I was invited to a party organised by another couple on behalf of another couple - see SWINGING MOMENT 10: AN 'ORGY' IN A HOTEL ROOM. At parties, I often got off with the woman of this couple to the point I thought we had a swinging thing going on!
At this time, I was a single man as I had just split from my swinging partner. It was interesting going to a party as a single man rather than as a couple. In some ways, it was liberating and, in other ways, it was restricting. But I knew a lot of the couples at the party so socially if not sexually it was easy for me.
The party was held in a very large and rather grand house. Not many people turned up to the party, probably because not many were invited. But because of the size of the house, it felt quite an empty party, guests just rattled around the house. Apart from the kitchen, there was no go-to place to mingle, everyone was spread around the rooms of the house and even the hot tub in the garden.
The woman with whom I often got off with wasn't interested in me. She had a new fancy man. Though I didn't press my case, I was effectively rejected!
After a while at the party, I decided to see what was sexually happening in the house - I was now behaving like a single man in a sex club.
Do you find it easier to socialise as a single or as a couple?
I walked into one bedroom, the door was open, only to see a woman enjoying the double-penetration services of two men. She lying down on her side was sandwiched between the two men on a bed - I couldn't work out whether it was double penetration of her pussy or single penetration of both her pussy and bum. All three were very engrossed with what they were doing and I soon walked out as I didn't want to be accused of being a Peeping Tom.
Later on, still on the prowl, I went to the hot tub in the garden. The double-penetrated woman was in the hot tub. I decided to join her, thinking that this was my main chance at the party. After introducing ourselves to each other in the hot tub, we had sex in the hot, bubbling water. Not quite a zipless fuck but close! It turned out that was my only chance at the party.
The party was one hard welcome to the swinging world for a single man. Swinging was far easier with a partner.
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When I went to clubs, it was rare to see women attending alone. Those who did often looked like they were on a modelling shoot or were part of a group. I felt safer going with a partner, although their behaviour sometimes made me wish I had gone solo. The atmosphere at hotel takeovers was similar to that of the clubs, so I never attended those alone either.
However, house parties had a different vibe, and I felt comfortable going to those by myself since the hosts always kept an eye on single attendees.
I much preferred house parties over clubs - friendlier and far more relaxed.
For me, it's easier on my own, since Hubby is a quiet man. But, I also like him with me for security. He's a big guy.
Thankfully at the parties I attended there was no need for security.
Generally I only attend sex parties as part of a a couple. I've only gone to a party once as a single male. I guess I just feel like too much of a perv as a single male. Reflecting back on that specific party however it's now a wonder to me that I don't go it alone more often!
The party was organized by a female friend of mine. She made it clear to me in advance that she would be busy with her hostessing duties, would not be available for play, but that I was EXTREMELY welcome. Upon my arrival she made a point of introducing me to three of her newbie/novice lady friends she'd also convinced to attend. I engaged in flirty play with all three together publicly, and ended up having much more with one privately later in the evening.
That sounds like a great party.
Fuckin interesting party wish to join liberation like this..every woman loves DP swinging partners available..two ladies you're lucky...i need parties clubs like that really
I only had sex with one woman at that party.
Same experience when flying solo!
Thanks for stopping by to comment.
Granted, I've only been to the ones where I, or we, have been invited to, so no sex clubs (yet, hopefully
). I find it easier to socialise with a partner in tow. Attending as a single male, I'd imagine the situation you have described to be about as much as expected, or as good as expected. I have known and witnessed single males at these parties going through with having as much of a whiff of sex.
Attending as a single female, you'd get most, if not all the attention, and most often, it's unwanted. At least for me. I'd like to take my time to really check out who I'd want to play with. Both sides has it's own challenges. That's why it's a little easier to navigate with someone in tow.
Nearly all the parties I've attended have been couples party. But having just split from my then partner, I was allowed to attend this party as a single male.
@spunkycumfun Hopefully th next one will prove to be more fun
@partygald My swinging days are over as my new partner isn't up for it!
I usually went to parties with Cowboy, a GF or a lover and sometimes all three. I wasn't tied to any of them though. I often wandered off to ogle various rooms or events. As a busty woman, I was welcomed everywhere. Adult parties can be amazing for a woman and terrible for a man. You were very brave!
Hugs!!
I knew nearly everyone at the party so there was always someone to chat to.
I found it easier to socialize at parties as a single... tho it was always difficult to find any single men at parties. As a straight woman, couples were of no interest unless the man was free to play alone.
At sex parties I found it much easier going as a couple. Most parties I went to were couples-only.
Easier as a single, at least in my case...
Like you, I often prefer being a lone operator unless I don't know anyone at the party.
I am glad you got to enjoy some fun at the house by yourself. I have to say I love hot tubs and hubby and I used to have so much fun in ours when we had one.
I hope you enjoy a wonderful weekend my friend..
Hot tubs are great.
Sadly Spunky, that's something I've never done - either with or without a partner - but have to say, "having sex in a hot tub with bubbling water" - that does sound ..... exciting, amazing!
Hot tub sex is wet sex!
This blog post is part of a series of my swinging moments, not presented in chronological order. See SWINGING MOMENT 1: FROM THE HOT TUB TO THE LOUNGE VIA THE KITCHEN, SWINGING MOMENT 2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS, SWINGING MOMENT 3: NEARLY A DOUBLE-PENETRATION AT A LUXURY HOTEL, SWINGING MOMENT 4: EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FIGHTING!, SWINGING MOMENT 5: SWINGERS HERE LOVE A PREMIER INN!, SWINGING MOMENT 6: JUST WATCHING OTHERS, SWINGING MOMENT 7: HALFWAY AT UTTOXETER, SWINGING MOMENT 8: BLOOD AT A SEX PARTY, SWINGING MOMENT 9: TWO BIG NIPPLES AND ONE BIG COCK, SWINGING MOMENT 10: AN 'ORGY' IN A HOTEL ROOM, SWINGING MOMENT 11: A ZIPLESS FUCK IN A JACUZZI, SWINGING MOMENT 12: NOT SWINGING WITH CANADA, SWINGING MOMENT 13: WOULD YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE CALLED POOPAL?, SWINGING MOMENT 14: THE MAN WITH A CANE AND A NON-PLAYING WIFE, SWINGING MOMENT 15: CALLING KEVIN OUT, SWINGING MOMENT 16: A CARPET BURN, AND NOT FROM SEX!, SWINGING MOMENT 17: TWO VERY LONG DRIVES FOR NOTHING, SWINGING MOMENT 18: SOMETIMES IT'S NOT FAIR, SWINGING MOMENT 19: BEWARE OF CAMBRIDGE SWINGING COUPLES, SWINGING MOMENT 20: A WOMAN TAKES HER MAN FOR A WALK, SWINGING MOMENT 21: A HARLEY DAVIDSON AND A PANG OF JEALOUSY, SWINGING MOMENT 22: A MAGICAL TIME IN LINCOLN, SWINGING MOMENT 23: SEX WITH A 'DIRTY WHORE', SWINGING MOMENT 24: A COUPLES NIGHT AT A SEX CLUB WITH A UNICORN ENDING, SWINGING MOMENT 25: SHROPSHIRE MEETS SHROPSHIRE IN CHESHIRE and SWINGING MOMENT 26: FROM A NEVER ENDING BUKKAKE TO A NOT-SO-HAPPY ENDING BUKKAKE? for other moments.
These posts are solely my recollections. I readily accept that others involved may recall the swinging moments differently, especially the interpretation of the moments.