The title of this post is the first sentence of my profile.
If you look at my profile, it's the first thing you see.
Even if you read no further, you can't miss this line.
It's also the preference that gets ignored the most often.
In a recent post by @CleavageFan4U, he asked about meeting lovers through friends.
In my comment, I mentioned one instance.
He said it was a little cougary.
The guy was 20 to my 34.
But I don't think it counts.
We were hooked up, to hook up, by a mutual friend.
But BJ ... what about the man who was 32 when you were 55?
Or the one that was 36 to your 63?
Those don't count, either.
Cougars deliberately seek out young men.
I have never looked for someone more than 10 years younger.
I have always been the one sought after.
I am not the predator.
I am the prey.
Sometimes, I simply allow myself to be caught. 😎
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I'm with you. A cougar seeks younger men. If they just happen to be younger, thats just a number thing. Not a lifestyle.
Exactly!
Well you are definetly a beautiful catch 💋..
That is sweet of you to say so.
I don't think you are a cougar. It's all down to intentions/motivations.
Thank you, young man! But on this site, every older woman is assumed to be a cougar by every young man.
And there is nothing wrong with being caught. I do agree with your definition.
So many labels, too little blogging time. 😄
@superbjversion2 If too little blogging time, sounds like you're keeping busy....
Is there such a thing as "unintentional cougary"? (hmmm)
(thoughtfully, puts pipe in mouth and begins to ponder)
Based on my personal experience, the answer is ... yes.
Yup.....agreed BJ.
Its a Mars/Venus thinking thing......some guys will never get it, as they put their own spin on it~
It's that American Pie mentality.
Hmmm... so you say.
I've been victimized by a slick-talking member of your pride who was more than twice my age. I was a puppy, barely into my first job, and — in addition to martinis — she liked my suit and tie. In town on business, she invited me to explore her hotel room. Little did I know it was just an excuse to get naked and use me... over... and over again.
I survived with only a few scratches. 😶
I was 17, she was 29!! The only thing I complained about was that she never came back! I have never liked "One and Done"
I'm sorry for your pain. You've never chased an older woman since, I'm guessing. 🙃
I totally can see the distinction.
@hippiechick1967 Fall? Heck, they pry open the jaws and climb in!
Intent is everything.
Ahhh, ok, I understand now. It all has to do with intent! I get it, I've fallen into some pussies by accident too. 🤣
I doubt very much that you have ever fallen into a pussy by accident.