Girlfriend #21 shares a first name with the three famous women shown in the photos above and below.
Girlfriend #21 worked as an administrator in the same department in which I worked at the University of Portsmouth, how many times have I opened with that line! Whenever I ventured into the office, I would often chat with girlfriend #21. She often did me favours like last-minute photocopying. She was an attractive married woman. She invariably came to watch me play football every week. We started to occasionally go out for lunch at a place far from our workplace and soon she started coming round to my house. We could never go out together in the evening because of her marriage situation.
During our many conversations, it was clear that girlfriend #21 wasn't happily married. And, because I fancied her rotten, I suggested that she she should have an extramarital affair with me. I'm sure I put my proposition to her in cruder terms! Much to my surprise, she said she would think about my offer.
When girlfriend #21 next came round to my house one evening, I asked her whether she had time to think about the offer. She said she had and she said she was happy to have an affair with me. Towards the end of the evening, I carried her to my bedroom and undressed her - she thought that was romantic. We had sex. It was good sex. It was one of those times when my cock and her pussy just fitted together - quite often with other women that fit wasn't there. Girlfriend #21 always had to leave soon after we had sex to drive back.
This arrangement carried on for a number of years. It suited us both. Girlfriend #21 didn't have to make any big decisions about her marriage; her teenage daughters were living with her and her husband at the time. And I didn't have to make any commitments and I could see other women if I wanted to, which of course I did! We always used a condom whenever we had sex.
After a while, girlfriend #21 managed to spend the night with me but it was always in a hotel, sometimes nearby and sometimes in London. For the purposes of telling her husband, she was seeing Stephanie, one of her best friends at work, and staying overnight. My phone number was stored in her mobile phone as Steph. Little did Steph know at work how her name was being used!
Whenever I met up with girlfriend #21, conversation was always good and sex was certainly good. She liked being tied up with Japanese bondage rope.
When I got my new job in Nottingham, we carried on seeing each other. Nottingham. In fact, girlfriend #21 helped me move up to Nottingham. In Nottingham, girlfriend #21 had to negotiate a weekend away to see me as it's a four-hour drive from Portsmouth to Nottingham. I also saw girlfriend #21 whenever I went back to Portsmouth.
Quite often, we'd meet up in a hotel in Market Harborough, a town in Leicestershire, roughly halfway between us (perhaps not in distance but at least in time travelled). I loved our trysts in The Three Swans Hotel - there was always a routine but the routines were great and the sex was brilliant. For those who want to read the gory sexual details of our Market Harborough trysts, please see my MISSING MARKET HARBOROUGH blog post written nearly three years ago - Sophie isn't the name of girlfriend #21.
Girlfriend #21 even met up with me in a hotel in Whitchurch, Shropshire when I visited my Dad. We'd stay at The Dodington Lodge, the only hotel in Whitchurch. She was very interested to hear about and see my roots. She'd drive me to the farm, without popping in, just to have a look at where I grew up and she'd drive me to local 'beauty' spots like Brown Moss, Ellesmere and Grinshill. I think she was into me.
I still very fondly remember the last time I saw girlfriend #21. This time she spent a weekend in my apartment in Nottingham. And by this time, she didn't want me to wear a condom when having sex. The sex was mind-blowing. I still remember her words, after fucking her hard while she was bent over a chair, saying that my spunk was dripping out of her. No one has ever said that to me before. I'm that easily pleased!
Have you ever been involved with a married person in a tryst or an affair? If so, how did it go?
Have you worked out the first name of girlfriend #21?
My relationship with girlfriend #21 just fizzled out; we just stopped seeing and contacting each other without formally ending things. Not once in the many years of seeing girlfriend #21 did we have cross words. I wonder to this day what if she had made a big decision and what if I was prepared to commit, what would have happened between us. But maybe it was our tryst-like arrangement which made no cross words said and which made sex great. Those 'what ifs'!
Again I apologise to those who may have read this post on another blogging platform.
