This post, with poll, is about anal sex. By anal sex, I mean only anal intercourse, penile-anal penetrative sex in other words. For the purposes of this post and poll, I'm excluding other forms of anal sex such as pegging, rimming, rusty tromboning, anal fingering, figging, fisting, and using anal beads or a butt plug.
I had to look up what figging meant - it's the sexual practice of inserting of a ginger root up a bottom to get a burning sensation. Fancy a fig anyone? Bottoms up!
angio:
Most research on anal sex has been undertaken as a form of gay sex. Studies consistently find that most gay men have given or received anal sex. One survey found that 46 per cent of gay men prefer to penetrate their partner (being a top) and that 43 per cent prefer to be penetrated (being a bottom).
Suzuki Harunobu:
Perhaps slightly surprisingly, much less is known about anal sex as a heterosexual activity. But studies suggest that more men than women engage in heterosexual anal sex and that anal sex is more popular with younger than older heterosexual people. The latter research finding perhaps suggests that heterosexual anal sex is less taboo now than it once was and is increasingly prevalent.
Have you had anal sex? If so, is or was such sex regular or irregular? And also if so, do or did you enjoy anal sex?
Have you been a top, bottom or both when it comes to anal sex?
I've had anal sex regularly but not so much nowadays. Three of my three partners, GIRLFRIEND 15, GIRLFRIEND 28, GIRLFRIEND 31, enjoyed anal sex, the first of whom liked penetrative anal sex as much as penetrative vaginal sex and liked penetrative anal sex with or without lube.
I've only ever given anal sex; I've always been a top and never a bottom, a giver and not a receiver. Though I enjoy tongues, well lubed fingers, lubed anal beads, lubed butt plugs, and lubed strap-on dildos up my bottom, I don't want a cock up my bottom. And I certainly don't want a ginger root, even if lubed, up my bottom!
During my swinging years, anal sex was a topic for an agreed stance between my then swinging partner and myself. Though we enjoyed anal sex together, we agreed that we would have anal sex when swinging with others. I'm not sure if there was a logic to this rule other than anal sex was seen as special between us. What was interesting when swinging is that I never had an invitation to anally fuck a woman, but lots of men wanted to anally fuck my partner. As far as I'm aware, she said no, but who knows? It didn't really matter at the time and I wasn't going to do an inspection to see whether she broke our rule. Trust is important.
But my swinging experiences. albeit subjective and anecdotal, do lend support to the view that anal sex is more of a man than a woman thing, and that's not to say women don't like anal sex.
Utagawa Kunisada's Nude Married Couple Having Anal Intercourse, c1825:
There was once a group on this site called 'Buffalo Anal Lovers'. A very unfortunate name I thought!
Below is a poll where you can anonymously indicate your experiences of anal sex. Multiple selections are allowed for the poll.
This post follows on from my FANCY A FACIAL?, FANCY A CHOKE?, FANCY A RIM?, FANCY A SPIT-ROAST?, FANCY A SPANK?, FANCY A WAX?, FANCY A ROLE?, FANCY A GOLDEN SHOWER?, FANCY A TITFUCK?, FANCY A PEEP?, FANCY A SQUIRT?, FANCY A BLINDFOLD?, FANCY A GROUP?, FANCY A TRIBUTE?, FANCY A TEABAG?, FANCY A PEG?, FANCY A MACHINE?, FANCY A GLORY HOLE? and FANCY A PERIOD? blog posts in a series about various sexual acts. Below, as the first comment, is a summary of the results of a poll contained in my last blog post on menstrual sex - see FANCY A PERIOD?.
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Oh yes!
That's quite a cream pie. Thanks for stopping by.
So HOT!!!!
Looks very thick. Must've felt great.
I've had anal sex. One of my playmates was a bi and anal sex with him was amazing. I've pegged him, too. It was hawt!
I love anal sex too ... but only with lots of lube!
Yes I have been anally penetrated quite a few times, not so often lately but very often when I was 29-30 with a guy that was an incredible 'Impaler', he was physically gifted to that and used a refined technique, being patience and lube the main ingredients
It wasn't Vlad the Impaler, was it?
@spunkycumfun he was worse than Vlad he was Lalo the infamous Impaler 😀
@AuraAviatik6 Count Dracula is most impressed!
