in your own good time. Also, when I post the interview on my blog, I'll ask other bloggers if they have any questions for you. Hopefully, you'll answer those questions on my blog as well.
Finally, I'll ask you for at least two photos of yourself (or of anything connected to you) to upload with the interview.
I'll be in touch again soon with my questions. Once again, thanks for saying 'yes' to the interview. It's much appreciated.
Stephen
PS. I've sent you a request inviting you to my friends network over on the site's Dating side. I hope you'll accept the invitation.
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Below are my 20 questions for the interview for you to answer. After this, I'll add a further seven replies, each containing a batch of questions for you to answer. It's okay and perhaps best to reply with your answers to the questions in batches. There'll be 20 questions to answer in total.
If you don't want to answer a question, please feel free not to - I can easily give you replacement questions to answer.
Please take your time to answer the questions; there's no rush.
When replying to me with your answers to the questions below, it would be good if you could attach at least two photos of yourself (or of anything related to you) for the blog post. Or, if you prefer, I can select two photos from your profile and/or blog.
When I post the interview on my blog, I'll only edit any obvious typos if there are any. Otherwise, I'll present your answers word-for-word.
I’ll let you know just before I post your interview on my blog.
In the blog post, I'll ask other bloggers if they have any questions for you. It would be great if you could answer any questions on my blog.
Please feel free to pimp the interview on your blog or even re-post the interview once posted. The interview is yours.
Many thanks for going along with the interview.
I look forward to receiving your answers (plus photos).
Stephen
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From your Dating profile, you live in Bali in Indonesia. What's it like living there? What are the best and worst bits about living where you are?
When and why did you join this site and, in particular, when and why did you decide to blog? How successful has your search for what you're looking for been on this site? How many people have you met up with from this site? And, how many from this site have you had sex with?
On your Dating profile, you state that you are bisexual. When did you find out about your bisexuality? When and how did this journey come about?
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4. What three words would you use and what three words would a close friend or partner use to describe your personality?
What sort of things do you like doing in your spare time?
What is your favourite book, song, movie, television/streaming show and radio programme/podcast? And why are they your favourites?
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7. What were you like as a kid? And when a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?
What's the best and worst place you've ever lived and the best and worst place you've ever visited? And why?
What is your favourite sex position? And why is this position your favourite?
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10. On your Dating profile, you write that you "Like public action". To me, public action can mean all sorts of things, from outdoor sex, club sex, sex parties, etc, to even being very sociable and enjoying meeting members of the public. What sort of public action do you like, and why?
Where has been the most unusual place you've had sex?
Roughly (or even better exactly), how many people have you had penetrative sex with? And what's the most number of times you've had sex in one day? What's the most number of people you've had sex with in one day?
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13. Do you like sex toys and/or sex accessories? If so, what's your favourite sex toy and/or sex accessory to use on someone else and to be used on you, and why are they your favourites? Have you ever used a fucking machine (including a Sybian) and, if so, what was it like?
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15. Have you ever been to a sex club and/or a swingers resort? If so, did you enjoy the experience/s and what did you get up to?
What are your kinks or pervs? And what's been your most kinkiest or most perverted sexual act you've done?
What has been your most embarrassing sexual moment?
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18. What is your perfect three-course meal? And what drink would you have with the meal?
If you could invite three famous people, dead or alive, to join you at a dinner party, who would you invite?
As the last question, please can you volunteer three bits of information about yourself that haven't been covered in this interview?
@spunkycumfun Hi. I'm gonna try and do this but it's gonna be across some time
@partygald Thanks. There's no rush.
@spunkycumfun Huh. My first reply was denied. I'll try again
@partygald This site makes it so difficult for members to communicate. I hope your next try is successful.
@spunkycumfun yeah! Mofos. Wasted a fair bit of my time cos that took awhile 😑
@partygald I got your first three answers by mail over on the dating side. Many thanks.
Lot of great stories
Havent read ur posting for some time. this was entertaining
Thanks for reading
Uh..sorry if this post is a bit disjointed. I am a little sleep deprived...