On moving to Nottingham, I think the city corrupted me!, I had a friend-with-benefits. On my suggestion, she was keen to go to a local sex club. When I say a local sex club, the club wasn't in Nottingham as the council took a dim view of licensing such establishments.
The club - see SEX CLUBS I'VE BEEN TO: LIBERTY ELITE - was about 30 miles from Nottingham. My friend and I went to this club a few times. There was a routine, I do love good routines. I'd book a bedroom at the club, it's one of the few sex clubs here where bedrooms can be booked. The bedroom was very basic, but it had an en-suite bathroom and the bed linen was clean. I'd also book a taxi to take us there and book a taxi the morning after to collect us from the club to take us back to Nottingham.
We went to the club on a Saturday, which was always a couples-only night. Friday was couples and singles (usually single men) night.
On arrival at the club, we'd go to our bedroom. I'd unpack my stuff, my friend didn't seem to have much stuff to unpack. I arrived with a small suitcase, and my friend would just arrive as she was with no baggage. As per routine, we always had sex before we entered the club.
After entering the club, I had to pay and sometimes even show proof of my identity and proof of my address. We'd go to the bar where we would order some drinks. Provided I gave my bank card over, we could run a bar tab. And moreover, we'd be given a rubber wrist band with an identifying number and a locker key. The rubber wrist band, the type you wore as a kid in a swimming pool, was our identity at the bar.
Though I had been to this club once before - see SWINGING MOMENT 40: MY WIFE AT A SEX CLUB, I was a fish out of water. I had no clue how sex clubs work or, to be more precise, how sex works at a club.
After my friend and I had downed a bottle of wine in the bar, we decided to get undressed in the changing rooms leaving our clothes and valuables in a locker and enter the club's play room.
On entering the play room, we sat on a bed and just watched others in the play room. A few couples were having sex but many weren't. I was confused and my friend was confused as what was happening. Looking back, it was the couples who knew each other that were having sex, and the couples who didn't know other couples, like us, weren't having sex. Couples' night at a sex club can feel a bit cliquey.
My friend and I were getting frustrated and even bored. No one was coming to our bed for sex. So naively I decided to approach a neighbouring bed where a foursome was having sex. I tapped one of the guys on their shoulder and asked whether they wanted company. It was clear from the look of his face that they didn't.
After that rejection, and understandable rejection as swinging isn't a free-for-all, I retreated to the bed where my friend was. Soon after, a woman came over to us and asked us to join her and her partner on their bed. We soon went over.
My friend and I swapped partners. Because I had no condoms on me, I didn't have penetrative sex with the woman; instead I came over her which I'm sure was fulfilling for her, not.
Have you ever not had sex because there was no condom?
At this time I noticed the other man was fucking my friend. I asked her afterwards whether a condom was used. She laughed at me and said of course not. My friend was a minx, a dirty minx - see SWINGING MOMENT 11: A ZIPLESS FUCK IN A JACUZZI, SWINGING MOMENT 24: A COUPLES NIGHT AT A SEX CLUB WITH A UNICORN ENDING, SWINGING MOMENT 32: PIMPING AT A CLUB and SWINGING MOMENT 37: A PLANNED FOURSOME IN LEXINGTON PLACE. I do miss her. While having sex, she once told me that she loved me. Because I didn't love her, I decided to not hear her and to carry on fucking her!
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Fuckin great love to get this exceptional experience
It was a great experience.
I've refrained from full intercourse in the absence of protection, but carried on to a very satisfying conclusion for us both!
As you say, it is possible to have lots of fun without penetrative sex.
Interesting post. I've been to dungeons but not an actual sex club like the one you described. But to your question: yes, I once had the opportunity to have sex with a female I had just met but decided not to due to not having a condom and kept it on manual. Really wanted to bang my head against the wall for not being prepared LOL!
It's always a bummer not being prepared!
Thanks for stopping by.
