At this juncture, me and my then swinging partner were getting slightly experienced at swinging. We had set our ground rules and we had swung with a few couples before.
We met a couple at a luxury hotel in Nottingham; they were driving up from quite a distance and booked a room at the hotel. And we decided also to book a room to make it more of an adventure. To be honest, we found booking our own hotel room when meeting another couple gave us more control of the situation. We had the choice of inviting or not inviting a couple back to our room for sex.
The couple we met weren't as experienced as us at swinging. Not a problem. We weren't pushy and never expected sex on the first date. All four of us after meeting up at the hotel reception went onto a nearby steak restaurant. The food was good, and the conversation was very good.
My then partner and I had a code, which sometimes got muddled, indicating to each other that that another couple was shagworthy. At the end of the evening, we invited them to our hotel bedroom. They accepted the invitation. We were the first time they had swung.
In the bedroom things were initially okay. I was getting on with the woman of the other couple, we even shagged. But I noticed that the man of the other couple wasn't shagging my partner. Alarm bells! After my shag with his wife, and slightly needing a rest, he was orchestrating a double-penetration moment with his wife. The orchestration was so cold that neither I nor his wife could go ahead with it, never mind my unshagged partner who was just going to be a bystander in his planned fantasy proceedings.
Have you ever enacted a sexual fantasy with a partner or someone else?
Have you ever been subjected to a sexual fantasy by a partner or someone else?
The night soon ended. This meeting with that couple told me two things. First, don't expect others to go along with your fantasies without warning or consent. And second, go with the flow rather than try to control the flow. We never saw them again.
To this day, double-penetration is still on my to-do list. Maybe that was my chance and I blew it!
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Once met a guy who wanted to play out his fantasy of a BJ then sex with an adoring high school chick. He was acting very immature which was his HS idea. Since he had not told me or even hinted, I thought he was a proper moron, getting stupid the minute we hit the bed. It didn't go well. I was totally confused. Now that I recall this, he was a shagnasty, LOL.
You're getting good with that shagnasty word!
Ive though many times if i wanted to do a double penetration and the answer has always been a no in mind. too much of a chance of the mingling of my fluids puts me at risk of a UTI. i love anal, but at my risk. never stick a dick in the ass and then try to stick its in the vajayjay. horrific issues will follow. trust me.
I agree that a cock should go from the ass to the pussy. But that shouldn't happen with two cocks involved. Also double-penetration can involve two cocks in one pussy.
@spunkycumfun the mere action of intercourse (for me) would entail a lot of fluid (on my part) i can't risk the anal fluid reaching my vajayjay . and having two cocks in me at one time (either anal/vagina OR in the vagina has never been on my dance card. an everyone once in awhile of fisting is about as far as i will go.
@mysexualgoodtime I've never fisted. It's something I couldn't do, two cocks sounds more comfortable!
Hi S!
An interesting experience that confirms what I’ve always thought: sex between two people -one to one sex- is already sometimes complicated, three people involved it can be extremely difficult, and with four being two men and two women… almost impossible.
It’s like juggling balls in the air: one ball is easy… two balls! fairly hard, and three balls… nearly impossible. And if you manage it once, it’s probably just by chance.
I’m not trying to generalize, but I think the juggler-and-balls metaphor is quite illustrative.
As for your two questions: my answer is: “Yes, and many times”
With two couples, there are six relationships to maintain. It's amazing that sex sometimes happens!
This post is the third in the series of my swinging moments. See SWINGING MOMENT 1: FROM THE HOT TUB TO THE LOUNGE VIA THE KITCHEN and SWINGING MOMENT 2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS for the first two moments.
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Amazing. Sign me up!
You'll have to join the orderly queue.
I've always felt that the chances of getting four people together and ALL of them vibing with the other three people are pretty slim.
Given that there are six relationships involved with a foursome, the chances as you say are slim.
Good to have a 2 do list
Yes and yes
It's getting a bit late for to those items on my bucket list now.
Wow! How did you let her go!
My partner or the DP woman?
That was an interesting meeting. Communication and honesty must be there, and I feel that guy was being an ass. Your poor partner was being ignored.
DP? Sure! I got to do that a long time ago with Hubby and his good friend. Not really anybody's fantasy, it just happened. One fantasy of mine that never worked out - being the only female at a party. Everyone wants me, and I do all of them. hahahaha! Too late for that one...
It's never too late to shag all at a party!
Number 1 on bucket 🪣 list
It's number one on my bucket list too. Thanks for stopping by.
I love double penetration u should have done it
If I was on my own, I probably would have done. But my partner was there and she would have been twiddling her thumbs if it happened.
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Enacted a sexual fantasy? Yes though more often his fantasy than mine (since I have none)
Been subjected to a sexual fantasy? My brain is interpreting this as a fantasy sprung on me without notice (or permission) so ... no.
Your interpretation is correct. I think his fantasy about double-penetration should have been shared before we got into the bedroom. One advantage of swinging, is that conversations over a drink or a meal can be quite sexualised so he had little excuse.
That was some swinging date you all had there. No sexual fantasies here, I have never been a fantasy person, I had always done what, where and when I wanted of course my partner was always on board. But never with other people as my hubby was a gigolo when I met him and he has pretty much done it all and would never share me.
I hope your Monday is a marvelous start to your new week..
It's good that you've don what and when you wanted things.
Whenever I've been with couples I've always been by myself. Of course go with the flow and try to fulfill their fantasies. But I pretty much know ahead of time what they are.
I think it's a bit different on your own with a couple and as a couple with another couple. When on my own, I went with their flow. As a couple, I or we hoped for a joint flow.
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The very first lady I met via this site was quite the adventurer. I was cumming in her mouth within 15 minutes of meeting her, we had sex in a cemetery, and a several other adventures. Her downside was finding time to play, so despite all the fun we fell out of touch.
But apparently she continued to play. When she met a guy that wanted to DP her, so told him she knew just who to call to assist. 😁
You were a gentleman!