@abhay_4921 it wan not necessary, he is really skilled 😉
Meh... I think, for me, anal is a performative act. I just don't get aroused by it. I'd rather peg a guy with a strapon if we're gonna get into butt stuff.
People seem to have quite strong opinions about anal sex.
Nearly 130 people voted in the poll about menstrual sex on my FANCY A PERIOD? blog post.
The vast majority of respondents, over 90 per cent, have experienced menstrual sex. Over 40 per cent liked menstrual sex and about 10 per cent disliked menstrual sex, with the remainder neither liking nor disliking the experience.
Proportionately more women than men disliked menstrual sex.
Of those who haven't tried menstrual sex, all don't want to try it or would only try it if their partner wanted to try.
The vast majority of respondents preferred non-menstrual sex over menstrual sex, though three men preferred menstrual sex over non-menstrual sex.
A few comments left by women mentioned that they got more more horny and/or had better sex with a period, though no woman polled preferred menstrual sex over non-menstrual sex.
The poll isn't at all representative of either the wider population or even the wider membership here. The poll is just reflective of those who responded.
had a gf yrs ago .. we could have sex and she seemed to never cum.. but when we had anal sex.. she had mutiple orgasams.. I kept lookin in her asshole ... thought her clit might have been in the wrong hole
These things happen.
The most anal organisms I've given a woman is when she used her toys on her vag while I fucked her ass. She came over and over again. I only came once. It just wasn't fair. All the ladies out there should try it with toys.
Men often don't find it easy to have multiple orgasms without a rest.
My point was that she enjoyed it so much more than I did.
Wow. Like, really, wow. What a researched, educated, well written post. Puts most other polls/posts to shame (Especially mine
). What a good read too. I didn't know that THAT was called rusty tromboning either. Certainly gave me a good laugh. But, I digress. I like anal sex, and will willingly ask/suggest it. It's got to be with the right partner though, but that being said, I do have it quite often with all my current partners. Thanks for the good read 
I'm very pleased you enjoyed reading my post.
@spunkycumfun Great post buddy..
@lakeman928 Thank you.
I've had plenty of anal sex. Within the last 15 years or so, I think nearly every woman I've met has been into it to one degree or another. (Ranging from, "Sure, we can do it sometimes if you like" to "I need my ass reamed hard and deep as often as you can give it to me" ). I've never been with another man, but I have had one partner top me with a strapon. She was very talented and absolutely ruthless. The things I said and asked her to do to me...and keep doing to me... Well, I should be embarrassed, but I'm not.
So yiu liked it huh? Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Getting it in the ass is amazing.
There's nothing to be embarrassed about in liking anal sex. Most people do it and like it.
@spunkycumfun No, the embarrassing part wasn't that I liked it. It was how much I turned into her complete little bitch, and would beg her to do more and more nasty things to me.
It's kind of like my prostate was directly wired to my speech center, and every time she rammed into me more words would pour out...
@HanginOut64 I've got you now. I still wouldn't be embarrassed because you've now found what you like sexually and it's not illegal!
I am bi, so still enjoy sex with women, but also with men. My ex-wife and I would engage in anal sex about every other month, either me penetrating her or her using a toy on me. We had a 12" double dildo that we would share at times. Sometimes I would be in the mood for receiving anal and would use a vibe/dildo on myself while she watched, which she enjoyed doing, and she would usually get so turned on she'd pull out a toy and we'd watch each other masturbate.
And I do admit, I enjoy the feeling of another man inside me, especially as he looses control and thrusts in deep and cums inside me and with just a few strokes I will cum also, which heightens it for him as I cum my muscles tighten on his cock
I've only even given anal sex, though I have been pegged.
Thanks for stopping by with your comments.
As a male I very much enjoy when a male partner analy penetrate me it feels fantastic thrusting in and out when he cums in me I get a pleasure only anal sex gives me
I'm pleased you enjoy anal sex. And thanks for stopping by to comment.
Very pleasurable being topped with a smaller cock. And so naughty!
Thanks for stopping by to comment.
each to their own
I agree with you. Thanks for stopping by.
I agree with @sirgoingdown that the excitement comes from the taboo element of anal sex. Quite frankly, I prefer oral or vaginal. Some would say oral is taboo... But it feels so darned good!!
Taboo does add frisson to sexual proceedings.