@LovingOral1964 Well the dungeon is mainly for bdsm play. Yes, you may have sex, but mainly as a consequence or as part of the bdsm play. But having vanilla sex without bdsm play is not seen as appropriate in a bdsm dungeon. You could but it wouldbt be ettiquette. If i understood correctly, in thos sex club, you meet other folks and if you feel a connection you can go to an area where you can have regular/vanilla sex. I figure you could also play bdsm if all involved were interested, but not necessary, and it suppose it would actually be a rarity.
My comment has been denied, the bug is still at work. But I got to upload my post and is already published.
As I thought, the glitch seems to only have been partially fixed. Uploads of posts, comments, etc seem now okay but there are still arbitrary denials, How can this site fuck up so much repeatedly?
@spunkycumfun yes… and they are talking about an experiment of I don’t know what kind of app in smartphones… 🙄🙄
@AuraAviatik6 When this site plans experiments, one knows a disaster is about to happen. It lacks technical capability.
Yes
That's one more letter than @OddsAgainst's comment though he did have a full stop at the end!
I have had sex with or without condom. I prefer without but if my partner is one who I think has been around, I will opt for the condom.
Never been to a sex club before, and i would be open to it just to see how things are and if my partner and I would be willing to dabble in partaking is another matter i am not sure if I would or wouldn't. A little coaxing never hurts.
Sex clubs are over-rated in my opinion, but much depends on who you go with.
I don't understand why, but my comments to this post are systematically denied... ????
Site for ed up all day. For example when try put in an emoji like your frown above site turns it into a question mark. Had 15 404 error pages.
@bignicktx Yes I think that after the site error yesterday here in Community, the system has troubles with the special ASCII characters and replaces them by the interrogation or directly rejects the comment or post
The site is playing up badly of late. Posts, comments and replies are either slow to upload or are get greeted with a 404 message!
Interesting, A woman that I was seeing years ago, just for sex, did not like me wearing a condom. She played around a lot with other Men and Women. I still indulged in sex with her and she was great in the sac, but I dodged a bullet but not picking up any std's from her. But she was so hot and aggressive during sex..and what she did to me felt great..I didn't have a chance to even put a condom on. Sex clubs can be hit and miss, depending who is there playing.
Generally I found sex clubs quite disappointing. A lot depends on who you go with.
Yes, A woman I met at a friends beach barbecue. We ended up back at her hotel room. We showered together and made sure we got all the sand out of each others cracks and crevasses, then found our way to the bed. Our mouths explored each others intimate areas. I spun around and took position between her legs when she put her hands on my shoulders to stop me. She said I can't have intercourse with her, but as long as you you don't penetrate we could continue. I lowered my hips over her vulva, my cock resting between her lips. She was really wet and the smooth slippery sensation was amazing. She wrapped her hands around my ass and guided them back and forth, pressing my cock against her pussy, letting out little squeals with every stroke. It didn't take long and soon exploded my cum on her belly.
She came back to town on business a couple more times. We met up to get our release, all the time playing by the same ground rules.
I don't think I could have been so disciplined as you!
No as the few partners I had in my life didn't like to use them. Another great swinging story you shared. It's too bad you didn't have a condom to use at that swinging moment.
I hope your Monday continues to be a marvelous start to your Thanksgiving week..
I've now learnt to always carry a condom with me!
@spunkycumfun You were naked ... where would you have carried the condom? I'm surprised the club didn't have condoms in a bowl on the counter.
@superbjversion2 That's my belated defence. Though there were no condoms in the club's main play room, they sold them at the bar. But that would have meant a passion-killing trek!
I'm guessing the lady that approached you saw you approach the other couple and thus knew you were "in play" so to speak, so in the end it was a good move on your part.
The first time I had sex at a swingers club it was in the pool so we never even considered attempting to use a condom. My date, and long time veteran of the place, told me basically no one used condoms there ever.
I was more or less a sex club virgin at the time so I assumed, which isn't unreasonable, that condoms are required.
I have never been to a sex club but have wanted to. I talked it over with an old lover of mine and we were going to hit up a club in San Francisco that we knew of, but it never materialized. As for refusing sex when no condom around? Only once. I am neurotic about STIs so I always have them available when I think sex is even remotely possible. Only that once I was caught off guard.
Normally I am prepared with condoms but not that time!
