At the last party that my partner and I hosted - at the time it wasn't planned to be the last party but events at the party meant that it was the last party - there was one couple with whom we were very good friends. When we first met the couple at a Premier Inn, we all had sex together. We'd often see each other at parties and even for non-sexual activities like watching an ice hockey game.
At the last party, I was chatting to the woman of the couple a few hours into the party. She was a little pissed off that her partner was chasing a woman whom she didn't particularly like. She wasn't going to do anything about it, she was just offloading her feelings to me. I also didn't really like the woman - she was the king fu fighter in SWINGING MOMENT 4: EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FIGHTING! - so we had a bit of common ground and we gossiped about her.
As we were talking, the party was warming up as people were having sex in the upstairs and downstairs bedrooms. The lounge where we were talking had emptied. I suggested to the woman that we retire to the bedroom for sex. She said yes. My lucky pants had worked yet again!
As I got up from the sofa, I offered my hand out to her. She grabbed it and I led her to the downstairs bedroom. There were a few people having sex in the room but there was still space on a harem-style mattress laid out on the floor.
I clumsily started to undress the woman while also undressing myself. I didn't fall down as I prised my jeans from my legs. The woman lay on the mattress and I got on top of her. After a little bit of kissing and licking her nipples, I could sense my cock was close to her pussy. The woman's face seemed happy, so I gently slid my cock into her pussy. It felt good; this was a perfect fit. While kissing her and telling her how turned on I was, we fucked hard. After what I hope was 30 minutes but probably was more like five minutes, I came. She then squeezed her pussy onto my cock still inside. I was getting turned on again, especially knowing that I had already spunked inside her. We fucked again and I came again, the first time I had come one after the other without a rest.
However, when I came round from having sex, the reality of the party started to dawn on me. There was hardly anyone at the party. One of my friends at the party explained that my partner wasn't happy at what I was doing with the woman and she went ballistic at the party. Nearly everyone felt uncomfortable and left the party to drive back home or retire to local hotels. Unusually no couple crashed out for the night. It seemed in my heightened state of sexual desire I was oblivious to the furore going on around me.
What was the last party, obviously including a non-sexual party, you went to? Was it a good party?
With everyone having left the party, I went to bed with my partner already in bed, I decided this wasn't the best time to talk. I was furious. But I still woke up furious and embarrassed. We spoke the next day. My defence was that I hadn't broke any agreement between us and I wasn't sneakily having sex with a woman, my partner's defence was that she was jealous. That was our last party, how could we have hosted another party with all that drama? Who would have come even if we had decided to hold another one?
I've always thought back on the last hosted sex party and think what could have been done differently, particularly what I could have done differently. I'm at a loss. My partner and I spoke regularly about swinging and sex parties and agreed about our rules of engagement. I think the problem was me having sex with the woman in open view while both very much enjoying the fuck. I should have gone upstairs to fuck the woman!
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My last sex party was in February… if three people count as a party. Then I have been in other two non sex parties, with the ocasión of friends’ birthdays, though there were three men present with whom I had sex in the past… well, plus my husband 😀
I count three or more people having sex as a sex party!
It doesn't seem like you did anything wrong. Perhaps the demon drink gave your ex the courage (perhaps not the right word) to make her feelings clearer.
I'm sure her alcohol intake didn't help things as I did absolutely nothing wrong.
So sorry to hear this
It was a sad end to my swinging days! Thanks for stopping by.
It's weird how she went ballistic considering she had a good idea of what happens at your parties. It doesn't sound like you broke any rules.
I definitely didn't break any rules. She had even seen me shag this woman before while she was shagging her partner. It's a mystery, albeit an alcohol-fuelled mystery!
So you were allowed to have sex with other women but you were NOT supposed to really, really enjoy it? That's just weird. Though the back to back, amazing shaggings might have made her jealous. You never did that with her ....
Last party was Sunday. I hosted at the last moment by request. Grand girl birthday party. It went well.
My partner had many good shags from me especially after a party.
I always enjoy a good birthday party, especially my birthday party of guests bring presents!
I would think it would be hard to be in a swinging lifestyle without a little drama creeping in now and then. I'm kind of relieved that at the couple of swing parties HWD and I have gone to, most of his interactions were with men. For some reason that scenario doesn't make me insecure. Yay for bi men.
This was the first and last drama involving me. there were a couple of other incidents of drama, more melodrama really, but I wasn't involved.
Haven't had a sex party in ages.... my ex and I used to host but fortunately never experienced any jealousy or weird feelings when it came to that. Always low key, laid back fun. Regular parties? Just a few weeks ago I had about 8 people over for a "close the pool" party!
That was the only time that had happened. Unfortunately it marked the last time!
Gee ... I sure hope you didn't call the woman by your partner's name during the shag.
I've never been to a sex party though I have been to a sex toy sales party. My last party was in May, for my birthday. A group of us did an Escape Room experience.
Thankfully I didn't make that mistake.
You are making me rethink some things about swinging
What things? In a good way or a bad way?
