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Hey Spunky It's a Funny Frog 🐸 Friday
@spunkycumfun ....
Good to see you back
Thanks. Now a standard member, I can't reply to your comments left on my mailbox for gold members!
@spunkycumfun
I was wondering about that 😂
Happy to see you back, tho 😁
@JN63JPN I was initially worried that comments/replies left there would be visible but they're not thankfully.
@mufdiver69er2 Banned and demoted. Double punishment!
@spunkycumfun noted the small demotion yet smile
@bignicktx I think I can live with a 0.6 deduction!
@spunkycumfun look forward to upcoming editions of the s
Sexy Times, and you passing me on kudos regaining your rightfully 10ness. Even though know don't care about those kind of lists. Something that Paul brought up don't be caught wishing had said something that should have. So yes love our blogging community. Love you JN. Love you brother
@bignicktx I won't be blogging; I'm just lurking while I save some old blog posts.
@Kiriane777 Hello back.
Have a giggle 🤭. Did you or the masters take down last posting
@spunkycumfun 2 at bar much worse time
You are back? Congratulations 🍾
I’m really happy I missed your great posts
Take cake and keep posting
Thank you for your kind words. Unfortunately I'm one of only two of the four exiles allowed back. I'm going to lurk around for a bit before I post.
@spunkycumfun
Two, at least it’s something. Maybe it’s is sign of improvement, although I doubt
Take care
@EnyojLife I think your reading of the situation is correct.
@spunkycumfun
Unfortunately
As may have been noted earlier, a couple of your blog posts keep getting obliterated. I get a notice that there was a post, but the link to it just leads to your main page. I just don't understand this site. Or maybe I do. < sigh > Its absurdity is a huge reason I no longer want to pay for a membership.
Costuming in Neighborhoods NOLA. Two of my favorite Cajun Spices
@spunkycumfun don't think any money involved just enjoying Mardi Gras
@spunkycumfun because they are in New Orleans.
@EnigmaInitiative so good make people want to slap their mama 😂
... I sent you a message to your mail
I've just seen it. I'll reply very soon.
Hi S,
I had to delete the post about “my lovers” because I edited it to change one of the images, and after uploading it again it appeared with no images at all, so I’m going to wait a few minutes before posting it again
You commented there about me writing a book... such a compliment! I replied to you, but I’m not sure if my answer reached you or got lost somewhere, so just in case, I’m repeating it here:
Hi S!
I don’t really have the talent to write a coherent book with a sequential storyline. While I’m writing about one subject, memories of other experiences suddenly come to mind and I get distracted… and I even end up getting lost in my own web of events and relationships 
I’m truly flattered that you think I could achieve something like that, but you’re giving me far too much credit
Besides, writing blog posts, even if I try to make them as polished as possible, is not the same as writing a book, where style and syntax need to be impeccable… and then there’s the “final problem”: finding a publisher willing to take the risk of putting out a book that many would immediately criticize just because of its subject matter, that would surely be considered pornographic and full of “non-edifying” experiences, such as my occasional ventures into the profession of Mary Magdalene, hardcore BDSM, and other such things.
So yes, there are a thousand reasons that make it impossible for me to even consider such an epic project
Rather than replying in full here, I've just sent you an email. Hope you get it.
@spunkycumfun I will check it later
Did your Pink blog vanish. Received alert comment on yet post dissapeared? Checked some other posts your cucumber one seems to have had images dissapeared. Went to 4 other members also dissapearances
I did a minor edit. It should be showing soon once it's approved.
Images constantly disappear from old posts. I give up re-posting them.
@spunkycumfun lot of weird things seem to be going on
@bignicktx The site is just inherently weird!
The site has removed my gold membership and my status as verified, the checkmark is gone. I cannot message you here any other way but here. I wrote to customer service to ask about the verification and how to access the icebreaker and even my automatic reply, they are gone. Here is a portion of what they wrote back: Dear Member,
Thank you for your inquiry.
Certain regions in the U.S. have enacted or are in the process of enacting age verification requirements for visitors to adult websites.