I don't know why would you go to a swinging club and bring your friends? Wouldn't it be cheaper to stay at home and fuck? I'm not talking about you and your friend. I'm talking about all the couples that seem to be clicky.
It would have been cheaper to stay at home and fuck. You've got a good point there but there's a certain frisson about going to a naughty club with all the possibilities in one's head!
This blog post is part of a series of my swinging moments, not presented in chronological order. See SWINGING MOMENT 1: FROM THE HOT TUB TO THE LOUNGE VIA THE KITCHEN, SWINGING MOMENT 2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS, SWINGING MOMENT 3: NEARLY A DOUBLE-PENETRATION AT A LUXURY HOTEL, SWINGING MOMENT 4: EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FIGHTING!, SWINGING MOMENT 5: SWINGERS HERE LOVE A PREMIER INN!, SWINGING MOMENT 6: JUST WATCHING OTHERS, SWINGING MOMENT 7: HALFWAY AT UTTOXETER, SWINGING MOMENT 8: BLOOD AT A SEX PARTY, SWINGING MOMENT 9: TWO BIG NIPPLES AND ONE BIG COCK, SWINGING MOMENT 10: AN 'ORGY' IN A HOTEL ROOM, SWINGING MOMENT 11: A ZIPLESS FUCK IN A JACUZZI, SWINGING MOMENT 12: NOT SWINGING WITH CANADA, SWINGING MOMENT 13: WOULD YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE CALLED POOPAL?, SWINGING MOMENT 14: THE MAN WITH A CANE AND A NON-PLAYING WIFE, SWINGING MOMENT 15: CALLING KEVIN OUT, SWINGING MOMENT 16: A CARPET BURN, AND NOT FROM SEX!, SWINGING MOMENT 17: TWO VERY LONG DRIVES FOR NOTHING, SWINGING MOMENT 18: SOMETIMES IT'S NOT FAIR, SWINGING MOMENT 19: BEWARE OF CAMBRIDGE SWINGING COUPLES, SWINGING MOMENT 20: A WOMAN TAKES HER MAN FOR A WALK, SWINGING MOMENT 21: A HARLEY DAVIDSON AND A PANG OF JEALOUSY, SWINGING MOMENT 22: A MAGICAL TIME IN LINCOLN, SWINGING MOMENT 23: SEX WITH A 'DIRTY WHORE', SWINGING MOMENT 24: A COUPLES NIGHT AT A SEX CLUB WITH A UNICORN ENDING, SWINGING MOMENT 25: SHROPSHIRE MEETS SHROPSHIRE IN CHESHIRE, SWINGING MOMENT 26: FROM A NEVER ENDING BUKKAKE TO A NOT-SO-HAPPY ENDING BUKKAKE?, SWINGING MOMENT 27: A PROWLING WITNESS TO A DOUBLE-PENETRATION, SWINGING MOMENT 28: THE WOMAN FROM ST LOUIS, SWINGING MOMENT 29: MY BEST EVER DINNER PARTY, SWINGING MOMENT 30: THE LAST PARTY, SWINGING MOMENT 31: AN EMBARRASSING INCIDENT IN THE TOILETS, SWINGING MOMENT 32: PIMPING AT A CLUB, SWINGING MOMENT 33: FUNCTIONAL VERSUS SOCIAL SWINGING, SWINGING MOMENT 34: FALLING ASLEEP ON A TOILET, SWINGING MOMENT 35: THE BEAUTIFUL AND THE UNWASHED, SWINGING MOMENT 36: BAREBACK SEX IN RETFORD, SWINGING MOMENT 37: A PLANNED FOURSOME IN LEXINGTON PLACE, SWINGING MOMENT 38: FOND MEMORIES OF SHIRLEY, SWINGING MOMENT 39: A PRE-SWINGING ENCOUNTER, SWINGING MOMENT 40: MY WIFE AT A SEX CLUB, SWINGING MOMENT 41: THIS IS HOW I GOT INTO SWINGING and SWINGING MOMENT 42: A GANGBANG AT A SEX PARTY for other moments.
These posts are solely my recollections. I readily accept that others involved may recall the swinging moments differently, especially the interpretation of the moments.