I've recently received several videos from people I connected with on AFF. Unfortunately, they made me feel very uncomfortable — and honestly, deeply disrespectful toward the women involved.
In these videos, there are couples (one man and one woman) having sex, but it's painfully obvious in some cases that the woman had no idea a hidden camera was recording her. In another video, the woman appears completely unconscious. What concerns me most is that these videos come from profiles that present themselves as couples or married partners. Yet it's always the man who messages me, saying things like “my partner/wife is interested in you,†while the woman never appears in the conversation herself.
When I questioned why they created or shared these kinds of videos and what their intentions were, the men consistently claimed:
• “My partner knows about it and loves making this kind of content.â€
• “She even suggested sharing it with others.â€
I find this very hard to believe. So, to any genuine couples on AFF:
Do you truly want your partner sending intimate videos of you (especially ones that may involve hidden recording or non-consensual elements) to strangers online?
I have serious doubts that both partners are truly aware of — and fully consenting to — this kind of sharing. It feels more like a red flag for potential non-consensual filming, revenge content, or outright deception.
Consent and mutual respect should be non-negotiable. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.
Thank you for reading.
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Have you reported it to the site?
no as they are not upload to AFF
Agree with you on this Winsie.
Maybe there's something we can do about it.
what's that?
@winsie_sex have you tried to get to the bottom of it?
@Light1up sorry I can't get what u mean
Who was it?
I don't want to make him aware of it as he can change his identity
Was that a chemical assault?
Not sure, maybe alcohol or other chemicals
@winsie_sex Irrespective this has been sanctioned recently in France by 30 years of prison. Have you heard about this sordid chemical manipulation and sexual assault in a group by the husband himself?
@FabianoTirrozi I haven't heard about it.
@winsie_sex If you are interested , I invite you to read the story of Gisèle Pelicot revealed in 2024. Against her will she was drugged by her husband who invited strangers to rape her. The trial has huge impact worldwide on the rights of women and the liberation to not feel ashamed. Thank you for your reply. I hope this is not happening in Hong Kong where you live freely your sexuality. Stay safe and cautious.
@FabianoTirrozi will read it. thx for sharing.
Ese tipo de hombres espantan a mucha gente aqui
Bad guys always around us.
@winsie_sex lamentablemente basta con uno malo para envenenarnos a todos
@Telovoy74 yes that’s why i need to make ladies aware of that.
I agree with you Winsie...
Yes, I can see the red flag in that
It's one thing to record sex for your own enjoyment, but then sending then spreading them around the internet? If she's unconscious, she's either passed out drunk, or been drugged. It reminds me of what happened to a friend of mine, except there was no filming >
. The only thing that you can do is block them completely, so they can't even see you. Consent and respect are paramount, betrayal is unacceptable.
Hope my words can make ladies here aware of that.
Wow, its quite disturbing that somebody would not only have sex with someone while they are unconscious but film it and then think its appropriate to share it with strangers. I feel sorry for the women involved. They may have no idea of what is going on, and this perpetuates abuse of women for the gratification of others.
Your right to bring this to the forefront and I completely agree.
Hope it can make more ladies here aware of this
You meet all kinds, but if it's not your thing then they shouldn't be bothering you. Very crass to share such material and should clue you in on what kind of people they are!
I can say the men are use ladies body to find another victim