Hadn't been to any kind of party in 30 years. A birthday party for a cousin, was good saw lots of old friends. Left a bit early only toward end when we're assembling for a group picture. Since don't like having my picture taken was just time to depart. Memories of have been tarnished by: his parents first cousin his mother moving without informing then her husband doing something behind my back resulting in me losing 100,00 $ , their all falling into the extremist MAGA cult. The young man somewhat stupid was tested for forms of mental disability, I actually got him into a University, then into my College fraternity which was difficult as he repaid by trying hard to flunk out
Actually did go to a party about 10 years ago a crayfish boil by a chapter of fraternity celebrating our founding there 50 years prior. Didn't drink. Decided to eat alone on back of loaner truck tailgate. Lots of great old friends . Lots of memories. One guy obviously afraid of me ( next few sentences from 20 years prior) as he use to talk s..t about me behind my back and encouraged another to f with me. The other had picked up tossed out of my way then told . instigator if ever heard of him doing any of this again would put him in the hospital. He obviously remembered and this when in amazing shape spending 4 house a day in the gym. We'll reconnected with many and still in touch with. At the event a chapter president and former football player after speech came directly to me as opened arms gave each other big hugs. After man from our group who became national president of our organization the same thing. Second one mentioned had just retired from ATF. I often think of my thousands of friends, and brothers from other mothers
Some parties are good, and some parties aren't. It just would be helpful for advance notice to be given!
Sounds like a fun party... to bad it was the last.
I was very sad the day after knowing it probably was my last party.
@spunkycumfun ... spunkycumfun, party of one...
@Gramtooter I have a sex party for one whenever I masturbate!
@spunkycumfun ... lol
I am glad you enjoyed yourself but I am sorry that led to your last party, as I know how much you enjoyed them.
I hope you have a wonderful weekend..
I was quite sad after this party knowing it was the last party!
Hummm, so the problem was you fucked this woman without your partner being present, or that you enjoyed her so much that you came twice in quick succession - something presumably you'd never done with your partner?
The last party I went to wasn't really billed as a sex party, just a social party of kink-inclined people. It was outdoors, in August, so very steamy (climate-wise, not sexually). After it got dark enough, people did switch to their naughty outfits. An indoors/air-conditioned area was available for scening, but no one partook of it. My date and I were a bit disappointed in that, but it was the only party available to attend that matched both of our schedules. We COULD have "gotten things started" but for whatever reason did not.
To this day, I haven't got a clue why my partner was upset. She has seen me have sex with the woman before and she had sex with at least one man that night. Obviously alcohol didn't help things but that doesn't explain her reaction.
This blog post is part of a series of my swinging moments, not presented in chronological order. See SWINGING MOMENT 1: FROM THE HOT TUB TO THE LOUNGE VIA THE KITCHEN, SWINGING MOMENT 2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS, SWINGING MOMENT 3: NEARLY A DOUBLE-PENETRATION AT A LUXURY HOTEL, SWINGING MOMENT 4: EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FIGHTING!, SWINGING MOMENT 5: SWINGERS HERE LOVE A PREMIER INN!, SWINGING MOMENT 6: JUST WATCHING OTHERS, SWINGING MOMENT 7: HALFWAY AT UTTOXETER, SWINGING MOMENT 8: BLOOD AT A SEX PARTY, SWINGING MOMENT 9: TWO BIG NIPPLES AND ONE BIG COCK, SWINGING MOMENT 10: AN 'ORGY' IN A HOTEL ROOM, SWINGING MOMENT 11: A ZIPLESS FUCK IN A JACUZZI, SWINGING MOMENT 12: NOT SWINGING WITH CANADA, SWINGING MOMENT 13: WOULD YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE CALLED POOPAL?, SWINGING MOMENT 14: THE MAN WITH A CANE AND A NON-PLAYING WIFE, SWINGING MOMENT 15: CALLING KEVIN OUT, SWINGING MOMENT 16: A CARPET BURN, AND NOT FROM SEX!, SWINGING MOMENT 17: TWO VERY LONG DRIVES FOR NOTHING, SWINGING MOMENT 18: SOMETIMES IT'S NOT FAIR, SWINGING MOMENT 19: BEWARE OF CAMBRIDGE SWINGING COUPLES, SWINGING MOMENT 20: A WOMAN TAKES HER MAN FOR A WALK, SWINGING MOMENT 21: A HARLEY DAVIDSON AND A PANG OF JEALOUSY, SWINGING MOMENT 22: A MAGICAL TIME IN LINCOLN, SWINGING MOMENT 23: SEX WITH A 'DIRTY WHORE', SWINGING MOMENT 24: A COUPLES NIGHT AT A SEX CLUB WITH A UNICORN ENDING, SWINGING MOMENT 25: SHROPSHIRE MEETS SHROPSHIRE IN CHESHIRE, SWINGING MOMENT 26: FROM A NEVER ENDING BUKKAKE TO A NOT-SO-HAPPY ENDING BUKKAKE?, SWINGING MOMENT 27: A PROWLING WITNESS TO A DOUBLE-PENETRATION, SWINGING MOMENT 28: THE WOMAN FROM ST LOUIS and SWINGING MOMENT 29: MY BEST EVER DINNER PARTY for other moments.
These posts are solely my recollections. I readily accept that others involved may recall the swinging moments differently, especially the interpretation of the moments.