My partner and I met one local couple a few times and they came to a few of our parties. We got on socially and sexually but sometimes we didn't get on. Alcohol probably didn't help things, or rather too much alcohol. I found a little alcohol was good to loosen people up and overcome any initial inhibitions when swinging.
The other couple were interesting. He loved his partner having sex with other men while he waited for her return. Sometimes he's leave their house for her to have sex with another man. She was and perhaps still is a hotwife (even though they weren't married), and he was and probably still is a cuckold.
The other man was also very sure about his sexual prowess. His sexual boasts put me off him.
At parties, they would arrive on his Harley Davidson. On arrival, he would always play the Harley card. He was getting a lot of female attention, perhaps I didn't like the competition as I only ever owned a Vespa scooter back in my teens.
The man would often take females, never males, on the back of his Harley. There was one time when I thought, rightly or wrongly, that my partner wanted a ride on his Harley. I was feeling a little jealous, and I wasn't normally a jealous guy (nor am I jealous guy now). I needed to confront my jealousy, a very destructive, quite irrational and often futile emotion.
I went up to my partner and asked her for a private word. We went upstairs out of earshot of others. I told her that I was feeling jealous and asked her not to ride pillion on the man's Harley. She replied that she had no intention of going for a motorbike ride. I thanked her.
Have you owned or ridden a Harley Davidson?
Has jealousy ever come up in your sexual affairs?
There was another time when we met the couple as a foursome. I've always wanted to try double-penetration, as one of the two penetrators and not the penetrated I should add. My partner was fucking the other man cowgirl style on my sofa. Knowing my double-penetration dream, she beckoned me to join in. I didn't because I didn't want double-penetration with him involved.
Looking back at the relationship with the couple. It's clear that my partner got on socially and sexually with the man, and I got on with the woman of the couple. The problematic relationships were between the two men and the two women. You may think that that shouldn't be a big problem when two heterosexual couples have sex together, but all four of us were social swingers so it was a problem.
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Yes, my husband had a Harley Dyna Super Glide between 2000 and 2009, and I traveled long distances with him, even 750 km in a single day. It was a very comfortable bike, and the engine noise used to make me fall asleep: funny how one can actually nod off on a bike, well, on a Harley, without falling off. Another “special friend” I had in 2016 owned two Harleys… Honestly, I like Harleys more than Vespas, sorry
I can understand why you like Harleys and Vespas. I was so disappointed when my Dad gave me a very uncool Vespa, well uncool at the time.
@spunkycumfun Well, an old classic Vespa today is a real gem; some people pay a fortune for them. And I know that because I have another friend… well, this one is a “conventional” friend, not like the one with the two Harleys
He told me about it, he’s a member of a classic Vespa club on the Costa Blanca… although he’s never invited me to go for a ride on his Vespa 
@AuraAviatik6 I hear Vespa sex is the best!
@spunkycumfun It depends on the driver!
I have only been on a motorcycle once - when a guy I met at a bar gave me a ride home. Harley ownership is not an aphrodisiac for me! Almost the reverse, really, because of my stereotypes of the kind of guy that rides one.
I've never owned a motorbike but I did own a Vespa scooter, years after they were cool and years before they got cool again.
He sounds like a bit of a dick - he had nothing worthy of envy!
He was a total knob.
Oh boy,,, the Harley"thing",,, met a lot of couples that ride Harleys,, we would avoid the douche ones,, and got along well with the couples that were just enjoying the ride! I have had a lot of bikes in my years,, back when I was a kid and started riding , Harleys were kinda junk,,, so we road Yamaha,, suzuki, Honda,,, even had a norton , but parts supply was terrible,,only had it one year,, wish I would have kept that baby! as per double pen play,, only enjoyed it once,, the guy wanted to give his wife this pleasure,, so he asked me to "help"??? as per usual,, she saved anal for him,, so she climbed over me,, and settled in,, and he got behind her and,,,,, entered??? lol,,,, it was,,,,, a challenge for him to stay,,"entered",, BUT we got a good rhythm going,,, and she LOVED it! it was too much for him ,, and he POPPED quickly! I understand that! she kept riding me,, and we had a NICE time,,, she wanted me to cum in her so,,, I did,,, i won't lie,,, it was ALL good!,,, i was a bit uncomfortable with his balls rubbing mine as we were both going at it,,, BUT i signed up for the ride! so,,,,
Rhythm seems key to successful double penetration.
A former playmate had a Harley and man, was it comfy! He took me out on a long bike ride and I had a blast!
I hope you had sex on the Harley!
Damn
Thanks for stopping by.
With going back to work, I haven't had time to read all of your latest blogs. I had to read this one! We are definitely a Harley family! I started riding on the back of Hubby's bikes 43 years ago. We've had 7 different Harleys over the years, now we have a Trike. There's something about the engine tickling you between the legs, and the wind in your hair - total freedom.
It sounds that riding a Harley gives you a thrill!
Never rode a Harley, just a dirt bike in which I crashed and stopped riding altogether. I’ve only had sex that involved women.