This is the last one in the series of girlfriends unless you want me to blog about girlfriends #3, #4, #10, #17, #18 and #30!
For links to previous blog posts about my girlfriends, see the first comment below.
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Yeeeees it's great relationship with her 😉 take wonderful time.. perfect she's getting decision from her..
My relationship with girlfriend #21 was near-perfect.
Have only one time been with a woman knew to be married. While traveling through Europe while in Hamburg, Germany 🇩🇪. A Night tour of Hamburg with last stop a live sex show. These understand have been shut down. A Trans lady performer had me pinned against the bar the German Lady saved me. Her and husband on same tour and we had been hanging out whole night. She was an attractive lovely and intelligent woman who spoke fluent English and she would translate everything to husband. End of evening took me across street from location of city tourist office to grandest hotel in town.where her and I made passionate love while husband sat in chair and watched. Other than that none though lots of offerings time and Geography have prevented. Yes do blog about other girlfriends. Guess current wife glad no longer in Portsmith. Visited there once very short stay.
That sounds quite a night in Hamburg!
No I can't say I have ever been involved with someone that is married, although I did have a brief encounter with a married man and it was mind blowing for both of us, and we both still look upon that night rather fondly.
It's too bad that relationship with her ended as it sounds like it could of lasted for many years for you both.
I did figure out your 21st girlfriends name, and I hope she was as lovely as the beautiful Sally Fields.
I'm glad you had a great night with a married man. We're not all bad!
And yes, Sally is her name.
A lot of my playmates were swingers or had hall passes. We always had good times until it was time for them to head back home.
Going back home often killed the mood sometimes.
@spunkycumfun
Home, meaning home country when their contracts ended, not where they lived in Japan.
@JN63JPN I've got you now.
Yes, I had an affair that lasted longer than my 10 year marriage. It only ended when I moved. We have seen each other a couple of times since then and we keep in sporadic contact. Both of us would be willing if the logistics of meeting could be managed.
Distance is a passion killer sometimes.
Name was easy this time..one can never forget sally fields . Only once with married woman . Met at a ladies night , did not know she was married (no ring) . Ended when got irate call from husband. lol..made sure to ask after .
Sally is correct.
I hope the husband gave you permission to see his wife.
@spunkycumfun lol..he was not so considerate
@taurean62dbn He was no gentleman!
I guessed her name was Sally based on the picture of Sally Field. I found your story of GIRLFRIEND #21 interesting because it reminded me of my experience with someone I had become friends with. I may have to sit down and write my experience with a married woman.
Sally is her name.
I'll look forward to your blog post about your experience with a married woman. I hope it was a good experience.
Sally sounds like the ultimate FWB!
So you're thinking she was waiting for you to ask for more, and when you didn't, she moved on? Quite the loss.
Being a married cheater myself, I pretty to date married women. Despite challenges with timing meets, it just simplifies things when we're both in the same status.
We both sort of moved on. It wasn't one or the other. It just happened.
Sally was a fantastic friend with benefits.
This blog post is part of a series of posts on the 31 girlfriends (including two wives) I've had - see my GIRLFRIEND 1, GIRLFRIEND 2, GIRLFRIEND 5, GIRLFRIEND 6, GIRLFRIEND 7, GIRLFRIEND 8, GIRLFRIEND 9, GIRLFRIEND 11, GIRLFRIEND 12, GIRLFRIEND 13, GIRLFRIEND 14, GIRLFRIEND 16, GIRLFRIEND 19, GIRLFRIEND 20, GIRLFRIEND 22, GIRLFRIEND 23, GIRLFRIEND 24, GIRLFRIEND 25, GIRLFRIEND 26, GIRLFRIEND 27, GIRLFRIEND 28, GIRLFRIEND 29 and GIRLFRIEND 31 blog posts. I readily accept that my view of a girlfriend is different to others - see my GIRLFRIENDS AND BOYFRIENDS blog post.