My partner and I met this couple in London, roughly halfway between us. We each booked a double room in a Premier Inn. First we went out for a meal in a restaurant and then a few drinks in a bar quite nearby. On walking back to the hotel, we invited them back to our bedroom.
We packed some wine so we carried on chatting over a few more drinks. The conversation was good and we started to play with each other. My partner had sex with the man and I had sex with the woman of the couple.
The couple were keen to attend our parties. They were regular attenders. At one of our parties, I walked into the lounge with a lot of writhing naked bodies on the harem-style bed. The woman, whom I had fucked in London, beckoned me over with her hand as she was sucking the cock of another man. I knelt behind her, slipped on a condom and fucked her again. She seemed to enjoy the spit-roast; I certainly did.
The couple's relationship was occasionally a little fractious. I got the impression that they were friends-with-benefits but she wanted more, but I could be wrong. I didn't want to get too involved in their spats. At one party in a hotel bedroom - see SWINGING MOMENT 10: AN 'ORGY' IN A HOTEL ROOM, they started arguing amongst themselves. They had the good sense to leave the party. Scenes like that can quickly ruin the mood of a sex party or, for that matter, any party.
The last time I saw the couple was at one of our parties The woman was leading her man around the party; she was holding a leash attached to a collar around his neck. That was a surprise.
Have you ever worn a collar for sexual purposes?
I've never worn a collar for sex, but a one or two of my partners have.
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I don't even like non-sexual collars.
Collars are a devil to iron!
@spunkycumfun On the bright side ... you don't have to iron sexual collars.
@superbjversion2 That's a fair point.
Your swinger party sounds like an odd place to parade her "pet" around 🤔
It was a bit strange and it certainly was a talking point.
If I did wear a collar and was leashed, I would be afraid to hear the words: Who’s a good boy, you’re a good boy! Want a treat? Good boy! 😂
There are some people out there who'd do anything for a dog treat!
Nope, never have worn a collar for sexual or any other purpose. The whole Dom/Sub thing I do not understand and do not find arousing. I know some or even many do to varying degrees. No doubt I have a kink or two that does not interest others. Who thinks sexual kinks always have to make sense to the one interested in them.
Apart from some light spanking, I'm not into BDSM.
@spunkycumfun Neither am I and for the most part spanking a lover is only something I find exciting because of the way it can turn some women on,
@justskin1 I've found spanking to be like Marmite - people either love or hate it.
@spunkycumfun Learning how hard they want to be spanked is tricky. I certainly will not spank hard. I have also discovered that some women love to have their outer pussy lips lightly spanked. One loved when I used a wooden spoon or rubber spatula to do so. I was narrow enough to fit between her thighs but wide enough to cover almost all of her lips. Tended to get the spoon all wet with her cum.
@justskin1 I've not spanked a pussy other than with my cock.
@spunkycumfun For some it can make them very wet but the spanking must be gentle, harder than a pat but softer than a swat.
Hard pass....
Thanks for stopping by.
Very HOT!! I love these kind of swinging party's!!
Sex parties are always hot!
@spunkycumfun Oh Yessssss!! For sure!!
Wearing a collar - not my style. I have several acquaintances who were thrilled to receive one, though. 🤷♀️
I hope you took your acquaintances for a walk around the block!
Nope
It's a no from me too.
I have never worn one nor I have never been asked. I think that both persons should try it and play it out and see if they like it or not. It isn't like it would harm them or leave them injured I would guess.
I can vouch that the collared man at the party wasn't harmed. I think it was a 'coming out' moment for him.
Not my thing but many people enjoy being dominated for sure. Or maybe it's being submissive.
I hope your Friday continues to treat you well..
It's not for either.
One day my dear friend D and I were shopping in a local sex shop. She thought it would be hilarious, so she purchased a collar and leash for me to wear, and lead me around the shop in it for the remainder of our visit. The others in the shop found it pretty amusing too. 😳
You probably made the customers' day.
Well, in my case, the answer to your question is obvious if you look at my photos on the blog, where in a good percentage of them I’m wearing a collar… and a leash 😄
I well remember your penchant for being collared!
Nope, doesn't appeal, but perhaps that's an indicator of my lack of imagination. To each their own.
I too don't want to be collared and led around as a sub.
This blog post is part of a series of my swinging moments. See SWINGING MOMENT 1: FROM THE HOT TUB TO THE LOUNGE VIA THE KITCHEN, SWINGING MOMENT 2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS, SWINGING MOMENT 3: NEARLY A DOUBLE-PENETRATION AT A LUXURY HOTEL, SWINGING MOMENT 4: EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FIGHTING!, SWINGING MOMENT 5: SWINGERS HERE LOVE A PREMIER INN!, SWINGING MOMENT 6: JUST WATCHING OTHERS, SWINGING MOMENT 7: HALFWAY AT UTTOXETER, SWINGING MOMENT 8: BLOOD AT A SEX PARTY, SWINGING MOMENT 9: TWO BIG NIPPLES AND ONE BIG COCK, SWINGING MOMENT 10: AN 'ORGY' IN A HOTEL ROOM, SWINGING MOMENT 11: A ZIPLESS FUCK IN A JACUZZI, SWINGING MOMENT 12: NOT SWINGING WITH CANADA, SWINGING MOMENT 13: WOULD YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE CALLED POOPAL?, SWINGING MOMENT 14: THE MAN WITH A CANE AND A NON-PLAYING WIFE, SWINGING MOMENT 15: CALLING KEVIN OUT, SWINGING MOMENT 16: A CARPET BURN, AND NOT FROM SEX!, SWINGING MOMENT 17: TWO VERY LONG DRIVES FOR NOTHING, SWINGING MOMENT 18: SOMETIMES IT'S NOT FAIR and SWINGING MOMENT 19: BEWARE OF CAMBRIDGE SWINGING COUPLES for other swinging moments.
These posts are solely my recollections. I readily accept that others may recall the swinging moments differently, especially the interpretation of the moments.