Crashes and motorbikes seem to go to together!
We are a Harley family. My dad had motorcycles my whole life. So hubby and son riding just seems normal. We are currently down to just one Harley. And one is enough as I ride behind Cowboy.
I don't feel jealous. Not yet anyway, and its been decades so I am not holding my breath at it happening. I have been annoyed by one of Cowboys lovers but to be fair, he has annoyed me at times too, LOL. Just as I can be annoying
Harleys seem very popular in America.
That who jealousy thing can be a big downer if you are into swinging. I always thought, that there is no room for that and both the man and woman have to be on the same page with it or else that life choice is not going to work.
I grew up not being allowed to ride motorcycles, dirt bikes and go carts. Yes, my parents were overly protective of my siblings and I. Yet, my older brother eventually became a motorcycle policeman until he recently retired. My other brother, when he was a teenager, was getting a ride from a neighborhood kid we knew on a go cart. My brother hanging on from the back of it fell off and had road rash scar from his shoulder to his ankle. My was so banged up and scraped badly, that he was lucky my dad didn't beat the crap out of him.
Needless to say, before I moved to the Midwest, a few of my co-workers and I decided to go to our local Harley-Davidson dealer and take their motorcycle driving class. I was so glad I did. I didn't own a motorcycle but always wanted to learn how to ride one. I pass the course and had a friend who owned one and she would let me ride it and practice with it whenever I wanted to. A co-worker won a local golf tournament and they gave him a 3 day pass to ride a brand new Harley-Davidson. He didn't ride so he gave the pass to me and another guy from work who pass the course.
I had it for a day and had the best time with it. Another guy from work who owned a bike, talked me into going to a bar they called the church. I think because many years before a church was located on that piece of property and the would give out 100 free Bloody Mary's. I didn't drink but it was cool hanging out with a bunch of bikers. Then we went to another bar cross town, and at that place as i sat at the bar with my friend, this hot biker chick who was checking out my bike started chatting up with me. My bud and I then left to hook up at another place on the water with some other friends on bikes. It was a perfect day for riding.
When I moved to Chicago and went to renew my driver license, I didn't renew the motorcycle part of it because I didn't own a bike to take the test. Since then I injured my foot and never rode again.
Jealousy and swinging don't mix well. It was only a pang mainly because I didn't like the man. I was cool about my partner shagging any other men!
Thanks for recounting your motorbike adventures.
I have never ridden on a Harley motorcycle but have ridden on many other kinds of motorcycles before. I honestly don't get what the big deal is. I am glad you asked your partner not to go on the Harley ride with him and I am glad that she agreed. You have some very interesting and entertaining swinging stories my friend.
I hope your Monday is a monumental start to your new week..
My partner wasn't into motorbikes.
Have you owned or ridden a Harley Davidson? - I've never even owned a Vespa. 😂
Has jealousy ever come up in your sexual affairs? - It's a bit different, but the second time I had sex with S and T, S insisted she be the one to get fucked first since the last time T was first.
I owned a Vespa. It went 30 mph uphill and downhill!
@mufdiver69er2 I rode a bike instead, though not a racing bike as in the Tour de France! Nottingham was the home of Raleigh, now outsourced to China or wherever.
This blog post is part of a series of my swinging moments, not presented in chronological order. See SWINGING MOMENT 1: FROM THE HOT TUB TO THE LOUNGE VIA THE KITCHEN, SWINGING MOMENT 2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS, SWINGING MOMENT 3: NEARLY A DOUBLE-PENETRATION AT A LUXURY HOTEL, SWINGING MOMENT 4: EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FIGHTING!, SWINGING MOMENT 5: SWINGERS HERE LOVE A PREMIER INN!, SWINGING MOMENT 6: JUST WATCHING OTHERS, SWINGING MOMENT 7: HALFWAY AT UTTOXETER, SWINGING MOMENT 8: BLOOD AT A SEX PARTY, SWINGING MOMENT 9: TWO BIG NIPPLES AND ONE BIG COCK, SWINGING MOMENT 10: AN 'ORGY' IN A HOTEL ROOM, SWINGING MOMENT 11: A ZIPLESS FUCK IN A JACUZZI, SWINGING MOMENT 12: NOT SWINGING WITH CANADA, SWINGING MOMENT 13: WOULD YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE CALLED POOPAL?, SWINGING MOMENT 14: THE MAN WITH A CANE AND A NON-PLAYING WIFE, SWINGING MOMENT 15: CALLING KEVIN OUT, SWINGING MOMENT 16: A CARPET BURN, AND NOT FROM SEX!, SWINGING MOMENT 17: TWO VERY LONG DRIVES FOR NOTHING, SWINGING MOMENT 18: SOMETIMES IT'S NOT FAIR, SWINGING MOMENT 19: BEWARE OF CAMBRIDGE SWINGING COUPLES and SWINGING MOMENT 20: A WOMAN TAKES HER MAN FOR A WALK for other moments.
These posts are solely my recollections. I readily accept that others involved may recall the swinging moments differently, especially the interpretation of the moments.