Remember this post from a few months ago?
A Different Kind of Orgasm
I was watching the Sex and the City re-boot And Just Like That and there was a subplot with Charlotte and her beloved Harry.
They were celebrating the fact that they had just sent their two daughters off to summer camp. In the obvious way. As part of the special moment, Charlotte urged Harry to cum on her chest. Then she reached for a tissue only to discover there was nothing to wipe up!
They visited a doctor where they were treated to the medicalized description of it that I talked about in my previous post. "That's a retrograde ejaculation - the semen went into his bladder instead of coming out". And it was very much described as a problem to be solved.
Although, to be fair, the gals were having brunch later and when Charlotte described what was going on, one of them said "where's the problem here?" Apparently for Charlotte it was a problem because she likes semen. 🤷🏻♀️
Also confusing, the prescribed solution was for Harry to do kegels. Why confusing? When I was reading up on dry orgasms, one of the articles (that framed them as a positive thing) said kegels were one of the things to do to make dry orgasms happen.
I guess, guys should do kegels no matter which way they want to have an orgasm?? 😵💫
At any rate, it pleases me that something I wrote about four months ago is now appearing in popular culture.
By the way when I was searching for an image of Charlotte and Harry, I learned that in Season 1 Harry had a full frontal shot. It's kind of hilarious because while I remember the scene, I do not remember seeing his penis (which was a prosthetically large one). I guess that's the disadvantage to knitting while you watch TV.
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Apparently you weren't knitting penis sleeves?
No sir...although I probably WAS knitting sweater sleeves at the time.
I been doing kegels not because I have any health issues, I discovered the benefits during sexual play as a very young man via my first playparter , play such as intercourse or receiving a bj I can delay cumming to extend the pleasure I feel until my playmate cums for her own pleasure.
Sounds like a good thing!
@smartasswoman , very much so!!!
I missed seeing Harry in all his naked glory?!?! I need to go find that episode. Even if he used an add on, it will give me something to think about
Cowboy would dry ejaculate about the third orgasm. We just laughed and assumed he should drink during sex.
When my wife found out in our first year of marriage that I can rebuild quickly even tho I am dry . She thought having dry ejaculation after a second, 3rd or 4th orgasim would hurt me. Now this is occurried during a three hour play session.
After all the years we been married she still enjoys having extended play sessions with me cumming dry.
I believe it was season 1 episode 8. It was an amusing incident where Charlotte was about to give Harry a blow job in the bathroom and one of their daughters walked in on them. 😬
Well, I learned something new… never associated men with doing kegel exercises. It prompted me to look it up on the Mayo Clinic site and found this:
Benefits of Kegel exercises for men
Many factors can weaken your pelvic floor muscles, including the surgical removal of the prostate (radical prostatectomy) and conditions such as diabetes and an overactive bladder.
You might benefit from doing Kegel exercises if you:
Have urinary or fecal incontinence
Dribble after urination — usually after you've left the toilet
Didn’t find any reference to sexual benefits.
I don't think dry/multiple orgasms for men are something that mainstream medicine is focusing on. 😊 But kegels were recommended in a blog post that I read by Nat Eliason; as one of the steps toward being able to have multiples.
Kinda like the dry heaves,hm?
Gosh I hope not!!
Isn’t great to know you are a trend leader. Always ahead of the curve.
Well, it's not me who's having them, lol. Credit my FWB.
I thought Charlotte was the prude of the bunch. That she like cum is a twist for sure.
You social media influencer you! 😂
Kegels for men are mostly suggested for urinary control, though perhaps there are other benefits too.
I was listening to some commentary on the podcast It's Been a Minute - the person said there has always been a disconnect with Charlotte between her being a very proper person, but REALLY REALLY enjoying sex with Harry.
That episode was hilarious 😂
It was pretty funny when Charlotte demonstrated a Kegel to Harry and he was like "Whoa that's like a steel trap!" 😂
I learned of this a few yrs ago from 2 men in the Seniors Lounge here...i no longer have access there...but anyway, they both described it as just as pleasurable and enjoyable and it was always after they had already ejaculated. They said....the females were very much surprised and one was disappointed. Both guys didnt describe it as problematic though. Interesting. Im always interested how things change as one ages , i did a poll a few years ago That Special Flow.....some interesting answers/comments. I had never heard of this dry orgasm until the Seniors Lounge ~
For my FWB it's not a function of him having already ejaculated. It's probably better compared to edging where he can experience the "wave" without actually ejaculating.
@ABHAVNFUN interesting read here
Look at you, ahead of the trends!
I don’t know if I’d take a tv show’s medical advice, but Kegels aren’t going to hurt anything. So why not?
I guess it's actually HWD who's ahead of the curve. 😊
And I agree, kegels can't hurt.