SWINGING MOMENT #2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS

I am a non-smoker. I have had sex with smokers but that was back in the 80s when my exposure to second smoke was higher. I've become more sensitive to the smell since I live in a smoke-free environment. These days, I don't meet anyone as a potential partner if they smoke. Smokers don't realize that a mint does not hide the smoke taste when kissing and the smell lingers in the nose hairs. I don't even eat smoked meat.

That said ... there are always exceptions in my world, depending on the man. So if I met you for sex under the Major Oak - doggy style while eating a mint would be acceptable.

Believe it or not, I was a smoker myself, in my 20's. Around the time that I quit I become involved with a nonsmoker (might have had a lot to do with my quitting "sticking" ) so it was a non-issue.

After we split up? By then the smell of smoking grossed me out. I was involved with one guy who swore he wouldn't do it around me. However, his car reeked and I think he usually squoze in one last one on his way over to my house. It's been a pretty firm dealbreaker ever since then.

I am a non-smoker. When I was in my twenties I did not care if the woman smoked or not. As I got older it bothered me more and more. A number of years ago I met a woman on this site who smoked. We got together and I found her interesting and our first sex was good. But though she did not smoke when we were together I found it to be be bothersome. The aroma clings so I stopped seeing her and after that refused to have sex or an affair with a smoker.

I had a boyfriend once that smoked, but he would chew gum before meeting me, and never lit up when we were together.

Smoking is a deal-breaker 🤮

I absolutely hate smoking. Smoking is a total deal-breaker.

Am a non smoker. In past have had sex with smokers. A female smoking or man I guess also is indicating an oral addiction both physically and psychological. In Asia oral sex is called Smoking. So if she or possibly he s makes cigarettes then really wants to suck dick. Am pro dick sucking. No chain mail girl? Sounds medieval. Now days mostly stay away from smokers, as can't get swell off sk I n, hair and out of mouth

I'm a non smoker. I have kissed and cuddled a smoker but we never made it to sex. We're still friends

I don't smoke. No one in my house were smokers. Yes, in college I would often toke a joint when offered but cigarettes where not my thing.

Then after my divorce, I was going through my dark time and I started smoking for like a week and I decided it was stupid and it was getting expensive. They were no where as expensive as today but really< I was in my thirties and I thought WTF am I smoking for? Yes, if I was at a strip club with the guys from work, I would buy a pack and drink a smoke a few and share them with a buddy who was like me. One who rarely smoked but if he was drinking, could easily smoke a few. Often times we would just leaving the remaining pack on a table and we were done with them.

I don't like kissing or smelling cigarettes on a woman, especially her hair and as far as partaking in weed, I would much prefer edibles. I happen to have a dispensary across the street from where I live. It was a realty office before and it is a nice office space turned into a dispensary that you would never think it was that.

If a woman who was naked under chain mail, and let me touch her nipples with it on, I would definitely tell her I had actually quit smoking recently, just avoid saying how recent.

That girl was a Taliban of her own hang-ups... chronically dissatisfied with life and with herself. I honestly don’t think you missed out on much by not shagging her.

As for me, well, I’ve never smoked: not once, not even a single cigarette. But I’ve had sex with dozens of men who did, some just before or right after lighting up. I don’t recall anyone actually fucking me with a butt still in his mouth, but hey, maybe I’ve forgotten.

About forty years ago, everyone smoked everywhere: on the subway, in elevators, in hospitals, in university lecture halls, bars, discos... even kindergartens. Let’s be honest: back then, not smoking: like in my case, was seen as a kind of weird eccentricity, like being some sort of freak. And the main reason most people smoked was simply to fit in.

That’s also why almost everyone today has social media accounts: but I don’t.

But if I’d refused to have sex with men who smoked… I would’ve been stuck using the handle of my hairbrush for decades. 😄

Id like to know how much ciggys are over your way? and what kind you smoke. im a Marlboro ultra light girl (silver pack/shorts). in my 45 years plus of indulging, ive never smoked full time. its mainly when i drink alcohol. nothing like a beer and a ciggy. my neck of the woods, cigs are about 13-15 a pack. but once i cross the bridge to the northern neck of virginia, cigs get cheaper like 11 bux. in the past, nicotine hangovers have been the worse. of course, brushing my teeth AND my tongue help with that.

You have had some very interesting swinging parties. As for the smoking my hubby was a smoker for over 60 years and well that's what caused his heart attacks. I made him quit cold turkey by taking away all of his cigarettes, it was a tough decision but it was worth it in the end he hasn't had a smoke in over 6 years now and I am so proud of him.

So yes both of my husbands were smokers, most of the men I dated too come to think of it. It didn't really bother me. I have never been a smoker because it's bad for you!!

I hope you enjoy a tempting Thursday my friend..

If a non-smoker, have you or would you have sex with a smoker? - Yes, while I prefer non-smokers I do consider them if they can refrain while we are together.

If a smoker, have you noticed your sexual opportunities diminishing? - I'm not a smoker.

Guess I'll come back for the photo later!

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