To comply with these regulations, we use Yoti, a secure third-party age verification service that ensures our members are over 18 years old. Please be assured that the law prohibits both the website and the third party performing the verification from retaining any identifying information once the process is complete.
I do not plan to give them any more information about myself or have a third party have access to my information, AFF has my photo ID already. The Nazis in DC and the Heritage Foundation and MAGA want to block access to anything they deem pornography under the guise of child protection.
(https://newrepublic.com/article/183636/project-2025-war-porn-trans-drag)
We've just emailed each other about this.
@spunkycumfun Yes you are correct and we emailed a few other things as well.
@joisygirl We did!
Went back about 5 months ago. A strange finding on several posts re: travel, art, etc. Where had conversations your side of conversations deleted. Guess happened in dark times of banishment
All my comments etc got deleted when I was banned and they weren't returned when unbanned.
@spunkycumfun that explains. What deduced
Coooooool
Thanks.
Greenland post dissapeared ?
I did a minor edit a few hours ago but it should be up and running by now - I'VE GOT TO GET GREENLAND OFF MY CHEST. Please let me know if not. Thanks.
Take down of stamp collecting post ? Thought a good one
I did an early morning edit. It should be back up now. Please let me if not. Thanks.
Looks like Shoot with Stormey gone? Didn't see comment prior to removal. Do like her
I can still see it but that doesn't mean anything. I received no denial alert.
Can you see the blog post now?
@spunkycumfun yes back up
@bignicktx That's good to know. Thanks.
Thank you so much for letting me know that I typed Panthers twice instead of Packers, I did delete your comment and fixed the Packers game for you all. Good luck with this weeks picks..
Thank you. The Panthers thing didn't change my predictions.
Hey my friend I can't email you so I have to send you a message here I accidentally omitted the Bears @ Colts game on my NFL U PICK'EM CONTEST. Could you please go and add your game to the list by using the edit button in the lower right hand corner of your post. I would greatly appreciate it and again my apologies. Tmp
Thank you for your tip-off.
Happy Beer Day. Pub in photo allegedly allows patrons to drink natural. Sounds like story for the Sexy Times. Glad not just lurking
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So much for the picture
I've given up lurking. My blogging boycott was only going to lead to defeat! I was angry towards the site at the time but my anger has subsided. The site's members are far more important than the site.
@spunkycumfun understand. Pictures showed up. Today pissed yesterday was good for me.
@bignicktx The site has its bad days and good days.
I see a new posting for a blog but when I click
on it it's not showing up..
My post was approved then denied. It's being reviewed again so it should show up soon.
My post has now been approved at last - see WE DON'T WANNA PUT IN.
So glad you are back !!!!
Thanks. I'm going to be a lurker for a while as I'm sure eyes will be on me!
@spunkycumfun understand. It had chilling effect. Should see Paul's last posting. Can go to my blog view some of items from when first gone as we were being carefull yet exhibiting our feelings of sadness and loss. That Sunday underwent quite the curfufle with and seems one of team contacted me which answered. We have all tryed to be more diplomatic.
@bignicktx That's exactly what the site wanted. Diplomacy not criticism!
I hate this coded talk but it's the only talk I can do at the moment. I'm sure you understand as a student of politics.
@spunkycumfun of course. There were 3 others of us probably who would be next myself included
@bignicktx I thought there would be more but the site at least saw some sense.
Looks like your post in support of the land of the rising sun went ‘poof’
As you know, that post was the start of my ban!
@spunkycumfun and voila, your posts have been reinstated
@sexyldy1000 My blog posts have been reinstated but many of my comments and replies haven't. But it's the posts I'm after so it's okay.
It's great idea...the best man regulate in the site with perfect style
I have my private email box on Private so that members
feel free to openly share things with me that they
wouldn't want other members to see.
Personally I think that is the best way to run a private
mail box on our blogs..
I hope your Thursday is and enjoyable one..
It certainly is, but standard members are no longer allowed to make comments on private posts.
First Day when learned of change set up new non private box