The Bank House Hotel, Uttoxeter, Staffordshire, England:
It's dawned on me that many of my tales of swinging moments are tales of when things go wrong. I assure you that I had far, far more good than bad moments. The bad moments sometimes are more memorable and possibly more entertaining to read. But here's a good swinging moment, in fact I'm going to throw in two good swinging moments with another couple but both took place in Uttoxeter, a Staffordshire market town halfway between us.
This couple were the first couple we ever met and we became very good friends. We even met up socially with no sex involved but usually sex was involved either as a foursome or at a party.
My partner and I would book a room at a hotel, not a Premier Inn this time, when we met them. We would have a drink and a meal before retiring to our bedroom to have sex. It was a very enjoyable routine.
They often had to drive back home because they had kids living with them. We liked to stay the night and enjoy the town's Staffordshire oatcakes. A Staffordshire oatcake is a savoury pancake made from oatmeal and cooked with fillings like cheese, onion and bacon - see photo below.
We didn't have sex the first time we met at this hotel. They had a 'no-sex-on-the-first-meet' rule which was fine by us. But soon after they left the hotel, we soon got a text that they wanted to meet up again with sex to follow.
The next and subsequent times we met up at the hotel, we always retired to our bedroom for sex. They were a condom couple, which again was fine by us. One time I was clearly so hard and big when shagging the woman of the other couple, that my condom split.
Have you ever had a condom split when having sex?
How comfortable are you with sexual routines or routine sex?
There was another time, that the man of the other couple wasn't able to have sex because of a health issue. In the bar he explained that he was happy for his wife to have sex with me provided my partner was okay about things. My partner said that she was fine with that. That was good communication.
When we retired to our bedroom, the conversation flowed and I started to undress myself and the other woman. She was leaning over the bed with my hard cock hovering behind her. My partner grabbed my cock and slowly placed it inside the other woman's pussy. Conversation was still flowing until the woman said that she couldn't talk no more and just wanted a fuck. That was a very hot moment.
This couple gave us confidence to hold sex parties for couples. Though we could easily host parties, we needed assurance that other couples would show up. They promised they would show up. They came to almost every party we hosted; they were good at parties not least because they easily chatted to other couples, especially any newbies. They remained great friends until my partner and I split up when we just drifted all apart.
Staffordshire oatcakes:
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These stories exemplify the importance of communication between all parties involved and how it really shouldn't be that hard to do so and avoid drama/issues. I've never had a condom break during sex, but I have had one break getting it on and had to grab another. I don't mind a certain level of routine. I like to know what to expect and, to some extent, it is a sign that I am comfortable with them and they know what I like. I once asked a partner if it bothered him that we pretty much followed the same script every time we were together (which honestly, wasn't really that often). He said that no, it was all stuff we both enjoyed and so what if it was mildly predictable. Orgasms for both meant everyone was happy so who cares.
There's nothing at all wrong with good sexual routines if everyone is happy.
A breaking condom encouraged me to get an IUD. Don’t need an IUD anymore, but still prefer using condoms
I didn't get an IUD after my condom split!
The risk of a break is why I got an IUD as well. Thankfully, I shouldn't need another one after this one, but the ultrasound last time still showed recent ovulation and my estrogen levels last fall indicated that at 51, I'm not quite out of the woods yet. Hubs has a vasectomy, but I ask all others to use condoms as an extra precaution for all things that could happen.
No, I've never split a condom. 🤣
So was the condom splitting lady THAT attractive physically, or was it more how enthusiastic she was about having sex with you?
I don't know why the condom split. It just did.
You know I haven't been with many partners and I can't say that condoms were ever used and if they were we never had them split for sure. So sorry that happened to you, and you have had some very swinging great times it seems.
I hope your enjoying a relaxing Sunday..
That was the only time a condom had split on me. She had to take a morning-after pill just in case.
I do like spontaneous sex. Routine sex as well, who's controlling that schedule anyway?
I've had a few condoms split over the years, luckily they were with testing partners as well as myself.
Those savory pancakes are making my stomach growl.
Spontaneous sex is best.
I hope your stomach soon stops growling!
Yes, I had quite a few condom incidents… some accidents, others I have my doubts…
My condom split was definitely an accident. I've never done stealthing!
@spunkycumfun I have been… more than once, not all the guys are so kind and honest as you
@AuraAviatik6 Stealthing is a very bad thing for a man to do.
@spunkycumfun yes, very bad, but happens, and also in recent times, though it was much worse when I was fertile… 🙄
@AuraAviatik6 It's non-consensual sex.
@spunkycumfun
Yes, technically it was non-consensual, although I must say that excessive alcohol, on my part as well, played a role in the equation. That said, I’ve had two other non-consensual sexual experiences that were considerably more… let’s say hard or dangerous, although I have to admit that also I was partly to blame in those cases too. That’s one of the risks that comes with the life I’ve lived, and continue to live. The unexpected is always lurking, and sometimes it does become reality. Nothing too bad happened to me at the end.
@AuraAviatik6 Alcohol, or rather too much alcohol, can sometimes lead to a few not-so-good sexual moments.
@spunkycumfun Yes, very true 🙄 I have been there many times 😊
The oatcakes look great! I think they are making me hungry.
I can definitely recommend oatcakes.
Your just a swinging. Looks like good sandwich. Never had condom break. Always check the expiration date. Had a past due flavored one more or less dissolve and flake apart.
The condom was in date. I should have sued the condom company!
@spunkycumfun ....
This blog post is part of a series of my swinging moments. See SWINGING MOMENT 1: FROM THE HOT TUB TO THE LOUNGE VIA THE KITCHEN, SWINGING MOMENT 2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS, SWINGING MOMENT 3: NEARLY A DOUBLE-PENETRATION AT A LUXURY HOTEL, SWINGING MOMENT 4: EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FIGHTING!, SWINGING MOMENT 5: SWINGERS HERE LOVE A PREMIER INN! and SWINGING MOMENT 6: JUST WATCHING OTHERS for other swinging moments.
These posts are solely my recollections. I readily accept that others may recall the swinging moments differently, especially the interpretation of the moments.