It's been years but the biggest and best orgasms I ever had were in a woman's butt. I love it and miss it. Oh I dig the artwork, btw
I tend to use art rather than photos to illustrate these posts about sexual practices. Art provokes one's imagination.
@spunkycumfun indeed it does
Such a hot topic! And certainly one of my taboos
I love ass play, but don't get to do it often. I've had my ass licked, and I loved it! I've fucked a few guys, and it was really hot. I always wanted to cum from having my ass penetrated, and a couple years ago, I did for the first time. I met someone who let me ride their sybian, and boy it was nice! I came hard, and didn't touch myself one time
I did manage to get the same from a dildo at home, but it wasn't quite the same. It made me really want to ride a real cock! I've been told that when you slide down, the orgasm hits you like a ton of bricks. I get super hot thinking about it!
I've seen a woman ride a Sybian but I passed on a ride!
Thanks for stopping by to comment.
I actually like recieving better than giving
I'm a giver and not a receiver.
Most ladies look at my thickness and say nope.... Otherwise it feels like my cock is clamped in a vice. I've done it, it can be enjoyable, but not my favorite.
Sometimes it's an advantage being smaller or thinner!
@guy03234a, I used to have the same problem, but most of the women I meet now have no problem handling it, and think the thickness/stretching is very enjoyable.
I did have one woman I dated briefly a few years back who would, nearly every time we got together, tell me, "Tonight we're going to do it it. I'm going to get your cock in my ass tonight!" And every time ended with, "No, I'm not quite ready yet." We never did manage.
And another, many years earlier -- when we were both young, and anal sex wasn't considered part of the "standard package," who would occasionally speculate on trying it, but never did. A long time after we stopped seeing each other, we ran into each other by chance and one of the things I learned in our conversation was that she was, by then, really hooked on anal and had some regrets that she'd never done it with me.
Anal sex is underrated.
Though a lot of people here highly rate anal sex. Thanks for stopping by.
I could write a novella, on a girlfriend I had at 16-17, she LOVED anal,, the kicker was, she was a year younger than me, her fav was anal because she didnt want to get pregnant,and it was FANTASTIC!,,,,,when Kelly and i married, we tried anal a few times but she did NOT enjoy,,, so it has been a 40 year dry spell for me,,
Anal sex isn't for everyone.
anal is great and can be super intense especially if both are into it. 8 out of 10 women I had anal sex with loved it...
I've only tried anal sex with three of my partners, all seemed to like it.
@spunkycumfun and you probably, too...
@AchimAlba Yes, I liked giving anal sex.
I'm bi; with men I'm pretty much 100% bottom. Also like my partner to have a very generous package.
For about 6 years, beginning when I was a young adult, I was FWB's with an older gentleman with a porn-star cock who could fuck all day. Every time we got together, he was big enough that penetration was REALLY uncomfortable at first. We compensated by starting out slow, staying lubricated -- and gritting my teeth for the first 10-15 minutes.
Patience always did the trick. After we'd been at it for a few minutes, my insides would relax. As he felt me relax, he fucked harder, eventually slapping my ass with his pelvis.
I have only fucked one woman in the ass. Not my cup of tea, but she asked me to do it a couple of times, and I wanted to please her, so I did it. Never did it hard with her; just slow and easy. She liked it but we didn't make a habit of it.
Thanks for stopping by to recount your experiences.
I will add: I probably never would have fucked that first guy...
... if there had been girls my age back then who were willing to have sex with me.
Related to one of your other discussions -- When I was in my teens and early twenties, had there been a "supply" of reasonably-priced and reasonably attractive hookers, I probably would have been a frequent flyer.
I didn't have many (or any) outlets for my sexual energy in my teens, so when that man I described approached me for the first time, I was already primed to release that pent-up energy and share some intimacy with SOMEONE, even if not a girl/woman.
Had it a couple of times when I was younger, mainly as part of a dp. Not my favorite thing and I much prefer vaginal sex
I too much prefer vaginal sex.
I’m an anal queen. Not gonna say it’s better than pussy sex, but I certainly love it just as much. Plus I squirt uncontrollably with a dick in my ass. Toys too!
You are the legendary anal queen here.
The penetration from anal is rough at first but if and once it’s lubed up it is amazing for both parties it seems(I only gave and not willing to receive lol). SLOW at first is all I was thinking to do
Slow is best, certainly at first, with anal sex.