At the very start of our swinging life, and soon after joining this site, my partner and I came across a profile with 'poopal' as its handle. poopal was a female from Leicester with a partner also from Leicester, about twenty miles from where we lived in Nottingham. Her profile, was very inviting and came across as very genuine, at least to us.
The reason why it was her profile and not their profile was that she was having an affair with him, a married man, who wasn't prepared to leave his marriage for her. They met at work but had been together for years.
My partner and I were intrigued by them though we were seriously put off by the username. We just didn't understand why they would choose that username unless they were into scat. It turned out, according to her who was raised in South Africa, that poopal is a term of endearment in that country. Only @BeccaLuvs and @taurean62dbn here can vouch for this.
After the usual exchange of face photographs and a telephone conversation, we agreed to meet. They wanted to meet us in Nottingham where we lived, presumably that was far safer than meeting us n Leicester where they lived. They booked a bedroom at a Premier Inn. We met at the pub next door to their hotel.
It was one of our first swinging meets, and my partner and I were very excited and even a lot nervous. I remember jokingly saying to my partner, stupidly as it turned out, that I had packed lots of toilet roll for our meeting with poopal, as we headed off to our destination.
The conversation in the pub was very flowing between us all, electric even. They were a charming couple and they invited us back to their very nearby hotel bedroom. We hadn't eaten but that didn't matter. She, poopal that is, came prepared with a picnic which we scoffed happily in their hotel bedroom. That was a smart move on her behalf. She had all bases covered.
She was in charge of proceedings, it often needs one in a foursome to direct proceedings or at least least take things forward, take their clothes off first, encouraging others to get naked and initiating sex between everyone. poopal was brilliant at all this without being a control freak. There's a fine line between directing and controlling proceedings when it comes to swinging as a foursome in my experience.
My sex with her was amazing. For me, she was like Miss Moneypenny in a James Bond film. Prim and proper at the start until she took her clothes off, not that I've seen Miss Moneypenny ever get down and dirty with James Bond. Though I tried to be a James Bond, he was no 007 with my partner. He had problems getting erect no matter hard my partner tried to get him hard. I certainly received far more female attention than he did!
Have you ever visited South Africa? If not, would you like to visit the country?
Have you ever had sex with a South African? If so, how did it go?
We met them again and the same ending happened. This was one of those where I was getting the better deal than my partner. We called it a day with them. I always wondered why she was with him but she seemed besotted with him. I suspect he was her boss at work. It was a shame as we got on really well socially.
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A pretty risky username!
I have never been to South Africa but I will be visiting Africa for the first time next year - Kenya and Tanzania.
Your African trip will be brilliant. I've been to West Africa and Southern Africa but never East Africa. I can't wait to read your blog detailing your adventures.
@spunkycumfun I'm excited about it. I've always been somewhat interested in trying a safari trip. When a friend of mine did one last fall and was posting her pictures on FB, it got me to finally pull the trigger on scheduling a trip.
@smartasswoman A safari in the Serengeti is on my bucket list.
I have no aspirations for South Africa. Iceland. Greenland. Yes.
It seems you like cold countries more than hot countries.
Wish I were there
Unfortunately you're a long way away. Thanks for stopping by.
Well, that name is something else, isn’t it? My answers to your four questions are: No, Maybe but I really doubt it, Who knows!, See the third answer
Someone's username can say a lot about someone.
It's interesting how the initial impression of a profile, especially with an unusual handle like "poopal," can be so misleading, only to be clarified later by cultural context.
I haven't visited South Africa, nor have I had sex with anyone from there. But, I've read that it is a country of immense diversity, and imagine it would be an incredibly compelling place to visit.
Members' usernames here initially convey a lot of impression to others. If I started our again on this site, I'd change my username. First impressions do count!
@CarpeJamie Tough question to answer, but it would be a non-sexualised and quite a neutral name.
No to poo, but I have traveled outside the US but never to that side of the globe. Would I travel to South Africa? Not my first choice, but I would be open to it. Would I have sex with a South African woman? Why not? If a person is attracted to the woman, why would it matter where she is from? I have no issues with it.
Your view on whom to have sex with is the same as mine.
So glad that meeting turned out well for you all and no I have never been out of the United States.
I hope your Friday is a fun start to your weekend..
It was a very good meet though better for me than my partner at the time.
No to poo. No to South Africa and South Africans. Would visit if had opportunity
A South African safari sounds tempting.
Youre better than me for sure. i wouldnt have engaged with a name like that. yes, im a bigot...lol
I think they didn't think through the implications of their name.
Nope never been the South African route.
YUP surely seems poopal was getting something from him, and it wasn't hard cock. Likely why they were into swinging.
They left the site soon after meeting us, hopefully not because of us!
I have a world traveler friend that said South Africa is one of his favorite countries. (He has been to more than 120.) Maybe they were swinging because he could not get it up and she wanted sex???
I'm tempted to take a safari in South Africa.
This blog post is part of a series of my swinging moments. See SWINGING MOMENT 1: FROM THE HOT TUB TO THE LOUNGE VIA THE KITCHEN, SWINGING MOMENT 2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS, SWINGING MOMENT 3: NEARLY A DOUBLE-PENETRATION AT A LUXURY HOTEL, SWINGING MOMENT 4: EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FIGHTING!, SWINGING MOMENT 5: SWINGERS HERE LOVE A PREMIER INN!, SWINGING MOMENT 6: JUST WATCHING OTHERS, SWINGING MOMENT 7: HALFWAY AT UTTOXETER, SWINGING MOMENT 8: BLOOD AT A SEX PARTY, SWINGING MOMENT 9: TWO BIG NIPPLES AND ONE BIG COCK, SWINGING MOMENT 10: AN 'ORGY' IN A HOTEL ROOM, SWINGING MOMENT 11: A ZIPLESS FUCK IN A JACUZZI and SWINGING MOMENT 12: NOT SWINGING WITH CANADA for other swinging moments.
These posts are solely my recollections. I readily accept that others may recall the swinging moments differently, especially the interpretation of the moments.