Aya

Before we begin on Aya, Caleb asked me earlier if i wanted to go out for a run with him. I don't think I have ever went out for a run in HK. Ever. Clearly, that's not about to change . As much as I like having him around, and i DO really like having him around. What can I say? He keeps this "mommy" satisfied. You see a lot of jokes on social media on referring to sex as "cardio". Like getting your "cardio" done. This last few days actually feel like a workout. Like I've been working out, intensely, every damn day of the week. My thighs are sore. My inner thighs are killing me. The muscles in my ass is sore. Felt like I've been squatting all week. My abs are also pretty damn sore. It's a fucking workout. Literally. 

Anyways. Let me tell you a bit about Aya. . I actually havent posted anything on her cos, rather stupidly, I kinda wanna keep her secret. . Like my little secret affair. Ah well...here goes.

Earlier this year, in April, I went to the gym one Saturday morning. The intent was just to get my workout done. I remember not feeling very up to a workout but went anyway. The gym i go to here, the machines section of the gym is right beside the studio. I was making a very weak attempt at one of the leg machines when I looked in and noticed that the class that was about to begin in the studio was not the usual weekend class. I actually noticed the trainer and she looked nothing like the usual trainer that was there on the weekends. So i started asking the counter person in a casual manner and he told me that they had a guest trainer here for a few days and it was a pilates class. He then persuaded me to give it a try and I did. 

So Aya was that guest trainer. I didn't register so the counter guy introduced me to her and she kinda placed me in the corner but right up front, and Aya kept coming by to check on me through the class, which was nice. I hung around after and we chatted for a bit, and we kinda got along quite well. Well enough for her to ask me back to a second class the following morning, which of course i did, and asked her out for coffee after.

So, Aya is a 50-something year old Japanese pilates instructor who lives in Bali (for a few months in a year) and Australia cos her husband is Australian. She teaches out of Bali mostly but travels a fair bit as a guest instructor in gyms and studios. How interesting, right? . I was smitten from the start. LOL

Naturally, the more we shared with each other about our lives, the more similar I thought we were. Her husband's work keeps him in Australia mostly, she spends weeks, maybe months in Australia but doesn't like it there, and makes Bali her home. My husband works in Germany, I was working in HK and also made Bali home. I didn't know if she swung my way or not in the beginning. I mean, she's Japanese and I kinda have trouble reading her. Regardless, I was already smitten by her at tht point, and it just kept getting worse as we spent more time together. 

I guess in hindsight, you could call it courting. Which is strange cos you really don't pay so much attention to that anymore. LOL. So between April to June this year, she was in HK 3 times, spending about a week here teaching in the studio. I caught her twice cos I was traveling once when she was here, and spent most of my free time just meeting her for meals and drinks. Anyways. She stopped coming back to HK after June but we kept texting each other every other day and made it a point to video call each other twice a week. She gave me a set of exercises (I was complaining about my neck and back) to do and we kinda made it a point, like a date, twice a week to practice together. SHe could then point out to me what i wasn't doing right and so forth. Kinda like a personal trainer, via video.

It's a little cringey if i allow myself to think about it but, heck, i was just glad to be able to see her  So as these weekly "classes" continued, the more comfortable we got in each other's presence, and we dressed down more. I started with your usual workout gear. Then just shorts and sports bra, then just shorts and tshirt and no bra, no underwear, and it was also the same for her. 

This went on for well...it's still going on. As in, we video call each other twice a week. We try to, but we've missed our calls for a week or two due to us just living our lives but we text regularly.

But anyhow, end August/early September, she came back to HK. I was traveling in and out at the time but managed to catch her for 2 days while she was here. It was a rough time too cos that was when I had that huge argument with the husband, and my work was also not going well. She was also going through a patch cos her husband isn't very happy about her not spending time with him in Australia, but she was also deeply unhappy there. I guess when we met physically, we embraced and immediately felt each other's emotions. I hugged her and held on for a bit longer than usual. We met at a train station so people were already started to stare. I grabbed her hand and led her in the direction we were going and we walked that way til we ended up at my place. 

When we got back to my place and she took her jacket off. Not gonna lie, I immediately noticed she wasn't wearing a bra and I got excited. LOL. At the time, i still had no idea which way it was gonna go, but it must have been obvious cos she immediately caught on to my staring at her nipples and it made her laugh. (Thankfully)

She leaned in and kissed me, and from the moment i tasted her tongue, my hands were already taking her top off. LOL I didn't think i would be that infatuated with....someone but....heh. I guess you never know with these things. 

She's a slim, fit older Japanese lady, so going braless isn't that all noticeable for her. Except when she's wearing white. Which she was that day So maybe I was being played too. LOL. Anyways. Her top came off easy enough, then I worked on her pants, and took that off together with her underwear. Best part about it? She didn't even bother wearing sexy undies. SHe wore your regular, granny undies. LOL. I was in a thong and felt awkward about it after. LOL

I'd like to say the sex was good. Buuuuut it kinda wasn't. It was awkward...and nervous...and i guess still trying to figure each other out...? We fucked 3 times that night and i think we only came once. Not at the same time either. LOL. I got her to cum and got a mouthful of hair for my troubles, and I came when i was rubbing myself on her thigh . It was still fun. I mean...hot. Like hot enough for me to think about it and rub one out kinda hot. LOL

We still text each other a fair bit, but have missed a few calls. She's back in Japan visiting family and i am...well, doing what I do. A visit to Japan will probably be in the cards sometime early next year but she can't confirm when yet so...we'll see how it goes. At the very least, I am liking our friendship, and what we have. At least I have someone who kinda understands. And uh...physically, I think there's a whole lot more I'd like to explore too.