There was one couple which my partner and I became very good friends with. We just got on. They would hold bareback sex parties for couples - see SWINGING MOMENT 23: SEX WITH A 'DIRTY WHORE' blog post. We always arrived very early to help them out setting up their parties. It takes a lot of time and effort to host a sex party. The couple always insisted on bareback parties which limited them greatly who they could invite. I could never work out the reasoning behind their rule. It's not as if a couple having sex with a condom interferes with their enjoyment of bareback sex with others. Their rule was very much his rule. Once he asked my partner if i was bisexual or bicurious, my partner said that I'm strictly heterosexual. I think he fancied me, at least he had good taste!
The woman of the couple was American, from St. Louis, but she moved over here to marry her partner. That's love! Though they were both swingers, she hated being in the same room as her partner with another woman or, if he got lucky as he was bisexual, another man.
My partner and I were same-room full-swap swingers; they were different-room, full-swap swingers. To compromise, my partner and I often had sex with them while in different rooms. Quite often we didn't have sex with them.
If you are or were part of a swinging coupler, or if you were to be part of a swinging couple, do, did or would you prefer same-room or different-room sex?
For me, the advantage of different-room sex was that the sex was sometimes hotter as there was no worrying about what our respective partners were thinking of at the time. The disadvantage was there was no social and sexual mingling as a foursome.
Because she liked bareback sex, and because I liked sloppy seconds, we would often meet up towards the end of parties for sex. And the sex was hot, especially when she told me that her pussy was full of spunk.
I miss the woman from St Louis. I felt we had a connection.
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I'm with you different room feel the peak of enjoyment with this swing games if I'm in this lucky room someday ...i love this
There are pros and cons to both different-room and same-room swinging. I like both!
Answers ... Same room, different room, it does not matter. I agree with your assessment of different can be hotter because of the privacy. My wife would have a good time with same room sex, but she was a different animal in private and it was great sex ... I could tell she was more relaxed just from the sounds coming from behind the door.
When meeting other couples, we were same room, but at parties we were often different rooms.
We went to a swing club a few times years ago. I loved mingling, watching, and having fun, but Hubby wasn't crazy about it. (Maybe that's why we've done more of the Hotwife Lifestyle). We had sex with others in the same room, sure, but when we were in separate rooms, it was definitely hotter.
Separate rooms does make for less inhibited sex!
I have never been privy to swinging but I feel that if my partner and I were into it, I would prefer to be in separate rooms, swinging.
Opinions are divided in the swinging world on this issue. Same-roomers often argue that it's transparent and also that they enjoy watching their partners have sex. And separate-roomers say that they're less inhibited and don't like watching their partners have sex.
I want cleanup duty
You would have a lot of duties at that party!
lucky man
I was lucky, or at least I was in the right place at the right time!
In my case: different rooms; me fucking a guy in one room while my husband watches a documentary on TV in another LOL
Your husband is one cool dude!
I have to say you have had some very interesting swinging partners and parties my friend. I hope you enjoy a Thursday filled with sexy and fun thrills..
Unfortunately there'll be no more parties for me!
As long as all enjoyed themselves I would say all well and good.
I think everyone enjoyed themselves at the party, which doesn't necessarily mean they all had sex!
The time the blogger from Denver and I hosted her friends at the famous swing club there, it was definitely same room sex. It was a decent sized group, probably about 30 people, so keeping track of on another was we circulated was a bit of a challenge. But when my date saw me about to hookup with another lady she made a point of coming over to watch. That new lady was fun enough, but having my date watch us together made it even more fun! 😁
It was great your partner liked watching you have sex with another woman.
Lawless? I haven't heard anything of her in years.
@russellfireside Yeah, she took up full time residence down in Mexico now and is not active here.
Reread it just now and I have to say there is something so hot about your partner watching and getting so turned on by what your doing with someone else..
@Tmptrzz She was a fun lady for sure!
@CleavageFan4U She sure sounds like it. I hope your Friday is a fun start to your weekend..
This blog post is part of a series of my swinging moments, not presented in chronological order. See SWINGING MOMENT 1: FROM THE HOT TUB TO THE LOUNGE VIA THE KITCHEN, SWINGING MOMENT 2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS, SWINGING MOMENT 3: NEARLY A DOUBLE-PENETRATION AT A LUXURY HOTEL, SWINGING MOMENT 4: EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FIGHTING!, SWINGING MOMENT 5: SWINGERS HERE LOVE A PREMIER INN!, SWINGING MOMENT 6: JUST WATCHING OTHERS, SWINGING MOMENT 7: HALFWAY AT UTTOXETER, SWINGING MOMENT 8: BLOOD AT A SEX PARTY, SWINGING MOMENT 9: TWO BIG NIPPLES AND ONE BIG COCK, SWINGING MOMENT 10: AN 'ORGY' IN A HOTEL ROOM, SWINGING MOMENT 11: A ZIPLESS FUCK IN A JACUZZI, SWINGING MOMENT 12: NOT SWINGING WITH CANADA, SWINGING MOMENT 13: WOULD YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE CALLED POOPAL?, SWINGING MOMENT 14: THE MAN WITH A CANE AND A NON-PLAYING WIFE, SWINGING MOMENT 15: CALLING KEVIN OUT, SWINGING MOMENT 16: A CARPET BURN, AND NOT FROM SEX!, SWINGING MOMENT 17: TWO VERY LONG DRIVES FOR NOTHING, SWINGING MOMENT 18: SOMETIMES IT'S NOT FAIR, SWINGING MOMENT 19: BEWARE OF CAMBRIDGE SWINGING COUPLES, SWINGING MOMENT 20: A WOMAN TAKES HER MAN FOR A WALK, SWINGING MOMENT 21: A HARLEY DAVIDSON AND A PANG OF JEALOUSY, SWINGING MOMENT 22: A MAGICAL TIME IN LINCOLN, SWINGING MOMENT 23: SEX WITH A 'DIRTY WHORE', SWINGING MOMENT 24: A COUPLES NIGHT AT A SEX CLUB WITH A UNICORN ENDING, SWINGING MOMENT 25: SHROPSHIRE MEETS SHROPSHIRE IN CHESHIRE, SWINGING MOMENT 26: FROM A NEVER ENDING BUKKAKE TO A NOT-SO-HAPPY ENDING BUKKAKE? and SWINGING MOMENT 27: A PROWLING WITNESS TO A DOUBLE-PENETRATION for other moments.
These posts are solely my recollections. I readily accept that others involved may recall the swinging moments differently, especially the interpretation of the moments.